Dating in the countryside is a very common thing. When two people meet, many people can't find relevant topics. Let me answer the question of rural chat. I hope everyone can get to know each other!
On the opening remarks at the rural blind date 1 1. Listen more and talk less: in blind date, especially when two people meet for the first time, boys should listen more to what the other person has to say. Don't chatter, just listen to what the other person has to say and add it yourself. Talking too much will make people feel insecure, and not following the other side will also lead to silence.
2, look at the other person's personality: when dating, it depends on what personality the other person is, whether it is an extrovert or an introvert. If the other person is not good at talking and doesn't like talking, he should take the initiative, and they are all introverted and don't like talking, so they are not cold. Of course, boys still have to take the initiative to find a topic.
3. Respond to the other person: When chatting, respond to the other person. Silence occurs when one party is talking and the other party doesn't respond. The listening party should respect the other party. If the other person doesn't understand what he is saying, you can listen carefully, nod your head or change the subject.
4. Pay attention to the other person's reaction: when talking and chatting, observe the other person's reaction. If you keep talking alone, the other person is just saying: oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh.
5. Take the initiative to find the same topic: two people have different living environments and different jobs. When chatting, they can find some common topics, for example, talking about their hobbies, favorite sports, favorite movies and so on. And find the same topic, so that the chat will not be cold. Don't ask each other about their past love history when chatting, which will avoid unpredictable results.
6. Don't say everything: Be careful not to say everything when chatting, especially the evaluation of others. When dating, two people should not judge people they are familiar with, otherwise they will have different views and opinions. Isn't that boring? It will also make the other person feel that he is a person who tells people right and wrong behind his back, which will be very cold.
What should I pay attention to when chatting on a blind date?
1, nervous, the root cause is that you lack self-confidence, and you have obstacles and fears in communicating with your sister. How to make yourself confident? You can read books on this subject. If you want to change yourself faster, you can try to take the bus to the streets.
2. Speak softly without enthusiasm. Your voice is too low. If it's a little noisy, my sister can't hear you clearly. Even if you learn more skills, you still can't get girls. Correction: Use the recording function of your mobile phone to record a paragraph you said, and then play it back to feel it. The areas that need to be improved are clear. Secondly, ask your friends about their feelings and let them correct them.
3. Confused thinking and illogical expression. If you want to express a thing or an idea, you need to have good logic. You need to think it over before you reply to the other party. Don't say it without saying a word, which annoys the other party.
4, the brain knowledge reserve is insufficient, as the saying goes, books are less hated. Without knowledge reserve, it may be difficult for you to go deep into the topic. To sum up, impetuous, do not like reading. I have read some books or read some reports, but I haven't sorted them out in time. Indulge in the internet after work and don't care about current events. Sisters will only be attracted by excellent men and strive to improve their overall quality, so there will be many sisters around you.
What are the skills to chat with blind date?
1, talk about each other's hobbies: hobbies are a good topic to start with. Hobbies can be talked about for a long time, so that it won't be cold at first. Hobbies can include many aspects, such as movies being shown recently, ball games, singing, dancing, mountain climbing, fitness and so on.
2. What have you been up to recently? You can talk about your recent life, such as what you did this weekend, where you traveled last month and so on. Share your past life with her.
3. Tell some things about friends around you: You can also tell some interesting things about friends around you, which can show that you have many friends and good popularity, and the other party will have a better impression of you.
4. What books do you like to read: You can also discuss what books you like to read, which can show that you are a person who pays great attention to culture and accumulation, and you can also see her character from the books she reads.
5. Where do you like to travel? Travel is also a very good topic. Talk about the places you want to go. We can make an appointment to travel together. You can check some travel guides in advance to avoid talking about anything.
6. What do you like to eat: Many people are foodies now. Talking about what they eat can help two people quickly find a common language and talk about your local characteristics.
Introduction to rural blind date chat 2 1, hobbies, two people should know the basic information of the object before meeting, so that when you find that the other person actually has the same hobbies as yourself, you can talk about your experiences according to your hobbies, and there will definitely be many topics, at least there will be no embarrassing situation of silence.
2, the work situation, talk about the interesting things encountered in the work, try to use exaggerated humor, so that it can not only increase the highlights, but also play a role in attracting jade. When the other person tells about his work, I believe you have a general understanding of the other person's economic income and financial situation. This is especially suitable for use when it is difficult to ask each other how much it costs.
3, life experience, some people have a lot of work experience, or some people have walked from south to north, not to mention dating 180 times, there will always be many interesting things, nothing to talk about, not only to show their wide knowledge, but also to enliven the atmosphere. Why not?
4, film and television stories, if you are all people who love watching movies and TV series, then you can share the paragraphs you think are classic, or the whole movie, especially the current film and television drama update speed is extremely fast, and you can always find a few humorous and profound fragments for your use.
Looking forward to the future, if two people really like each other, they can talk more about the future, how to invest, how to operate and how to create a better tomorrow. The other party may not be satisfied with you at first, but if you can come up with a blueprint for a better tomorrow, the other party will definitely change a lot for you.
6, customs, if you are a fellow villager, you can also talk about the customs of your hometown and the recent changes. Everyone knows that chatting and chatting have the same topic, and there will be no silence.