Chen Guo's Classic Quotations
1, loneliness is not the same thing. Loneliness is a kind of loneliness immersed in one's own world. So lonely people show a kind of harmony and nobility. Loneliness is a helpless nothingness, a kind of helplessness. Loneliness is a kind of wealth. Only when people are lonely can their hearts be really quiet and very rational. Loneliness is not suffering, but a very high level.
2. What is loneliness? Loneliness is the loneliness of one's own world and the complete state of one's own system. Loneliness is the lingering temperament brought by missing. Lonely people are extremely interesting and rich, because he is not forced to fall into loneliness, but a pastime of his own choice. What is loneliness? Loneliness is forced loneliness, which is a kind of fear caused by nothingness. Loneliness is a disease, and the prescription is crowd, noise and socialization.
There is little time for yourself. When surfing the internet, your time belongs to anyone, but not to yourself, or even to a lifeless machine. Every moment is occupied by something that doesn't belong to you.
4, useful is to create value, interesting is to create happiness. It is difficult to be useful to be an interesting person. Curiosity does not mean gossip, which comes from a boring and pale life. Curiosity is also emotional and polite. Good social relations are important for people to respect each other.
If we get too close, we will see more shortcomings of each other. When two stones are thrown into the water, if they get too close, the waves will interfere with each other. There are so many people around us that we are indifferent to the crowd. Many of us like traveling. Why? Because we want to find a place where no one exile themselves. Why avoid others? Because lonely people are interesting. Loneliness is my own pastime.
6. Love is the hardest to last, and affectionate people will be widowed. What lasts is not love, but impulse. What we think is sentimental: I love A and B, but it should be: I don't love A and I don't love B, a natural sentimental species, and every paragraph is devoted to it, which is bound to be deeply rooted. Without certainty, there is no stability. Why are you sentimental? I don't know. Because I don't know what kind of person I am, let alone what kind of person I like.
7. People who get together are often not friends. A friend disagrees with any of your opinions and shows his weak compromise. Even on any occasion, I can defend you, blindly following mediocrity. Such people are followers, not friends. Friends are often very strict with you, even almost harsh, and are stricter with you than your enemies. Because he can't bear to watch you continue to fall.
8. Some people have the same view of Buddhism and religion. Go to the Three Treasures Hall if you have nothing to do, and see the Buddha if you have nothing to do. If you want to see the Buddha, you must meet difficulties in your life and pray for blessings. In fact, this is also a kind of use. Use him when you need him and don't use him when you don't need him. Cramming at the last minute reflects many people's utilitarian use of things. I don't care how rich my spirit is, whether I am sharing spiritual wealth or not.
9. Beauty knows no field, no region, and only truth and falsehood. Really beautiful, fake ugly. Camouflage is the sorrow of human nature, and truth is the noblest beauty. There is a saying called truth, goodness and beauty. If there is no truth, goodness is hypocritical.
10, Jesus told us to love our neighbor as ourselves. To care for others, we must first know how to care for and love ourselves. Only when you know what is good for yourself can you know what is good for others. People who don't know how to love themselves don't know how to care about others. Only by learning to love yourself can we really learn to care about others.
1 1. A true friend, when you are with him, sometimes you don't need language communication. Language is the lowest level of communication between people. When people need to talk and communicate, your relationship is far away. The louder the voice, the farther the relationship. When two people are very close, you know me and I know you. A look is enough, a handshake is enough.
12, loneliness is the enjoyment stolen from the crowd. She is proud and beautiful, and her spirit is completely free. Loneliness requires us to have time alone, so that we can be myself. We don't need to dress up, pretend or wear a hat and smoke to pretend to be deep.
13, it doesn't matter if real friends don't contact often. Two or three years have passed, and the person on the other end of the phone never seems to leave. The so-called friendship that needs constant contact is unreliable, because once you don't contact, you will break up.
14, against the loss of freedom. If you love her, you won't let her worry about you. Friends are useless luxuries. Being with friends can satisfy a peaceful, relaxed and happy atmosphere, without intention or language.
