Disadvantages of comparison:
1, life values are distorted.
With the psychology of comparison, the original normal values of life will be distorted and people will become more and more dissatisfied. After seeing what others have new, they will also want it. What they are most afraid of is that adults have the psychology of comparison, which will affect children and lead to their psychology of comparison. It is difficult to get rid of the habit of being infected with the psychology of comparison since childhood, and it will affect your life.
2. Develop the habit of keeping up with the joneses.
Comparison psychology can also be divided into mild symptoms and severe symptoms. Mild symptoms are a preliminary comparison. You may just want to compare with others because they have new schoolbags and pencil boxes, but if the comparison psychology is not stopped in time, you will develop the habit of loving comparison, which is a serious symptom of the comparison psychology.
In the future, you will want to compare with others because of all kinds of small things and big things. This is what people often say: blindly comparing. Forming the habit of loving and comparing with others will make people live a hard life.
3. Have an inferiority complex.
So-and-so was born in a rich second generation family and grew up with a golden spoon. His various clothing items are famous brands, but you are the same age as him, but you were born in an ordinary family. People who love to compare with others often feel inferior and even lift their heads in the face of such a situation.
Seriously, it will produce a series of negative emotions such as jealousy, hatred and feeling unfair, which will greatly affect the development of life.