Just a different mentality. Some girls care about this, others don't. Men and women think differently. Women have sex before love, while boys have sex before love. If you don't promise him, you will feel that you don't really love him, in my opinion. A person's life is always risky, but it's just a question of whether it's worth it. For example, just like you volunteered for the college entrance examination. If you report well, you will be good all your life. If you report badly, you may regret it all your life. But this is a choice you have to make. Life is like a gamble. Don't be afraid of losing if you want to win. If you think you love him and he deserves your life, then say yes or break up. Now elders and young people think differently. They think that love is deceptive. It is very important to find a man with education and money to entrust him for life, and feelings can be cultivated after marriage. I don't know if their views are right, but life is only once, and you never know if your choice today is right, so live boldly and don't regret it. I suggest you watch a movie "Butterfly Effect". I'm sure you will like it. I think many girls now have a dependence on finding a bachelor, but some girls have the capital to do so, and some don't. I don't know if it is the poison of feudal remnants to modern women. Interested friends can join my group to discuss, 3 1433050.