A recent article entitled "As a college student with scars on his face, where is my way out?" This post has aroused widespread concern on the Internet. Fang Fang (a pseudonym), a freshman, has obvious scars on his face. Although her academic performance is excellent, she has been repeatedly frustrated on the road to job hunting. In desperation, I can only post on the Internet for help.
? The reporter learned from Shijiu, Renji, Department of Plastic Surgery of Xinhua Hospital and Tongji Stomatological Hospital that in order to make the road to job hunting smoother, many college students are keen on transforming the "face project", and even some high school students entered the "plastic surgery army" early.
? Human resources experts remind that appearance is one of the advantages of job hunting, but personal ability is often more important.
? I was rejected by the interviewer for a second.
? "The second I walked into the office for an interview, the moment I said' Hello', the interview manager said to me,' Sorry, we can't consider your situation!' At that moment, I was really sad. Because of this scar on my face, I have no chance to speak! "Fangfang wrote down her experience on the online job search of recent graduates. It turned out that when she was in a car accident as a child, she left a big scar on her face. Because of economic reasons, she has not been able to have plastic surgery. This scar has brought endless troubles to her career choice. While at school, she chose a part-time job, but she was always rejected. For four years, she only had the opportunity to distribute leaflets under the scorching sun. " Once, a hotel near the school recruited a part-time waiter, but I went and was rejected. I didn't even get a chance to wash dishes and serve food ... "
? At school, Fangfang also taught herself journalism and worked as an officer in the Propaganda Department of the College Student Union. In the eyes of teachers and classmates, she is an excellent student. However, all this can't add a little impression to her job search. "Everyone told me that I had a chance. But I'm always ruthlessly rejected outside the office. I have worked hard for more than ten years, and this is the result? "
? The reporter then contacted Fang Fang. Because of the postgraduate entrance examination, she began to apply for a job years later. During the period, she was either directly rejected at the job fair or submitted her resume online, which was "killed" by her hard-earned interview opportunity. "Every time I attend an on-site job fair, I will fight for every job opportunity from beginning to end, but the answer I get is always' You are excellent, I am very optimistic about you, but it is difficult for the leaders above me to recognize you'." Fangfang said that she didn't want to complain about the injustice of fate, just wanted to find a correct starting point in life, but the process was too difficult.
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? 60% of the "student plastic surgery army" asks?
The investigation of psychological problems of college students in plastic surgery shows that college students have become the second largest group in the plastic surgery army. Among them, about 60% of college students have plastic surgery in order to enhance their competitiveness in job hunting. In addition, it is not excluded that there are still some to add some "weights" when choosing a spouse.
? The reporter learned from Chengjiu, Long March, Time Plastic Surgery Hospital and other places that college students approaching work every year are always at the peak of plastic surgery. It is reported that small eyes, dull eyes, bad face and flat nose are the main obstacles for girls to find jobs. Job-seeking plastic surgery projects mainly focus on eye plastic surgery, rhinoplasty, shaving and other facial plastic surgery projects. In addition, some flat-chested girls come to the hospital for breast augmentation in order to look better in professional clothes in the future.
? The reporter also learned from Tongji University Stomatological Hospital that in order to look better during the interview, there are not a few students who are doing orthodontic whitening. This winter vacation, dozens of students came to do orthodontic surgery. At present, two or three job seekers come to do this surgery every day.
? According to incomplete statistics, most of the people under the age of 25 who go to plastic surgery hospitals are high school students and college students, and the number is still increasing obviously. In addition to girls, the number of male college students undergoing plastic surgery has also soared in recent years.
There are many "demanding" students in the plastic surgery family.
? He has a handsome face and good facial features, but he has lost confidence in the workplace because he has been unable to carry out personal work for a long time, and even blindly regards "not beautiful enough to attract the attention of the interviewer" as the main reason for his job search.
? In the interview, the reporter found that many college students pay too much attention to their own face, blindly regard the quality of "face project" as the only reason for their success in job hunting, and as a result, they ignore their own abilities.
? The "College Students' Love Assistance for Job Search and Cosmetic Surgery" campaign, which is carried out due to courageous factors, plans to help 20 such college students nationwide free of charge. Since the launch of the event, there has been an endless stream of applicants. However, about 40% of the applicants are too "harsh" on appearance, and most of them are rejected on the spot.
? Xu Beihua, director of Shanghai Binkai Meiyuan Plastic Surgery Hospital, the organizer of the "College Students' Job-seeking Cosmetic Care Assistance" activity, said that during the registration, some students were also found to be weak in their own abilities, and they simply "participated" and "unreasonably accused" themselves of failing to find a job, and their faces were not beautiful enough.
? The expression "making beauty" has nothing to do with job hunting.
? "If a person's own' ability' is not strong, a person is not competitive, and blindly blames himself for not being beautiful, then even if he artificially' creates beauty', he may not be able to successfully apply for a job. "
? Facing the wave after wave of "job seekers" who come for plastic surgery, Dean Xu Beihua suggested that college students should have a correct and profound understanding of their plastic surgery motivation and expected effect before going to the hospital. Because once the operation fails to achieve the expected results, many people will find it difficult to have a sense of identity, and may even have cognitive psychological obstacles to themselves. While artificially creating beauty, we should also enhance our internal comprehensive competitiveness. "Two-pronged approach" can successfully apply for a job.
? In addition, she also suggested that if you really need plastic surgery, you must choose a regular hospital and a doctor with plastic surgery qualifications. Because there are some uncertain factors and certain risks in plastic surgery, some operations cannot be recovered, so we must consider it clearly before plastic surgery.
As a reminder, the key lies in your talent and hard work.
? After Fangfang's post was published, it quickly attracted the attention of netizens. Han Chunlan, an expert in human resources and the founder of Intern Online, then communicated with Fangfang many times in the station. She told Fangfang: "Since everything is an unchangeable fact, we must face it bravely. I think most people respect and support those who strive for self-improvement. If others don't pay attention to your defects, you must make your excellent side strong enough so that the aura can overcome the shadow. "
? "In fact, many units refuse Fangfang, not necessarily because of their looks, because they also have their own recruitment standards." Han Chunlan said that Fangfang is a human resources major, and the work in this industry often needs to be in contact with the outside world. It is normal for employers to have some requirements for employees' looks. Fangfang, on the other hand, had better change her career goal. For example, she used to want to work part-time as a side dish in a hotel, which is definitely not suitable. Han Chunlan has seen Fang Fang many times before. "Their biggest scar is often not on their bodies, but psychologically. They should learn to adapt to this society as soon as possible."
? A fresh graduate also left a message to comfort Fangfang. He has a crescent-shaped scar like Bao Qingtian on his forehead and a scar on his nose. He is depressed and wants to go to the hospital for surgery. But family conditions didn't allow it, so I gradually got used to it. "I'm a senior now, but I've found several jobs and haven't met you in this situation. I can understand how you feel. I think your main problem now is your mentality. Since some things cannot be changed, strengthen them from other places! "
? Wei Wu, director of the career guidance center of East China Normal University, suggested that Fangfang could try to choose some behind-the-scenes jobs. Face up to reality and foster strengths and avoid weaknesses. If Fangfang likes writing, she can try to choose a job like editing. "Although appearance will affect career choice, it is not the most important factor. The key lies in your own talent and hard work.
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