It was the deep winter of 20 15. I took the train from Kunming to Zhengzhou, and it took me more than 24 hours. Considering the long time, I bought a soft sleeper, but it was also the only soft sleeper I had ever sat on. It turns out that as long as the money is in place, taking the train can be so comfortable.

As soon as I got on the bus and entered the box, I was alone. I thought I was the only one in this soft sleeper box. So lonely. That was not the case. After five or six minutes, a girl with a height of nearly 1 m 65 walked into the box. I was very shy at that time. I'm so nervous that my palms are sweating and I don't know what to say.

She packed her things and fell asleep in bed. I glanced at them from time to time. As we all know, everyone has a love of beauty.

In order to break the deadlock, I found an excuse to get hot water (mainly because there was no water in her cup), picked up my mouthwash cup and stood up, then asked her: I'll get hot water, do you want me to get you a cup? She quickly said no, thank you.

My plan didn't succeed, so I went out with a mouthwash.

First impressions are always important, because she likes me when I do this. She also asked me if I would eat snacks. Of course, I can't miss this opportunity.

After getting on the bus for four or five hours, we chatted happily, exchanged various life issues, and added WeChat. Up to now, we are still chatting enthusiastically, but we only meet good friends once.

User 1:

As a college student, I often encounter this situation. I am also an introverted boy. When I came home during my freshman summer vacation, there was a beautiful girl opposite. I can't help secretly looking at her. Finally, I pretended to look at my mobile phone and photographed her on it, because it was really beautiful.

After an hour of stalemate, I took out the food and asked her if she had eaten it. She said no, and I asked her where she was from. He said it was Tianshui, a train from Shijiazhuang to Tianshui.

If you happen to see it, please trust me privately. I forgot to ask for your contact information at that time, and I was depressed for a long time.

That night, we talked all the time, from outlook on life, horoscope to family, until 7 o'clock the next day. That was the happiest time for me to take the train. I got on the train the next day, and I helped her carry the box, feeling a little reluctant.

Having said so much and shared my story, I just want to explain one truth to you. Being together again is a kind of fate. If you are a boy, please take the initiative to chat with you, which will make the boring journey more enjoyable.

If the other person doesn't want to have more intersection with you, it doesn't matter, at least you are polite.

What's more, if you are single, then maybe this is the marriage arranged by God for you. Nothing is impossible in the world.

Netizen 2:

Waiting for the bus at the train station that summer vacation, I saw four or five girls coming to watch a girl get on the bus, chattering and laughing.

When I left the car for more than half a minute, the girl said to me, big brother, take care of my luggage. I'll see them off. Thank you. Then she pushed the suitcase and a bag to me and went out.

However, almost everyone who has been to the station has left. She hasn't come back yet. I don't know if she is in this car, and I'm afraid I'll miss it myself! I don't know her, and I don't have any contact information, but I'm worried sick!

I craned my neck and looked around. Finally, in a few minutes, she hurried and ran on the bus together. It was such a coincidence that she got on the bus with me and was still in the same carriage, but several rows away, she changed seats with the person opposite me and said that she would sit with her brother and take out a bunch of snacks. That's how we met.

She is particularly lively and generous, and she is also beautiful. She is not afraid of life at all. More than ten minutes' journey, she chatted happily. She also took out a pair of military chess to play with me. She also cheated like other girls, feeling as if she had known each other since childhood.

Later, she got off the bus more than an hour earlier than me, gave me some snacks and military chess, and left her contact information. Now, more than five years have passed, and in the early years, she kept in touch intermittently and talked about her study or work life.

Then she had a boyfriend, I had a girlfriend, and we gradually lost touch. But the military chess has been preserved until now, and I am reluctant to throw it away. .

Netizen 3:

What a coincidence, I have had such an experience, and I still feel sorry when I think about it now.

