As an important stage of personal development, universities need to think about the course of life and strive to achieve their goals. Many students will be troubled by such and such information. At this time, it is more important to learn to talk to yourself, clear your mind and help yourself to make a clear development direction than to seek advice and listen to other people's experience. Here are several ways to help you get rid of your confusion:
1, broaden your horizons: study, part-time, travel.
1) reading
It is said that books have their own golden houses, and reading makes people wise. You can find the appropriate answers to your confused questions in the sea of books. College students are young, so it is necessary for me to recommend the confused college students to know kazuo inamori and solve their confused thinking through kazuo inamori's life.
By studying philosophy, we can understand the logic and connection between matter and consciousness, and be a young student with sound thinking and normal outlook on life.
By studying natural science, we can understand the vastness and beauty of the world, and understand that as a member of the world, coming to this world is nothing more than knowing the world, and don't close your heart.
By studying history and understanding the history of human development, you can solve the problems of "who am I" and "what am I going to do".
"The book is a huge axe in the frozen mountain in our hearts." It is difficult to get rich minds and correct ideas through reading.
2) Part-time job
This article was written according to my own feelings. Of course, the part-time job mentioned here is not limited to the part-time job of "working", but another job different from "learning". Try to find other positions where you can exercise yourself and get in touch with and know this society in practice. If you have the conditions, you'd better do a part-time job related to your major, which can greatly enhance your professional ability and surpass yourself.
According to personal experience, universities had better not just bury themselves in their studies. Taking part in some activities or jobs that suit you is of great significance to broaden your horizons, enrich your life, and enhance your understanding and perception of life, and you can get rid of the confusion period to a certain extent.
3) Travel
Tourism is not exclusive to the rich, and the student party can also get the pleasure of "poor travel" through personal planning and accumulation. Travel with like-minded people and see the beautiful scenery through fireworks. You don't have to go far, but at least get to know your city well before graduation.
2. Reduce ineffective and negative social interaction.
In college, don't engage in ineffective and negative social interaction on the basis of maintaining independence. If someone instills negative emotions into you every day and brings you negative effects, remember to stay away in time. We only make friends with positive classmates, and don't be influenced by various PUA when the outlook on life is not yet mature.
3. Learn upward and socialize upward
Learn upward, socialize upward, get in touch with excellent people around you, and understand and learn the reasons why they are excellent.
To make friends in daily life, we should take the essence and discard the dross. There are no perfect people in the world, and everyone has their attractive reasons and bright spots. Only by learning this can we give full play to our advantages, make up for our shortcomings, and be an upward self in an upward circle.
Step 4 put the plan into practice
Having said that, the most important thing is to act. Thinking determines action, and action also affects thinking. Only through practice can we open the door to practice and seek the truth we seek. College students, come on!