In fact, this book was originally a post sent by the author in Douban. Because the post was very popular, I simply sorted out the book later. The original post is "How She Becomes White Step by Step", which tells the story of how a poor and beautiful girl went through hardships and eventually became a queen. Because the hero of the story is the real person around the author, it is very readable.
The story itself is very attractive. Girls in their twenties are young and beautiful when they first enter the society, but at the same time they are confused and sleepy. If there is a slight material shortage, the inevitable hardships will fade away. So many people read this book with Liu Wenjing in their arms, perhaps because of her hardships, perhaps hoping to see a glimmer of hope in her, or just to learn a little energy from struggle and tell themselves that tomorrow is another beautiful day.
The author's writing is plain, but sharp and true. In fact, both idol dramas and romance books have created a beautiful dream about love for girls. It seems that the story of Cinderella and the prince will always be finished. But in fact, people forget that Cinderella can wear crystal shoes because she is a real aristocrat and her two sisters are civilians brought by her stepmother. In reality, civilians have no chance to meet the prince, let alone dance with him.
Books written by ordinary male authors, even love, are only a foil and only play a icing on the cake; When a woman writes a book, love is the backbone, and the man is the most important. For the woman, love is everything. But in fact, love is only a part of life, and there is a bigger and more wonderful world besides love.
In the book, Liu Wenjing finally realized this, and decided not to care too much about love, not to be a man's accessory, but to rely on himself to make himself strong, truly independent and become his own queen.
The story in the book is very realistic. There is neither a heroine in Mary Su nor a perfect and affectionate man. It only reveals the truth of life through the growth of Liu Wenjing-love dies after a little test and faith goes bankrupt after a little twists and turns.
This story is closer to life, maybe not perfect, or a little cruel, but compared with Mary Su's plot, it is more like a slap in the face for a psychosexuality. After all, it is impossible to reach the other side by psychosexuality alone.
Liu Wenjing was born in a poor family in a backward mountainous area. After finishing junior high school, he dropped out. Later, he went to work in Shanghai with his cousin and met his first boyfriend in a small restaurant. But because of the poor conditions, they were rejected by the other family, and finally they were forced to break up.
Although Liu Wenjing is beautiful, beauty is icing on the cake for women, not a gift in a timely manner. When it comes to marriage, beauty without any conditions is just fragile.
Fortunately, she was very wise and decided to break up, improve herself from scratch and enrich herself. She works hard, she works hard and her mind is flexible enough. She tried her best to find a school to register as a student, took the college entrance examination and was admitted to a key institution.
She is beautiful and diligent, and has become a student in a key university. It looks like a bright future, but the future is always unpredictable. Her second love affair was vigorous, but when she arrived, she found that the other person was married. Love is always blind, but girls have a beautiful dream about love. Unfortunately, there is no professor in reality, and love is always full of flaws.
When a girl meets a failed love, she always blames herself for not being sensible, but how can a man's character be known before marriage? Some people's character can't be seen in life, and they always have to meet something to see clearly.
Many details in the article are empathetic, for example, when I am embarrassed, I want to avoid my friends and don't want my friends to see my down and out side. For example, you will always meet arrogant relatives, and even friends are worse than you when you are in trouble. For example, in life, many times you can travel all over the world for no reason, and arguments can't solve the problem. Most of the time, you just have to swallow it.
The saddest thing is the relationship between Liu Wenjing and the tortoise. After awakening, Liu Wenjing worked hard and became more and more outstanding, which is why she was favored by Gao Fushuai Turtles. However, their living habits and different views on things led to the early death of this relationship.
He loves her beauty and her knowledge, but he can't stand the local flavor between her words. In his view, despite her hard work, some of her short-sighted behaviors are still full of loopholes. So he finally ended this relationship and chose a friend from Liu Wenjing who also had a background of studying abroad. Their love is really close.
The prince will only choose the princess in the end. This is a fact and a reality. Compared with Wei Wei, Liu Wenjing is more beautiful, hardworking and knowledgeable, but she is lost in her own background. Some people are born with a good deck of cards, and they will win no matter how they play, while some people are always short of money despite all their efforts.
But since there is nothing to rely on, we must be strong on our own. If a person wants to be happy, he should first learn to please himself, instead of trying his best to please others. Only self-love can win the love of others. If you have a strong will to do something, you should think of more ways to meet your own conditions as far as possible, instead of just flinching.
Liu Wenjing in the book is very much like Fan Meisheng in Ode to Joy. He swallowed all the bitter water and kept his pride and fighting spirit forever. I didn't give in to fate and poverty, but I longed for change, kept working hard, and finally became a better myself.
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