Although the causes of stuttering are complicated, we can still be divided into two categories, namely, non-psychological factors and psychological factors.
I. Non-psychological barrier factors
1) intends to imitate
(2) Accept hints
The influence of disease
4) Unexpected impact
(5) Incorrect pronunciation
Second, psychological barriers.
(A) irritable personality
(2) nervousness
Pay too much attention to occasional stuttering
4) The concept of compulsion
Psychological defense to correct stuttering
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A person's mood is closely related to his behavior. When you are in a good mood, you feel relaxed, light-footed and full of energy even when you walk; In a bad mood, I walked dejected and listless. The same is true of stutterers. When they are in a good mood, they will not stutter or their symptoms will be alleviated. Stuttering is very serious when you are in a bad mood. How to keep yourself in a good mood often is good for correcting stuttering or relieving stuttering symptoms. People don't live in a vacuum, they often encounter all kinds of troubles, setbacks and confusions, which often make people feel bad and depressed. There is no doubt that stutterers can use psychological defense methods when facing troubles, setbacks and confusion, so as to alleviate or eliminate stuttering symptoms.
How to carry out psychological defense? The author puts forward the following points for readers' reference:
1. Overcome inferiority with rationalization.
People who stutter feel inferior because they take stuttering too seriously. They look at the defects of stuttering with a magnifying glass and exaggerate the seriousness of stuttering. In the eyes of stutterers, it seems that people look down on them like thieves, so they are also very sensitive to stuttering; I am afraid that others will know that I stutter, so I will try not to let others know that I stutter. Some stutterers have lived with their wives for several years, and the wives actually don't know that their husbands are stutterers. Some stutterers are very sensitive to the word "stuttering". When they see the word "stutter", they will blush with horror, close their eyes quickly and leave the scene. Many stutterers feel uncomfortable when they see others talking fluently, and they can't say what they want to say. Very few stutterers have the idea that life is worse than death, and sometimes they think that death counts.
Some stutterers think that interpersonal communication is very important in modern society. The main means of interpersonal communication is to communicate with people through language, but they stutter and cannot communicate with others. So, I feel that my life is over and I can't do anything. Sighing all day, listless. In fact, the inferiority complex of stutterers is unfounded. People's evaluation of a person mainly depends on his character, morality and behavior, and will not be looked down upon because of stuttering. Of course, there will be some people in society who laugh at stutterers when they stutter, but most of these people just think that patients stutter strangely. They just smile and keep their promises. Only a few people are really up to no good When you stutter and others make fun of you, you can take action to laugh at me, and everyone will laugh it off, so you won't feel embarrassed. Mencius said, "God-given responsibility requires suffering from bones and muscles, starving the body and abdomen, and emptying the body ..." I stutter because it is a gift from God, and it is a great responsibility for me. You haven't had a chance yet!
Many stutterers have achieved great success in their careers. Some of the stutterers I have treated are college students, and some have little research. Professors are factory directors, managers, section chiefs, department heads and PLA officers. For a long time, many stutterers have become world-famous celebrities. Such as Han Yu, a famous scholar in ancient China, Churchill and Sha, a famous contemporary writer. None of them affected their achievements in one aspect because of stuttering. Stuttering does bring a lot of inconvenience to people's speech and has a certain impact on people's career, but it is not a decisive factor. The decisive factor that determines a person's success is his comprehensive quality. These comprehensive qualities are mainly political and ideological quality, scientific and cultural quality, labor skill quality, physical quality and psychological quality, in addition to which there are opportunities. The effect of stuttering is only a small part of it. Therefore, stutterers should never take stuttering too seriously, which will easily lead to inferiority complex and make stuttering more serious.
Many people who stutter think they are inferior to others and feel that they can't lift their heads. In fact, stuttering is a disease. How can you get sick and be teased? Can people eat whole grains without getting sick? The kind of person who laughs at others' illness is really unreasonable and a person with low taste. He laughs at others, which only shows that he is low in character, unworthy of taking it to heart and unhappy. What's more, everyone stutters, even radio and television program hosts sometimes stutter. Don't take accidental stuttering to heart, that is, don't care. If you don't care about it, it will gradually disappear. On the contrary, if you care, stuttering will become more and more serious. In this sense, the stuttering hat is put on by yourself.
2. See your success with psychological compensation, and then overcome stuttering.
We should firmly believe this truth-"I was born to use it." The world is rich and colorful, and the talents needed are also diverse. Everyone should have a place to play their talents in this world. Everyone has potential abilities. Everyone has his strengths and weaknesses, so we should foster strengths and avoid weaknesses. A considerable number of stutterers have achieved initial success or signs of success in a certain aspect, which is the result of his unconscious use of psychological compensation. If some stutterers find it difficult to speak at ordinary times, they choose occupations that use less language, such as accounting and computer industry. They study hard in this field, and after a few years, they have made some achievements in this field, so they will look down on stuttering and care less about it than in the past. Don't worry about stuttering, it will get better gradually. Some people who stutter pay too much attention to their stuttering, which will only cover up their success or bury their specialties. Know a truth: nothing is difficult in the world. No matter how difficult it is, as long as you make up your mind to overcome it, you can turn it into an easy thing. It is not difficult to correct stuttering, as long as you make up your mind, you can certainly overcome it. If stutterers believe this, they will succeed in correcting stuttering, and the free kingdom of language belongs to stutterers. There is a junior high school student in Wuxi. He got good grades in primary school. Because of his stuttering, the school teacher gave someone a place to go directly to a key junior high school, which greatly stimulated him. From then on, he made up his mind to correct his stuttering and try not to hinder his future because of stuttering. As a result, he went to Shanghai to find the author. In the process of correction, he worked hard, and the stuttering symptoms disappeared after a few days. The author once treated a stutterer, not only corrected his stuttering, but also got one. Develop your language ability step by step, improve your eloquence, and become an excellent insurance agent in the factory.
3. Use catharsis to eliminate pain and overcome stuttering
A considerable number of people eat it because an accidental stuttering phenomenon has been laughed at and caused themselves pain. For example, a classmate stuttered when answering a teacher's question in class, which caused the whole class in the factory to burst into laughter. This kind of stimulation, like a sharp knife inserted in his heart, made him extremely painful and ashamed. He suppressed this pain in his subconscious, and as a result, he became a stutterer unconsciously. Another example is that a middle school student is naughty in kindergarten, and a female classmate in the same class stutters. He thought it was funny, so he imitated her stuttering. The girl was made to cry by her, and the teacher punished him for standing in the toilet all day. At this point, he also stuttered. If he went home that day and told his parents about it, he would not necessarily become a stutterer. At that time, he felt it was disgraceful to be punished by the teacher and was afraid to tell his parents. Another example is that a young woman has just cured her stuttering. Once, an unreasonable person in the unit inexplicably scolded her in front of everyone, and she was so angry that she couldn't say a word. She was in great pain and tearfully found the author to tell her story of being bullied. Because she was in a better mood, she became fluent.