20 14 First business trip to Inner Mongolia. At that time, I thought, anyway, the train company will reimburse me, and the plane can be reimbursed at a 20% discount or lower, so I took the soft berth. After such a long time, I might meet a girl.

I have the habit of going on business trips. I like to take 1 or 2 books on literature and history to read on the road. I just got on the train and I was the only one in the carriage. Looking at such a large space and such comfortable seats, it's so fucking cool to sit in a soft sleeper for the first time.

Unconsciously, I arrived at Guangzhou Station. I arrived in Guangzhou as soon as the train stopped. I just think trains are boring. I just came out to get some air. After a while, when it was time to leave, I returned to the carriage. Opposite the lower berth, a girl with headphones and an ipad is watching a video. She looks like a student.

I was looking at her, and her eyes moved from the tablet to me. I immediately looked down and didn't respond to her eyes. Then I stole a look at the girl, and she continued the video. At that time, the scene was suffocating, and I sat on the edge of the shop. I dare not move, my body is very stiff.

In this way, it has been maintained until Wuhan, where the girl got off. She held it for so long that she froze and left without saying a word. What a failure.

I felt heartbroken when I saw the empty shop opposite. At least I can say hello to this girl. Because of my shyness and timidity, I missed the opportunity to meet a girl. I still remember the girl's face, and then I met a family without this relationship.

Netizen 4:

It's really embarrassing. Winter is fine, but summer is even worse.

Once, I took a sleeper back to my hometown, because the distance was not too far and the summer vacation had just passed. I just got on the bus at the first stop, thinking that no one was there, getting ready for bed. As a result, a girl came in, pulling a suitcase and carrying a schoolbag, looked at me, then looked at the sleeper and put down her luggage.

They were all in the lower bunk. I want to sleep, but I always feel uncomfortable. The girl didn't speak, and there was a stalemate for a while. The girl said, "You are a student, too. Are you going back to school?"

The embarrassing situation at that time was actually broken by a girl. I thought, "No, I just graduated, and I've just been practicing for half a year, and I'm ready to go home." The girl replied, "Oh, I thought you were a student".

Then ... after talking for five stops, the girl got off the bus. It turned out that she didn't buy a hard seat, only a sleeper, so she quickly booked a ticket. She used to be a hard seat. She said, after all, it's not far.

The only time two people of the opposite sex were in a carriage, I really wanted to leave her WeChat at that time, but I thought that she was not in the same city as myself, so forget it.

How to break the embarrassment? Under normal circumstances, as long as the woman doesn't pay much attention to you and just plays with her mobile phone or listens to music to sleep, then don't disturb others. It seems that no one else wants to say hello to you.

For girls who don't play mobile phones and don't sleep, they will look at you from time to time and even wait for you when they are slightly ready, so don't be "reserved" and take the initiative to say hello to others, and maybe even make a romantic story.

Netizen 5:

I can't tell stories. I have had several such experiences. Let me sum up the experience for you:

1, the man takes the initiative to say hello to the girl, as long as it is decent and not very obscene, it is a normal way to meet. For example: "Hello, my name is XXX, and we are destined to take this bus together. Have a nice trip. "

2. Take the initiative to open the topic. Where are you going? Travel, visit relatives, go home or visit friends. If the other person communicates with you, talk about the topic and respond to you politely. If the other person is particularly cold and doesn't respond, then keep silent, as the case may be. If she asks you anything, you can contact immediately to learn more about this topic and avoid embarrassment.

3. Especially women who get on the bus at night, don't disturb others. Wait until the next day to communicate. It's dawn. You can say hello to each other. Good morning.

4, also depends on the girl's personality, open, naturally familiar, as long as you communicate with her, naturally familiar, because everyone is bored, taking the ordinary train is generally a long distance, it is better to enjoy the communication first.

5, keep a clean image, don't be sloppy, pay attention to hygiene, and let girls have a good impression on you. If you have a good impression, you just need an excuse to open the topic. Once we had the first communication, we basically broke through the embarrassment that everyone said.