First of all, this is because in our university, we can't decide who is our roommate, which is often assigned by the school. We can't choose roommates based on whether we get along or whether we have the same personality hobbies, which will sometimes make us step out of step. Moreover, the life and study habits of roommates from local universities are often different, which also causes some deviations in their work and rest, diet and so on.
When I was a freshman, I also had certain expectations for my roommates, and even had the idea of changing majors because they were not close to each other. But in the semester of my freshman year, I met another friend, who was also my best friend in college. Later, I realized that although we can't choose roommates in college, we can still choose friends. When college roommates encounter problems, everyone often wants to hide, and then no one comes forward to organize and implement them. At ordinary times, everyone may look very harmonious, but when encountering problems, they are all in their own way and only think about their own interests.
I remember clearly that my roommate was ill once when I was a freshman, and I accompanied him to the hospital. But then one time I wanted to go out and ask him, but he told me with a cold face that he had something to do. At that time, I thought I wanted to be with you because you had a problem, but why did you shirk when I met something?
So I found that college students don't necessarily need someone to accompany them, and they don't need to have a good relationship with their roommates, as long as there is no contradiction. Sometimes it's more comfortable to be alone in college. I can do what I want, regardless of other people's eyes. After I have something I want to do, I can go with my friends without worrying too much about my roommate's feelings.