"The essence of sex is a reproductive tool";

1) The first article of Maslow's hierarchy of needs theory is physiological needs (including sex).

2) Love is romantic, "as long as you want it, as long as I have it", and sex is the sublimation of love; If she has sex with her boyfriend for two months, you can say what happened to this person, but the fact is that it was two years; Of course, you can ask her how long you have been in love.

3) In your opinion, you can't have sex if you don't want to have children so early after marriage? Because you don't want children.

"virgin's point of view"

1) It is wrong to have this idea. How do you define her? Not if you don't see red? According to statistics, 30% of girls have damaged their hymen before having sex (of course, this number is different, but there must be a large group); What if you find a girlfriend in the future and she says yes to you, and you don't see red in your second marriage?

2) In your opinion, what about divorced women?

I suggest you treat these correctly, you can lead an honest and clean life, and you can hope to find someone who shares your values in the future, which is true; But if you think that love, sex and marriage are what you should know, there is a problem.