(1) Love yourself: Be yourself before you fall in love. Carina Lau said: [You should pursue a better self in your independent life world. I think this is the most correct way to open love. Only by doing a good job of yourself and living a good life can a person shine a unique light and attract his own love. Otherwise, it may just be disguised to attract love.
(2) always cherish and respect your feelings. Don't say love easily, and don't give your feelings to anyone easily. Before you are ready to fall in love, you should first think about whether to start this relationship and examine your feelings in a responsible manner. As an experienced person, I advise you not to start a relationship for any of the following reasons. Don't fall in love because you are old, don't fall in love because you are lonely, don't fall in love because you are moved, and don't fall in love because everyone around you is in love.
(3) Love each other: Allow your lover to be yourself. Being yourself is the most important attitude and persistence in love, and letting your lover be yourself is the highest realm and respect of love in love. Some people take it for granted that the other person belongs to them after falling in love, and unconsciously control the other person not to do this or that, but to do this or that. These are not the States that love should have.
Good love is free and conscious. You consciously love each other, and the other person enjoys this love freely-he can be himself, not what you expect; He can do what he wants, not what you ask.