First, the first love Lu Qingu's "wordless ending"
Lu Qingu was the first person engaged to Lu Xun. It was the summer and autumn of 1898, and Lu Xun's mother took a fancy to Qin Gu, the eldest daughter of Lu Xun's little uncle. When Guqin and Lu Xun were young, they often read together and discussed China's ancient poems. She was deeply impressed by Lu Xun, so when Lu Xun's mother asked for her advice, she threw herself into menstruation's arms without saying anything, but she had a hundred wishes in her heart.
Lu Xun's mother was very happy and immediately decided to get married. Unexpectedly, it happened suddenly. Nanny Lu Xun's mother had a distant niece, Zhu An, who had long wanted to introduce her to Lu Xun, but Lu Xun's mother ordered a piano. The eldest mother gossiped in front of Lu Xun's mother, saying that the combination of Lu Xun and Qin Gu was "disgusting" and unlucky. Lu Xun's mother was shaken. The following spring, she decided to arrange the marriage between Lu Xun and Zhu An.
Qin Gu's father waited for the Zhou family to get married, but there was no news. Later, I learned that Lu Xun remarried, but in desperation, I betrothed Qin Gu to someone else. Maybe Qin Gu doesn't like this marriage, maybe life isn't. Soon, Qin Gu fell ill and never got up again.
Before dying, Qin Gu held the nanny's hand tightly and choked: "I have something on my mind that I must say before I die. It used to be mentioned by Zhou Gulai, but suddenly it was not mentioned. I don't know why ... This incident is my lifelong regret, and I will never forget it until I die ... "
Qin Gu should be said to be the "first love" of Mr. Lu Xun when he was young. But somehow, this marriage was not mentioned in Lu Xun's later works. Did Lu Xun forget Ming's career in order to follow it, or did he keep this beautiful feeling in his heart forever, or did they promise each other? Lu Xun must have his own difficulties, so he has nothing to say.
Second, the bleak life of the original wife Zhu An.
When Lu Xun was twenty-five, he was preparing to start his literary activities in Tokyo, Japan. Suddenly, he received a letter from home urging him to return home. The letter said that his mother was seriously ill and wanted to meet her eldest son. When Lu Xun returned home anxiously, he realized that it was a scam.
It turned out that there was a rumor in his hometown that Lu Xun married a Japanese woman and gave birth to a child. He was seen walking in the streets of Tokyo with his wife and children. People tried to trick him into getting married. According to the old custom of "parents' orders, matchmakers' words", Lu Xun's mother Lu Rui decided the marriage without Lu Xun's consent.
Seeing this scene, Lu Xun was naturally angry. No matter whether he was attached to Lu Qingu or had a beautiful face in a foreign country, he did not have an attack out of filial piety to his mother. On the second day of their marriage, Lu Xun didn't go to the ancestral temple as usual. On the third day, while his family was not paying attention, he left home quietly and went to Japan again. Juan lives with her mother-in-law Lu Rui.
Perhaps Lu Xun's first wife was also a car-scrapping, a traditional good woman, that is, when she entered Zhoujiamen, she died of a Zhoujianv. He is Lu Xun's wife, which is recognized all over the world, but the protagonist Lu Xun denies it. Nominally, Zhu An was a widow all his life. In fact, at least at this point, the original match defeated Lu Xun ethically, although it was very sad. Lu Xun is an anti-feudal soldier, and of course he should be a revolutionary soldier. Arranged marriage is of course the ethical code of feudal society. It is feasible for civilians, but not for Lu Xun.
1June 29th, 947, Zhu An died alone. I believe that if there is an afterlife, Zhu An will not go this way again.
This kind of tragedy was very common in the old society. Perhaps because of his own experience, Lu wrote many articles about women's rights, such as Blessing, hoping that women in China would wake up.
Third, the teacher-student relationship with Xu Guangping.
Lu Xun and Xu Guangping were in love between teachers and students, or at that time, and Lu Xun was Lu Xun from beginning to end.
Xu Guangping (1898 ~ 1968) was born in Fujian. 19 17 studied in the preparatory course of Tianjin Zhili No.1 Women's Normal School. She was the editor-in-chief of Wake World Weekly, the journal of Tianjin Patriotic Comrades Association, and participated in the May 4th Movement. At the age of 25, he was admitted to the Chinese Department of Beijing Women's Normal University and became a student of Lu Xun.
1927 1 month, Lu Xun went to Sun Yat-sen University as a teaching assistant and Guangzhou dialect translator, and soon married Lu Xun who was seventeen years older than her. 1929, she gave birth to her son Zhou Haiying. Although this is the last decade of Lu Xun's life, "the decade of working hand in hand with the difficulties of * * *", it is a kind of belated happiness to care about each other and see the truth.