15, there are two ways to treat people: one is that interests need to establish contacts, but they are only mutually effective (they are really useful, but they will not have real friends); There are also lonely people who warm each other, which is a cheap communication.
16, people should keep a moderate and comfortable distance, and distance produces beauty. If we get too close, we can't appreciate each other's beauty and the whole picture of what others have done for me. The more faults we see in each other. When two similar stones are thrown into the water, they will affect each other and make beautiful ripples.
17, people are the most cruel to those closest to them, because they are too close to each other and often fail to see the advantages of each other.
18, if you fail in this love, it doesn't mean that you fail in your next love. But your view of love is a failure, then your love will always be a failure.
Loneliness is a kind of fear caused by nothingness. She is often anxious and bored because she can't find a partner but can't be alone. Loneliness is a disease. For a lonely person, socializing is what he needs most. Socialization is a group of lonely people warming each other.
20. Friends are luxuries, and luxuries are not practical. You should be satisfied with this kind of thing. Because it can give you nothing but friendship.
2 1, a true friend is a world of two people. We are quiet, but not cold and cheerless. One more person will inevitably have endless topics to talk about. This is a diversion, from an unguarded to a social interaction. The world for three is too crowded.
22. Loneliness is a harmonious state. True loneliness is noble. When a person is lonely, his thoughts are free and he is facing his true self. All human thoughts come from this. A lonely person, no matter what environment he is in, can keep himself quiet and enjoy himself.
23. But how can love be just a feeling? It's like laughing and cursing. If love is just a simple feeling that can be summarized, then why are so many of us still chasing love? What's so strange? Why should we cherish it?
24. Short-lived love is not true love in essence, or if you have to use a word of love, it is the feeling of love ignited by a specific object.
25, playboy, that's not love, just a curiosity, a curiosity. They don't have the ability to love, they don't know how to appreciate beauty, they don't know how to appreciate the seemingly plain but special beauty, and they don't know how to appreciate the long but warm beauty at all.
The basic idea is that the more people like me, the more attractive I am, the stronger I am and the more beautiful I am. However, this issue is actually very debatable. Is that really the case? In fact, we often ignore the fact that when a thing needs us to prove, does it just prove that the thing itself is problematic?
27. Marx told us that under what circumstances you can produce love, you can get love. True love is not due to the improvement of your external standards, these things are too illusory, and these things are too easy to achieve and too easy to age. Marx told us that only love can sow love, only trust can sow trust, so only giving can sow giving.
28. If love is compared to a service, then most people in love seldom consider how to provide good service for others, how to solve problems for him, and how to always give him silent and firm support and care based on my deep understanding of him when he is rebellious. We seldom provide such services, but we often need others to provide such services for us.
29. When we are in love, we seldom think about such a question: How can we really love our girlfriend or boyfriend? How can we really care about him properly? What kind of feelings does he need? Can I provide it? Few people will consider such a question: how to make me more open-minded, more atmospheric and more generous in the process of love, and let me know more about respect, tolerance and dedication.
30. Why is first love important? Because before that, your love history was blank, but because you had your first love, the prelude of your love began. More importantly, the love view of your first lover directly led to the emergence and formation of your love view.
3 1. Deception is the biggest harm to people's emotions. In religion, no matter what religion, cheating is a felony. Because you are not only hurting others, but also rejecting others' true feelings and sincerity. At the same time, while you are cheating, you also regard others as retarded and fools. You don't treat each other as equals.
There are so many things to learn that you will never learn them thoroughly. What you need to learn all your life is love.
33. The best measure of friendship is that when you are with friends, your heart is satisfied, and what is higher is peace. There is nothing to say, and there is no enthusiasm to break the ice.
Step by step is to win time, and a long stream of water can reach eternity. Helping others is a happy drive from the bottom of my heart and conscience. Behind self-sacrifice, there must be a more serious demand for return. Wasting time is the most unwise behavior, no matter what reason you use. Only the rich can give it.
