I think since the child is still young, he should be allowed to wander outside, and everything should be done while he is young, so that he won't regret that he didn't work hard when he was young, and how many times can he struggle in life?

When children are older and have their own ideas, they can ask their own opinions first. If he is ambitious, let him follow him.

If you are in a corner, it is good to spend time with your parents.

I hope my answer will satisfy you. Thank you for your adoption.