Don't try easily. Really, I am experiencing the discomfort that my girlfriend is not a virgin now. My girlfriend is also very uncomfortable, very uncomfortable, she is worried that I will look down on her because of this matter, and this will be a lifelong shadow for her future husband, and her husband may also dislike her because of this. If you love her, restrain yourself. If you can't promise to marry her in the future (subjective and realistic), then don't. Be a responsible person. With this, feelings will deteriorate, at least in college. Finally, long-distance love is difficult. If you can persist (emotionally, platonic) until the right time, let's be together. At that time, you will be happier than anyone, because you are together! Bless you.