35. Loneliness is not a gesture, but a state of mind. Silence is not necessarily loneliness, loneliness has no form, it is the spiritual self-wandering of the lonely. Pretending to be impetuous is a vanity, in order to attract attention.
36. Friends are not contacts, friends are not playmates, friends are not drinkers, friends are not people who comfort you when you need comfort, and friends are not your spiritual shelter. Friends are not a group of people who are bombarded, but a lonely tribe, so it is often not friends who get together. Friends don't agree with or cater to any of your views or opinions, showing their weak compromise.
37. Think about yourself to generate wisdom, reflect on yourself and show courage.
39. When I can't see everyone, I have a spiritual gaze on them, which is called missing.
40. If you regard your friend as your boyfriend and girlfriend's backup, you insult friendship and love at the same time.
4 1, friends are not for taking, but for giving. The more friends, the more love.
42. Beautiful people are everywhere, and there are very few beautiful people.
43. He is lonelier than fireworks. Fireworks bloom invisibly and disappear into nothingness, with a short release and endless loneliness.
44. Carnival is the loneliness of a group of people, and loneliness is the carnival of one person.
45. There is no need to share many things with others, and I don't want to get caught up in some conversations intentionally or unintentionally. People are mean.
Dear friends, quotations from Chen Guo of Fudan University.
1. It is in harmony with the spirit and environment of Japanese tea ceremony, showing a proper respect and not affecting one's silence. 2. Lonely people also like to meditate, like to talk to nature, and the soul that communicates with thoughts and souls is diffuse. The fun of lonely people is the real fun, and pandering and imitating will only be boring, chatting, complimenting and having fun.
It should be noted that in life, you need to leave yourself a way out, even if you think you are doing well. So, although multifaceted life is not the mainstream, we might as well give it a try. Who knows when it will suddenly bring you different gains?
Loneliness is a cage without comfort. Because lonely people are at a loss and anxious. Their thoughts are barren and barren, resulting in a sense of self-exclusion.
5. Keep a distance between people, and distance produces beauty. The closer we get, the more shortcomings we will see. When two stones are thrown into the water, if they are too close, the water waves will interfere with each other.
6. Friends are luxuries, and luxuries are all impractical (Golden Beauty). You should be satisfied with this kind of thing, because a true friend can give you nothing but friendship.
7. There are two kinds of treatments for people. One is that interests need to establish contacts, but they are only mutually effective (really useful, but there will be no real friends); There are also lonely people who warm each other, which is a cheap communication.
8. Carnival is the loneliness of a group of people, and loneliness is the carnival of one person.
9. Loneliness does not seek external things, but seeks self (that is, peace).
10. Loneliness is a cage without comfort. Because lonely people are at a loss and anxious. Their thoughts went from barren to self-loathing.
1 1. He is lonelier than fireworks. Fireworks bloom invisibly and disappear into nothingness, with a short release and endless loneliness.
12. Many things can be seen clearly in time. Either go further and further, or get closer and closer.
13. The love of the old couple, like air, does not need language communication, but it is very important and irreplaceable. Chen Guo's famous saying
14. How can you have a deep understanding of a superficial and short communication and know that you are only important to your own value?
15. Confession. Let's face it. Wrong is wrong. No explanation. Confess, but don't overdo it.
16. Only those who have a lonely self-consciousness and look back on themselves can have precious friends.
17. People are the most cruel to those closest to them, because they are too close to each other and often fail to see each other's advantages. Chen Guo's Classic Quotations
18. Take care of yourself before you care about others. God helps those who help themselves to be completely happy, and ends this bowl of water by themselves.
19. Make friends because you love him. Love him, don't bother him, don't let him worry more about himself.
20. Friends are not vassals, nor just agree to compromise. In reality, friends need sharp edges and sharp edges. Chen Guo's famous saying
2 1. When I can't see everyone, I have a spiritual gaze on them, which is called missing.
22. In order to create an atmosphere of being a great man, the expectation of return is behind self-sacrifice, not care.
23. Noble and true feelings are the only foundation for friends and everything. Friendship will be destroyed by hypocrisy.
