Since I have been engaged in family education, every time I see such a thing, I feel that family education has a long way to go, except for deep sadness and sigh!
I think every parent needs to reflect on the incident of Xiao Yang, a sophomore: Why did he cheat in the exam? At the same time, in Xiaoyang, we can see his extremely fragile side. Because of cheating in the exam, it was confiscated by the teacher and sacrificed his young life.
So, in the process of children's growth, do you think your life is more important than your grades? Then who gave the child such an illusion, which led to the tragedy!
The child cheated in order to get a high score, but why did she get a high score? This is closely related to the education given to him by his parents, schools and other surrounding environments.
For example, parents instill in their children that they always have to get high marks in order to get ahead and have a position in society.
Every basic communication at home is to ask the children if they have written their homework. Did you review today? What's the exam score? The communication information with children is always about learning. It seems that in the eyes of parents, children are equal to a learning machine. Let the children feel that what parents value most is my academic performance. If my grades are not good, I will be useless. Parents don't notice that a living child needs fatherly love and maternal love, and he needs parents' understanding and care.
For the school, the school entrance examination is an important score for the child, which can't be cared about and understood at all, so the child becomes a victim of the whole education system and a beggar.
This kind of education is absolutely not good for children! On the way to growth. Parents should be the salvation and dependence of children, not the last straw to crush them.