From high school to college, that joy is self-evident. But it didn't take long for some students to have questions: why do you have to arrange your own after-school time? If only there were teachers in the university to take care of them like high school!
Students who have the above ideas may be individual. But it reflects a problem worthy of attention and deep thought, that is, how to spend your college life better?
Some students are used to high school life, and classes, homework, exams and activities are arranged by teachers or class teachers. At first glance, it is really uncomfortable to leave such an environment. How about this kind of management in high school? No comments here for the time being. As far as students are concerned, it is urgent to change their ideas and adapt to college life as soon as possible.
University, like high school, is a kind of school, but it is a special school. It is a temple of higher education and a place for learning. It requires students to actively learn knowledge, delve into knowledge, and then cultivate students' ability to analyze and solve problems. In college, it is of course the teacher who guides and teaches, which is very important. But as far as students' learning progress is concerned, they mainly rely on themselves to explore, learn and struggle. There is an old saying in China: "The master leads the door, and the practice is in the individual." That's what it means.
The German philosopher Jaspers also clearly emphasized this point when talking about the concept of university. He said: "Universities should always run through the idea that college students should be independent and master their own destiny. They attend classes selectively and listen to different opinions, facts and suggestions, so as to make their own tests and decisions in the future. Real college students can set their own learning goals on their own initiative, be good at using their brains and know what their work consciousness is ... This is a spiritual sublimation, and everyone can feel that they are called the greatest people. " From this perspective, the university is a brand-new environment. College students who step into this environment should establish a brand-new consciousness: to be independent and plan their own college life. We can no longer rely on the environment of "someone is in charge of everything" and must change "someone is in charge" into "self-management".
"Self-management" is embodied in all aspects: physical health care, self-care and social communication ... This is the most basic aspect, but more importantly, academic study. There are different majors and specialties, and each student has his own major. What should I learn while learning this major well? What aspects of your knowledge need to be supplemented and improved? These all need to use your head, make plans and see how you do it. In this regard, the experience of the older generation of scholars is worth learning. A scientist with great achievements in science and technology in our country recalled university life and said that in university, we must learn basic knowledge well, but at the same time, we should take other courses according to our own situation and absorb knowledge extensively. Moreover, this kind of absorption is very critical and thoughtful, so it has benefited a lot. This is an experience, but also a useful inspiration, students may wish to learn from it.
College life usually takes three or four years, but it's gone in a blink of an eye and passed quickly. Therefore, it is very urgent and necessary to plan your college life effectively. College students should seize the time, make plans early, strive to learn more knowledge and grow more talents in a limited time, and make greater contributions to the modernization of the motherland after graduation.
Steps of college life planning 1. Be familiar with the environment and adapt to college life. Pay special attention to the psychological adjustment of freshmen. Psychological quality is the key to success. Many freshmen are unable to adapt to the new environment, have poor interpersonal skills, have excessive inferiority complex and lack self-confidence because of insufficient psychological preparation or psychological problems in high school. How can we get everyone to adapt to the new environment as soon as possible and get out of confusion and confusion? We believe that in addition to making full preparations for study, we should also put a correct attitude, conduct self-evaluation and correct positioning, strive to cultivate self-reliance and self-care ability, and learn to grasp ourselves.
2. Determine long-term and short-term goals according to the law of university life, and formulate action plans and contents. Freshman should pay attention to the understanding of the university and the vision of the future career, sophomore should pay attention to the cultivation of basic ability, junior should pay attention to career orientation, and senior should pay attention to career choice or postgraduate entrance examination. Of course, learning is always the most important.
3. Choose methods and means according to the action plan. People vary according to their long-term goals, but generally they have to go through four periods: adaptation period, determination period, sprint period and graduation period. In the first grade, you should improve your interpersonal skills as soon as possible and know your major, especially the career you want to pursue in the future or your major, which is called Boye for short. The second grade is a definite period, mainly to improve their basic quality. If you actively participate in organizations such as student unions or societies, you can start to try part-time jobs and social practice activities. You should consider whether to pursue further studies or employment in the future, and start to selectively minor in other majors to enrich yourself, referred to as general business. The third grade is a sprint period, approaching graduation, taking part in summer jobs related to majors, exchanging job-hunting experience with classmates, learning to write resumes and cover letters, understanding the channels for collecting work information, and actively trying. Choose one or more specific fields in your favorite subject, and then study in depth for one year, which is called choosing a job for short. The fourth grade is the graduation period. At this time, you can make a summary of the preparations for the first three years, and try your best to carry out the exercises when you are fully prepared. Go to a real internship. If there is a direct company and job, you should introduce yourself. If not, then you need to find the most relevant company and job.
Matters needing attention in college life planning In order not to affect the planning effect, college students should pay special attention to the following issues when planning college life:
1. Career planning should be equal to college life planning. Career planning is an important part of college life planning, but it cannot replace college life planning.
2. Don't be eager for quick success. The goal should be based on your own wishes. You should not rush to prepare for the postgraduate entrance examination or find a job. You should pay attention to improving your comprehensive quality, ability to adapt to society and communication skills.
3. Be fully prepared. College students are often unprepared in time, strength and experience. Therefore, we should pay attention to the study of cultural knowledge and the mastery of learning methods, strengthen the understanding of society, the collection of information, the improvement of ability, the accumulation of experience, and the cultivation of team spirit, cooperation consciousness and interpersonal skills.
There are two choices to succeed in college. One is to study hard and try to get a scholarship every year (in fact, as far as I know, it is not difficult to get a scholarship as long as you study hard at the university), and get more certificates and awards, so that your resume will be beautiful when you graduate. If you are interested, you can also take the postgraduate exam. This is of course your best choice. Adults often say this, and it will look good in others' eyes. Second, if you don't like studying very much, then join the student union, the class committee or some other clubs. Suggestions vary from person to person. Choose your favorite organizations, societies and departments from your hobbies to exercise your practical ability. Don't think that joining these organizations is to serve others, and the ultimate beneficiary is yourself. After four years of practice in college, you will find that you have more than others. Because in these departments, like a small social circle, you have to think, deal with it, and even perfunctory. These are the gains and wealth in your future life and work.
5. Find new friends as soon as possible. College students have just left their former middle school friends and teachers, their hometown and relatives, and come to live in a new group. Faced with strange campuses, strange buildings and strange faces, they need help and understanding. However, because many students lack the ability to live independently and collectively, are not good at letting others know themselves, are not good at getting close to others, and lack new friends, "loneliness" and "loneliness" arise spontaneously and fall into trouble and pain. To get rid of this kind of trouble, freshmen should first establish self-confidence and communicate with others boldly and enthusiastically; Secondly, take the initiative to participate in group activities, help others enthusiastically, expand their communication scope, meet new classmates, make new friends, dilute homesickness and eliminate loneliness. However, it should be reminded that finding a friend is not just a roommate in the dormitory. No one in the college class will recognize it.
6. In addition to daily classes, there are various lectures, seminars, academic reports, cultural and recreational activities, community activities, public relations activities and so on. These activities are really dazzling for freshmen, so we must arrange our time in a planned way to enrich ourselves.
7. Try to cultivate yourself to have a variety of hobbies, such as collecting stamps, cutting and pasting, fishing, etc. , can increase your activities and interests, and make your life colorful and full of vitality. If you can have one or more hobbies that you are interested in and good at, that would be great (excellent here means better than most people). Some students can write good calligraphy, or make exquisite handicrafts, or play table tennis well, which will undoubtedly add endless fun to their lives, and also help to establish self-confidence and enhance social adaptability.