24. Loneliness is not posturing, but a state of mind. Silence is not necessarily loneliness, loneliness has no form, it is the spiritual self-wandering of the lonely. Pretending to be impetuous is a vanity, in order to attract attention.
25. True friends are just two people. We are quiet, but not cold and cheerless. One more person will inevitably have endless topics to talk about. This is a diversion, from an unguarded to a social interaction. The world for three is too crowded.
26. Willing to be lonely: Love thinking and reading, always full of fun. The breadth of creativity can bring happiness and lasting loneliness, and make the communication between thinkers smoother.
27. Confess and face the reality. Wrong is wrong. No explanation. Confess, but don't overdo it.
28. Loneliness is not posturing, but a state of mind. Silence is not necessarily loneliness, loneliness has no form, it is the spiritual self-wandering of the lonely. Pretending to be impetuous is a vanity, in order to attract attention.
29. Loneliness is a cage without solace. Because lonely people are at a loss and anxious. Their thoughts are barren and barren, resulting in a sense of self-exclusion.
30. Tolerance: Before forgiving others, forgive yourself and forgive yourself for what you should have done but didn't do. Be tolerant of your own destiny.
3 1. People are the most cruel to those closest to them, because they are too close to each other and often fail to see each other's advantages.
32. Friends don't need a definition. Human language is so vulgar that when we are really heartbroken and shocked, we often say I can't.
33. It is difficult to express such rich and infinite emotions in vulgar language. And all the characteristics of Friends are extraordinary, all of which are
34. Go beyond vulgarity.
35. It is very important that two people who become friends must be clear-headed.
That's why only lonely people can be friends. Only in this way can we distinguish what is friendship, what is dependence, what is independence and what is encouragement.
37. There will be no such unequal connection between the protagonist and the foil.
Between friends, two people are equal and support each other.
39. Friends are not bound by friendship. Friends are to make us more free on the basis of knowing ourselves.
40. Therefore, it is also a sin to violate a friend's moment. Therefore, this is also the reason why friends should make an appointment before meeting. How can I bother my friend's reservation?
4 1. Scheduled time plan?
42. Friends help each other get to know each other better.
When we know our friend's true nature, we should try our best to protect him.
44. However, this protection does not require anything in return or even any response.
45. Noble and true feelings are the only foundation for friends and everything.
46. Friendship will be destroyed by hypocrisy.
You don't need to explain, I know you well enough, so I won't doubt you.
48. Therefore, before becoming friends, it is necessary to be quite strict with doubts.
49. Friends don't cancel loneliness, but teach you how to accept loneliness better, so that you won't feel cold in lonely moments, just because of the tacit understanding of having friends present. Loneliness at this time is a warm state, full and beautiful.
50. Many things can be seen clearly if they are seen in time. Either go further and further, or get closer and closer.
5 1. If you regard your friend as your boyfriend and girlfriend's backup, you insult friendship and love.
Being with friends is also a kind of loneliness. But this kind of loneliness is better and more comfortable than being alone. Because true friends are completely unprepared.
53. A real farewell should have more room for memories and reminiscences. Instead of noise and verbal violence after drinking.
54. Love yourself, love yourself based on human equality: recognition of self-personality development is the basis of caring for others. Only when you know what is good for yourself can you know what is good for others. Everyone is equal, including me.
55. Friends are not spiritual shelters for comforters when drinking. Friends and playmates are lonely, and they are not personal contacts established for any utilitarian reasons. It is often not friends who get together, but lonely people.
56. If you say too much, you will not apologize. The real sorry is heavy, not only for those you have hurt, but also for your own conscience and morality.
Friends help each other to get to know each other better. When we know the true nature of our friend, we should try our best to protect him. But this kind of protection needs no return, or even any response.
58. People often lack foresight. Only in the distance to pursue endless goals. People are extremely cruel to those close to them. Take it for granted
59. The accumulation of lonely people can't reduce loneliness, and the group of lonely people can't jump out of such meaningless things as loneliness. There is no point in repeating it countless times.
