A 20-year-old female college student ended her life prematurely because her mother refused to keep a cat. Did her mother just refuse to have a cat? What did mom do wrong?
It is understood that this girl has excellent academic performance. She usually learns a thing or two and hardly goes out. She wanted to have a cat, but her mother refused, and she felt very uncomfortable. She blamed her mother for having only her brother without her, and she didn't feel her sense of existence, so she thought of suicide.
So this girl, because her mother doesn't want to have a cat, wants to commit suicide. What happened to her mother? Just don't let the cat? It's not that simple. The mother's mistake is that she didn't treat her children with a bowl of water.
Although advocated? Boys and girls are treasures? It's been years, but? Prefer boys to girls? This deep-rooted concept inevitably still exists in some families.
Just like this girl in the case, she has not received the attention and care of her parents for a long time, and her parents always try their best to restrain her. As for her brother, even if he broke the news, they still thought she did the right thing.
It's not that girls are not strong, but they don't like their parents' partiality. For a long time, their emotions have been prevented from erupting by keeping cats.
I want to say: as parents, we must care about the growth of our children. No matter how busy you are at work, you should take time to accompany your children, let them feel the love of their parents, and let them become the most favorable spiritual harbor for their children.
We often discuss a question: which is more important, family education or school education? Some parents always blame the school for not teaching their children well.
In fact, I think family education is more than ten times as important as school education. The quality of children's grades is only one aspect. What really affects children's growth is their mind and cognitive view of the world. Children's physical and mental health is more important than their cultural achievements.
And these two points of education can often be given by the family.
Therefore, I hope that all parents in the future will let themselves be children again, truly integrate into the children's world, accompany their children to grow up, give them enough care, and don't underestimate the growth of a child, otherwise it will only lead them astray.
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