In China in 2005, a brother took his sister to college. His life is bleak. His father killed his own sister because of mental illness and took another sister. His mother was overwhelmed and eventually fled the family. In this desperate situation, he stepped forward as the eldest son of the family, sent his father to the hospital, sent his sister to school, and finally became a teacher. His name is.
A heavy blow, a broken family
1982 In the early summer, Hong Zhanhui was born in an ordinary family in Zhoukou, Henan. As the eldest son, Hong Zhanhui also has a younger brother and a younger sister who is a monk. Although the family is not rich, they can always eat and wear warm clothes. Although it is difficult, the family is disease-free and can be said to be a happy family. According to this life track, Hong Zhanhui's future is likely to be.
1994 At the end of August, life in Hong Zhanhui went downhill. On that day, Hong Zhanhui's father suddenly suffered from mental illness, broke many things at home and beat his mother. In desperation, the mother went to ask for help, but left her one-year-old daughter in the room. When everyone arrived, the one-year-old daughter had been pushed to the ground by her father and had no breathing.
Such a blow was great for Hong Zhanhui, who was in the fifth grade of primary school at that time. The originally happy family was fragmented because of his father's mental illness, and his young sister lost her life. However, his father often beat his family and threw things because of mental illness, which made the already poor family worse. On the eve of this year, his father became ill again and brought back a baby girl from outside. In desperation, they had to adopt the baby and named it Hongqianqian.
This is undoubtedly another heavy burden. Hong Zhanhui's mother finally fled the family after one year because of the heavy burden of life and the unbearable blow of her husband's frequent illness. Since then, the burden of life has fallen on Hong Zhanhui's shoulders.
Self-reliance, support the family
On the day her mother left, Hong Zhanhui, who was 13 years old, seemed to grow up a lot overnight. He has changed from a junior high school student to an adult who has to take care of his family life. He must take care of his father, brother and Hong, who is often ill. The junior high school in Hong Zhanhui is in a town two or three kilometers away, and it takes a long time to go back and forth. In order to prevent Hong from being beaten by his father when he was ill, he begged his aunt to help take care of Hong. At that time, Hong was not weaned. On her way to and from school and home every day, she often held her everywhere and asked the women in the village for milk. At the same time, he learned to sell his eggs or other things to buy milk powder for Hong.
Even in such a living environment, Hong Zhanhui still didn't put down his studies. During the senior high school entrance examination, only three junior high school students in Hong Zhanhui were admitted to key high schools, and Hong Zhanhui was one of them. But he didn't have time to celebrate, and the burden of life overwhelmed him for a while. After the senior high school entrance examination, he immediately went to work in the county seat. After several days of hard work, Hong Zhanhui found a job transporting nail guns. With hard work, Hong Zhanhui saved it in the summer vacation.
After entering high school, Hong Zhanhui still didn't give up his studies and became the monitor by his own efforts.
After settling down in high school, in order to take care of my sister Hong, I rented a cheap house near the school and took Hong to my side. In the morning, she asked her sister to have breakfast first, and then she brought a meal home at school at noon and evening.
In order to support his life, Hong Zhanhui sells ballpoint pens, study materials and English tapes at school. This kind of behavior is unacceptable in the eyes of teachers. When the teacher scolded him, Hong Zhanhui choked back tears in his eyes and didn't refute a word, but he still didn't give up supporting his family in this way. In order to take care of his sister and father, he can't miss any opportunity.
In this reluctant life, Hong Zhanhui's father became seriously ill again.
In order to keep his father in hospital, Hong Zhanhui went to all his relatives' houses and borrowed only forty dollars. Just when he was at the end of his tether, an aunt who was in the paint business heard the news and sent $2,000 as a gift for treating Hong Zhanhui's father.
In order to take care of his father who can't take care of himself, Hong Zhanhui had no choice but to drop out of school in his sophomore year and return to his hometown in the countryside to farm. While reading, he taught Hong to do small business and saved some money. By 2000, his father's illness had stabilized, and Hong Zhanhui rekindled his desire for school.
Self-reliance, the world * * * help.
Although Hong Zhanhui didn't give up on himself, there were some people at school who didn't give up on him, and that was his two former teachers. The indomitable student left a deep impression on the two teachers. They thought that Hong Zhanhui should not be left in the countryside, so they told Hong Zhanhui that they wanted him to go back to school. As a result, Hong Zhanhui became a freshman in Xihua No.2 Middle School and returned to the campus with her sister. The teacher also helped her find a nearby primary school. In addition to supporting the family, Hong Zhanhui also needs.
In order to support the family, Hong Zhanhui found a steamed stuffed bun shop near the school to work. 30 yuan's salary was paid every month, but he could eat it in the shop, saving the food expenses.
But soon, my father became ill again. This time, Hong Zhanhui's younger brother in grade one was completely desperate. He gave up school and went out to work without saying goodbye. Hong Zhanhui had no choice but to turn to hospitals all over the country for help, hoping to send his father to the hospital. A county mental hospital offered him a helping hand, only willing to accept the treatment fee, and sent Hong Zhanhui's father to the hospital.
After Hong Zhanhui sent his father to the hospital, he went back to school to continue his studies. He had to go to college, which became a knot in his heart. In the end, he was successfully admitted to Huaihua University in Hunan with a score of 490, and took his sister with him.
The school and the society all know Hong Zhanhui's deeds, and they have provided a lot of help to Hong Zhanhui. The school provided Hong Zhanhui with a small dormitory to take care of his sister, and the nearby primary school was also willing to let Hong Zhanhui's sister enter school. Many people donated money to Hong Zhanhui, but Hong Zhanhui turned everyone down. He must earn money by himself. During his college years, he contracted the phone card and water heater business of the school and successfully supported himself and his sister. He thinks he is no longer the Hong Zhanhui who can't live.
In this life, Hong Zhanhui spent his college life, then he was admitted to Central South University and graduated from Central South University with a master's degree.
Candles eventually became lighthouses.
After graduation, Hong Zhanhui could have got a well-paid job, but his life experience from the end of the century made him carve the responsibility of helping the weak into his bones. He chose to go back to his alma mater, Huaihua University, to teach and let his light and heat warm every student. Then he went to the School of Information, but Hong Zhanhui was still not satisfied with helping only one school. He finally gave up his comfortable life, resigned and started his own school. He also became the principal of his own school and a vocational school.
There is a kind of power engraved in Hong Zhanhui's bones, which enabled him to spend a difficult childhood and youth, and finally shaped Hong Zhanhui's good personality. Even in the face of difficulties, he never gave up on himself and refused to leave his family, which also made him successful.
At that time, he was like a candle, as if a gust of wind could blow it out, but he still let his tiny light and heat glow at home, making it difficult to help his family up. Today, Hong Zhanhui has become a dazzling beacon, shining in the society, and his middle school students have become excellent children because of his light and heat. Hong Zhanhui used his own sufferings as an introduction to let more children walk out of their sufferings and move towards a bright future, and he also gained a new self.