60. Willing to be lonely: thinking and reading are always full of fun. The breadth of creativity can bring happiness and lasting loneliness, and make the communication between thinkers smoother.
6 1. A true friend is a world of two people. We are quiet, but not cold and cheerless. One more person will inevitably have endless topics to talk about. This is a diversion, from an unguarded to a social interaction. The world for three is too crowded.
62. Loneliness is not posturing, but a state of mind. Silence is not necessarily loneliness, loneliness has no form, it is the spiritual self-wandering of the lonely. Pretending to be impetuous is a vanity, in order to attract attention.
63. Yan Hui: Don't be angry. Never pass. It means that you vent your temper and unhappiness on doors, windows, mobile phones or classmates.
64. I can't bear to let my friend take some utilitarian purposes for my personal reasons and bring him trouble unnecessarily.
65. Distance between people produces beauty. The closer we get, the more shortcomings we will see. When two stones are thrown into the water, if they get too close, the waves will interfere with each other.
Graduation message from philosophy department
Graduation message from philosophy department
● If you don't run a kilometer at ordinary times, it is difficult to sprint a hundred meters when you need time.
Without rapids, you can't be brave, and without peaks, you can't climb.
● The mountain road is tortuous, but after all, it extends towards the peak.
Only by climbing to the top of the mountain can you see the scenery there.
● Even if the road is bumpy, the wheels must move forward; Even if the river is rough, the ship can sail.
● Only creation is true enjoyment, and only hard work is a fulfilling life.
● Those who dare to declare war on darkness must be full of light in their hearts.
Lofty ideals are like flowers growing on high mountains. If you want to do it, diligence is the rope to climb.
● The seed keeps in mind the exhortation of raindrops, which enhances the courage to charge.
Without the ups and downs of nature, the earth would not be fruitful.
People who only dream without action will never feel the joy of harvesting fruits.
Diligence is the password of your life, and you can translate a magnificent epic.
It is not a pity for climbers to lose their past footprints, but it is dangerous to lose their past direction.
● Strugglers are driving their career boats to the other side of the ideal in the river where sweat gathers.
Busy bees have no time to talk in front of people.
● The brave will fight the stormy waves without sinking, and the coward will drown in a calm.
● Climbers who aim at the peak will not be intoxicated by a certain footprint along the way.
● The waves are a farewell journey of a ship that breaks the waves and is the funeral of a canoe that goes with the flow.
Graduation message from the teacher of philosophy department
Graduation message from the teacher of philosophy department
After selfish happiness becomes the only goal in life, life will soon become aimless. From a distance, the misfortune of life is still very poetic, and a person is most afraid of being mediocre.
We should not waste our lives, but should be able to say: I have done what I can.
We should turn life into a scientific dream and then turn it into reality.
How much effort we make, how much life is worth.
The important thing in life is to have a great goal and the determination to achieve it.
Anyone in a dance academy will accomplish nothing; Whoever does not dominate himself will always be a slave.
People are often unreasonable, illogical and self-righteous; Anyway, forgive them.
If you are kind-hearted, people may accuse you of being careless; Be kind anyway.
If you succeed, you will win some false friends and some real enemies; In any case, strive for success.
If you are honest and frank, people may cheat you; Be honest and frank no matter what.
What you have worked hard for many years may be destroyed by someone; Try to build it anyway.
If you find harmony and happiness, others may be jealous of you; Have fun anyway.
If you do good today, people will often forget it tomorrow; Anyway, you should do good deeds, Ji De. The eagle has the joy of soaring on nine towering peaks and overlooking everything, but it has to endure the cold wind alone. Sparrows are driven away from time to time, but they also have the pleasure of falling on the scarecrow hat with their companions to tease farmers. In xiao night mind unexpectedly emerge this sentence. No one can judge the happiness of others, because only you know whether you are happy or not. No one can assert the success of others, because everyone has a different definition of success.
However, few people in the world really understand this truth. There are always people who like to interfere in other people's lives. Although it may be well-intentioned, it often brings sad results.