Compared with Lu Xun, Hu Shi was "conservative" and had children with Jiang Dongxiu. Although Hu Shi was engaged to study in the United States, he not only had a spark with Williams, the daughter of a Cornell University professor, but also chased Chen Hengzhe, a talented woman from China who also studied in the United States. Although both love affairs were under the external environment or internal moral consciousness, they had to give up halfway, but they could not hurt the mother's heart too much, which may also be his consideration.
But behind the loveless marriage between Lu Xun and Zhu An, he was willing to live this ascetic life, but deep in his subconscious, he did not give up his desire for the true ideal of love. So when Xu Guangping obviously took the initiative, they finally got together freely.
Four, and the female student Xu Xiansu "The Story of Hair"
In Women's Normal University, Lu Xun met a young female student, Xu Xiansu, who was a classmate and good friend of Lu Xun's cohabiting girlfriend Xu Guangping.
Lu Xun wrote The Story of Hair for her, and Lu Xun's friend Cao Juren praised Su as his "lover" in a biography about him. Xu Xiansu's concern for women is a very important part of Lu Xun's life. But when Lu Xun left Beijing for the south, it was not Xu Xiansu, but her classmate and good friend Xu Guangping.
Even on the way south, Lu Xun kept in touch with Xu Xiansu. Everywhere he went, postcards would report his whereabouts, and Lu Xun had already lived with Xu Guangping. Why Lu Xun chose Xu Guangping is a mystery, at least no one has answered it.
After Lu Xun's death, Xu Guangping wrote a memoir, which left a lot of gaps in many important aspects besides introducing Lu Xun's diet and daily life. Someone analyzed the notes left by Xu Guangping, and realized that Xu Guangping actually had too much helplessness. Perhaps it was not pleasant to be a celebrity shadow.
Fifth, the hazy feelings with the female writer Xiao Hong.
Xiaohong has a good family, but she is a young man with new ideas. Dissatisfied with feudal families and arranged marriages, she ran away from home when she was young. /kloc-lived with Xiao Jun in 0/932, but finally broke up with Xiao Jun!
Around 1934, he became Lu Xun's most loyal fan and often visited her husband at Lu Xun's house, sometimes even several times a day. One morning, she came and came back in the afternoon. Finally, I may feel that Xu Guangping's position is unshakable. After all, with Lu Xun's children, Xiao Hong had to go to Japan in 1936. Three years later, she and Duanmu Hongliang lived together in Hongkong. Duanmu Hongliang is also a scholar and a romantic figure, so it is impossible to give Xiao Hong too much happiness. Finally, Xiao Hong died in Hong Kong at the age of 3 1 year after a bumpy road of her own choice. ……
Sixth, the spiritual love with Mrs. Yamamoto of Japan.
During Lu Xun's stay in Shanghai, Japanese good friend Uchiyama was the owner of a bookstore. He often goes to Neishan Bookstore, but what he really goes to is the back of the bookstore, where the Japanese geisha Yamamoto Chuzhi lives. Lu Xun's letter to Mrs. Yamamoto is second only to Masuda among Japanese friends. For Masuda, he writes about academic or translation; for Mrs. Yamamoto, he talks about life or emotion.
On one occasion, Lu Xun wrote to Masuda that it was "a lonely thing" that Mrs. Yamamoto could not come to Shanghai, but every letter to Mrs. Yamamoto would complain about "the loneliness of Shanghai", which is rare in other letters. Later, when Lu Xun died, Mrs. Yamamoto lost her voice when she first heard his bad news. That's the person she once loved!
The subtle love affair with Ma Jue, the flower of Peking University.
According to research, Ma Jue, the most famous beauty queen in the history of Peking University, has a delicate feeling with Ma Jue.
What must be explained here is that Lu Xun is not empathizing with others, or loving one another when he sees one, but I only take a ladle to drink when I am weak.
Lu Xun has always been cautious in dealing with personal feelings, but he was still caught by his old enemy. Lu Xun especially loves talents and likes to reward new literary talents, especially talented young women. Did Lu Xun fall in love with the beautiful and talented Ma Jue? This question is not easy to answer, let alone groundless speculation.
But one thing is certain: Lu Xun likes this young woman with distinctive personality; What is certain is that Ma Jue, who has great literary dreams and romantic feelings, also likes and worships her idol Lu Xun very much, and even her secret love may not be known. If you have read Lu Xun's diary, you will find that there are gaps and omissions in the middle. Was this part destroyed or hidden by Lu Xun or later generations? Nowadays, it's hard to find the answer. Does this missing part of the diary record the secret passion of Lu Xun, a great literary master? I'm afraid all this is only known to the parties themselves. But I prefer to believe that this has nothing to do with Lu Xun's character.
If there is any scandal between the two men, it should be the result of the malicious attacks by Lu Xun's old enemy.