It is the dream of countless couples to have a beautiful daughter who is born with beauty. I have to admit that for girls, face value is capital, and having an outstanding face will play an inestimable role in future life.
A girl with high face value, once born, is equal to winning the first step at the starting line of life.
Although the connotation is the first, beautiful girls will be pitied wherever they go. After all, people's first impression of people comes from their appearance.
However, beauty sometimes brings troubles.
Hui Hui is my cousin's daughter. She just started high school this year. Hui Hui has been everyone's pet since he was born. Her pink face, big furry eyes, small pink mouth and delicate facial features are beyond description.
Just after the full moon, she was hugged by her relatives. When she was less than one year old, her aunts and grandmothers arranged in advance and took her back to their home for a few days. My cousins, as parents, seldom see their daughter several times and visit her almost every day. If they want to take her back, relatives don't want to, so they have to "reluctantly give up what they love".
Although the cousins seldom spend time with Hui Hui, they are really proud of Hui Hui.
As Hui Hui grew up, her appearance became more and more outstanding. In kindergarten, she is an angel in the eyes of teachers and the focus of children.
Maybe she has been used to meeting different people since she was a child, so she is never afraid of strangers and can get along well with everyone. So people who have come into contact with her can't help but have a good impression on her.
However, since the fourth and fifth grades of primary school, my cousin felt a little uneasy for the first time. He can't give a specific reason. He said that this anxiety should come from the appearance of Hui Hui. She is so charming and beautiful.
At first, Hui Hui thought her husband's anxiety was groundless, but one day in the sixth grade, something happened, which made her as uneasy as her husband.
On this day, Hui Hui's mother was quietly called to the office by the teacher, and told her quietly that Hui Hui might have signs of puppy love, because when she was correcting students' homework, she found a love letter written by a boy to Hui Hui in a boy's homework book. It is estimated that the boy was caught in the exercise book, and as a result, she neglected to hand in her homework and handed it in with the love letter.
Later, it was clarified that this incident had nothing to do with Hui Hui, but was caused by the narcissism of that little classmate.
Although I can't blame Hui Hui, my cousins think that "problems" will appear one after another, and Hui Hui has been "targeted" by the opposite sex.
My cousin is a very calm and intelligent person.
Since he discovered the boys' "attitude" towards Hui Hui, he dare not slack off. No matter how busy he is, he will send Hui Hui to school. In the third grade, he asked his wife to pick up his daughter once or twice occasionally. As long as he could spare the time, he would pick it up personally every day, and he often contacted teachers in various subjects in Hui Hui to learn about his daughter's situation from the side.
Fortunately, Hui Hui, who has become a beauty queen, has always been rational. She never hides from them what happened between herself and her classmates. In addition to group activities and various gatherings of classmates on holidays, she will consult her father in advance. Even if her father doesn't nod, even if she doesn't want to, she won't stubbornly attend against his will.
Thanks to the couple's concern and Hui Hui's consciousness, the whole junior high school three years finally passed without incident.
Because of her husband's "professionalism", Hui Hui's mother jokingly called him Hui Hui's "guardian with a knife and a needle". It happens that his surname is Zhan, and he is also his "Lingyang Zhan".
Not long ago, my cousin told me that Hui Hui was out of control. I was shocked at that time and asked him what was going on.
I was relieved when he told me the whole story. It turned out that Hui Hui was admitted to the best full-time high school in the city and lived on campus.
"Exhibition Guardian" can no longer play his role, and he is more worried that Hui Hui will be unable to withstand some temptations and have an accident.
I comforted him that Hui Hui was very sensible. She knows what to do and what not to do. Don't doubt the child's self-control. She will be more sensible when she grows up.
My cousin left a sentence "I hope so", bowed his head and sighed and smoked a stuffy cigarette. He didn't say a word for a long time.
Now, half a semester has passed in Hui Hui's senior one. Last week, I went to her house to see her. She became a lovely girl, sensible and sensible, without any abnormal performance.
I believe Hui Hui just whispered to my wife not long ago: Don't fall in love until you graduate from college!
Having a beautiful daughter is a blessing, and parents should not be anxious because of her outstanding appearance. For girls, besides good education and correct guidance, they should also be given trust and encouragement. Trust can make people become conscious, and encouragement is a positive motivation.
Not only adults need trust and encouragement, but also children of all ages need these two "good medicines".