First, you just graduated and have no social experience. If you rush to work hard in a big city, the risk will be even greater. Just leaving school and suddenly going to a strange city, you will find it difficult to adapt to city life. Now you haven't visited the city in advance to see if the eating habits and living environment there are suitable for you. You should also try to understand the employment situation in that city and see if you can find a foothold in a strange city.

Second, because you are a girl. Don't say that you went to the big city alone. Even if you go to a place a little far away from your parents, your parents will be very worried. Girls are different from boys, and girls are particularly vulnerable to being cheated outside. If you are really cheated, then your parents will regret it! Besides, parents can't bear to let their daughter suffer outside alone. They would rather suffer for themselves than their children.

3. What if a person is sick and uncomfortable outside and no one takes care of him? At that time, you will never say that your parents will take care of you when you make a phone call. You won't immediately make friends who are kind to you like roommates and willing to help you take care of you. When you feel helpless and homesick, you can only hide in the corner and cry silently.

If you work hard, you will definitely start from the bottom. If you haven't suffered anything, it's hard for you to persist. Have you ever thought about living in the dark as a basement? Have you ever tried eating instant noodles for a whole month because you have no money? What you didn't expect was that you were looked down upon because you were new here, and you worked humbly all day. You are young and have little knowledge. You have no idea how dark social life is.

If you really want to work hard, you should accumulate some experience first, and then go to big cities to play when you feel capable of going out.