This song aroused the audience's interest in Zhang Ailing's original works. Zhang Ailing wrote in Red Rose and White Rose: Maybe every man has had two such women, at least two.
Married a red rose, over time, the red one turned into a touch of mosquito blood on the wall, and the white one was still "the bright line at the foot of my bed". Married a white rose, the white is the rice on the clothes, and the red is the Zhu Shazhi in my heart.
Bai Yueguang will become glutinous rice, so she misses Zhu Shazhi, but Zhu Shazhi is the blood of a red rose.
People, the beauty they can't get is always scratched in their hearts, and the beauty they get is always unpalatable.
There was a young boy, brilliant, unruly and frivolous. In his world, he goes his own way and is supreme.
One day, his deskmate was replaced by the most beautiful girl in the school. She is fair-skinned, gentle and lovely. The teenager fell in love with this lovely girl at first sight, and a crazy love like a red rose began.
In order to please girls, teenagers have changed. He began to pay attention to dressing up without trimming. Dandruff used to fill the table, but then my hair was neat and greasy.
I used to be rude, but later I was gentle and gentle. Once aloof and arrogant, then brave, just like Nezha, a devil child who was untied from the doomsday curse. A brand-new soul was born in this beautiful girl.
However, the world has changed, the girl has finally left, the world of the teenager has collapsed, his body has been torn, and the spirit bead bearing his beautiful character has gone with the girl, leaving only a Zhu Shazhi on his chest. Magic pill's body, caught off guard, began to find Bai Yueguang's life journey.
Zhu Shazhi, a teenager, is an unforgettable lush years;
Bai Yueguang, a teenager, is a good hope to recall Zhu Ling. Love can support the soul.
How did red roses turn into mosquito blood, and how did Bai Yueguang turn into glutinous rice?
Dude, why are you still thinking about Zhu Shazhi in Bai Yueguang?
what is love ?
Robert Jeffrey Sternberg, a social psychologist at Yale University in the United States, put forward triangular theory of love, arguing that all love experiences are composed of three elements: passion, intimacy and commitment.
Passion is a sexual component in love, which refers to an emotional infatuation. Personal appearance and inner charm are important factors affecting passion.
Intimacy is a warm experience that can be caused in a love relationship. It refers to the feeling that two people like each other psychologically, including appreciation of their lover, desire to take care of their lover, self-disclosure and inner communication.
Commitment mainly refers to an individual's inner or oral expectation of love, which is the decision expectation or guarantee to maintain the relationship and the most rational component in love.
Intimacy is warm, passion is warm, and commitment is calm.
These three elements constitute seven types of love: spoony love, spoony love, empty love, romantic love, companion love, stupid love and perfect American love.
Like (like)
This kind of love, only intimacy, feels comfortable together, but feels lack of passion, and may not be willing to be together for life. Without passion and commitment, I feel like friendship.
Obsessive Love
This kind of love is just a passionate experience. I think the other side is very attractive. Besides, I don't know much about each other and I haven't thought about the future. Only passion, no intimacy and commitment, such as first love. First love is always full of passion, but it lacks maturity and stability. It is a kind of youthful love guided by instinct.
Empty love
This kind of love is just a promise, lacking intimacy and passion, such as love purely for marriage.
Romantic love (romantic love)
This kind of love has intimate relationship, passionate experience, but no commitment, only advocating the process, not caring about the result.
Companion's Love (Companion's Love)
This kind of love has intimacy and commitment, but lacks passion. It is common for a stable marriage to have only rights and obligations and no feelings. An old couple touched her right hand with their left hand.
Stupid love (Fatuouslove)
This kind of love is only passion and commitment, and there is no intimate relationship. Passion without intimacy is a physical impulse at best, and commitment without intimacy is just a blank check.
Perfect love
Perfect love needs three elements at the same time, passion, commitment and intimacy.
Married to a white rose, I am very sweet and comfortable. Maybe I like love. If I increase my commitment, I will be a companion love, like Bai Yueguang by the window, plain and stable. However, if the intimacy fades, the white rose is destined to be sticky on the clothes, and I just want to brush it off, and I am not even interested in picking it up and chewing it in my mouth.
Married a red rose, passionate, but infatuated love will not last long. Sooner or later, the red rose will become mosquito blood on the wall, and it will sting your eyes if you can't wipe it off. If the intimacy increases, the relationship with the red rose is spoony love. Without commitment, you can go wherever you want, and eventually you will become the Zhu Shazhi in your heart, which is unforgettable, but you can only touch him quietly, and you can't rely on your peers to live side by side.
As a result, people with red roses will miss Bai Yueguang before going to bed; Zhu Shazhi who married a white rose but secretly rubbed her breasts.
Perfect love can be met but not sought. Over time, perfect love will also become companion love.
I like the most romantic thing: the most romantic thing I can think of is to grow old with you, collect bits and pieces of laughter along the way and save it for later sitting in a wheelchair.
Friend, what kind of love do you choose?