1. Loneliness is the normal state of life
Go to dinner alone, go to class alone, and go to the library alone. Don't be afraid. Slowly, you will find yourself more independent, stronger and better. Cattle and sheep flock together, the strong are lonely, and one person is more wonderful.
2. Go to bed early and get up early
In college, there are more people who stay up late, but if you insist on going to bed early and getting up early, you will certainly gain a lot. For example, you can spend more time every day, your skin is better, your dark circles are gone, and people are more energetic.
3. Interpersonal relationships
90% of the troubles in life come from interpersonal relationships. The essence of interpersonal communication is value exchange. Only when you are strong can you attract others. For example, your academic performance is among the best, PPT is very good, and you can perform some talent shows ... believe that you are excellent. Don't care if you don't like it. Life is your own, not to please others.
You can experience a part-time job, but don't indulge in it. If you work part-time, you can't add value like reading. Experience the experience, because the value brought by reading is not what you can bring by doing a part-time job. Part-time jobs can benefit you now, and studying can add value to you in the future! So, don't waste your time on study just because you have a part-time job. The money you earn now can be earned back by studying in the future.
It takes more or less generations to think about one thing.
If you want to study top-notch and get a scholarship, it will inevitably reduce your time for rest, socializing and entertainment! After all, you can't have your cake and eat it. If you want something, you will inevitably lose something.
6. A clean image will make you more popular. Clean clothes and good conversation will add points to your image, and most people don't like that oily and sloppy image.
7. Call your parents regularly. /kloc-After 0/8 years old, we will spend less and less time with our parents. Even after work, we rarely see our parents for one year. When you have spare time in college, call at least once a week to reassure people who care about you.
8. 1 Don't leave any certificates in the exam! English CET-4 and CET-6 certificates, driver's license and work-related certificates must be tested. Especially when there is no specialized course in freshman year, there is plenty of time. The sooner you get these cards, the better. Otherwise, the later you wait, the less time you have to take them.
10. Pay more attention to yourself and less compare with others. Some people in college skip classes because their families have money, and they have to go back to inherit property after graduation. You may even find it difficult to find a job in skipping classes. If you really want to compete, you should also compete with people who are better than you. See how they study and express themselves. Practice with excellent people, and you will get better and better.