It is always said that college students are simple-minded. In fact, college students' thoughts are not simple now, but they are not so complicated and diversified.
For example, when dealing with one thing, college students are likely to make two problems:
(1) only seeks the optimal solution, and there is no alternative;
(2) Starting from itself, there is no diversified perspective;
So what college students do often gives people a feeling of inexperience and inexperience.
This is a major change in the way of thinking!
In addition, we should have a new understanding of social cognition.
Don't blindly believe and follow.
In the social university, no one should do anything for you, and no one will help you because of a good relationship!
This is an eternal hidden rule.
Give another example.
For example, if you enter a company and the supervisor talks about it all day, you may believe it.
This is blind obedience.
In fact, you can't see the truth of the matter and think that what the supervisor said is right.
Take labor relations for example, the supervisor said, if you are late tomorrow, you will be fired!
You may be scared by him.
Moreover, when you do something, the supervisor pushes it to you, but once you are held accountable by your superiors, the leader immediately throws the pot at you!
This is because you trust him too much!
I think many college students have had these experiences when they first entered the workplace.
So let your way of thinking and social cognition be rich and varied, and accumulate it slowly!
Don't wait until you have to enter a social university, then educate you with reality!