Look through the books on female psychology. Psychology books are like a healing pill, which helps you understand others and yourself. Many men want to know what women think, because it is really difficult to see through women's hearts. Share the following books about female psychology.
Look through the book on female psychology 1 1, my life.
My Life, by Jay McLenny.
Comments: With the help of an unknown young investigator, McLenny successfully created Alison Poole, a "charming fairy". In this book, Alison doesn't seem to rap, but communicates with readers in Kan Kan's way.
She likes to invent some terms, calling those annoying men "Petri dishes" and describing orgasm with "warm and stretched intoxication", fearing that she might get sexually transmitted diseases. On the other hand, she is an aspiring actress who protects herself with tights and gossip. Only when she is awake occasionally will she realize that she is just a man's plaything.
2. Destiny takes a hand
(Peleg), by J·P· Mancher.
Comments: Amy, the heroine of this book, is a charming female assassin who buys her favorite furs and truffles through entrustment. Every time she goes to a new city, she will change her face, let her neighbors kill each other through strange psychological games and sexual hints, and finally bleed.
Amy is as sensitive to food as men, claiming that her lawyer is "bald as a half-cooked roast beef". She is dangerous and sexy, fickle and lofty, dressed appropriately and neatly, which is simply the ultimate fantasy of men. "Whenever she counts money, Amy rubs her nipples"-whether it is the author's fantasy or not, it doesn't matter.
3. "Mrs. Buji"
By Ivan S. Cornell.
Comments: Cornell created such a housewife in Kansas with humorous and compassionate brushwork. It is her unique skill to know people through shoes and gestures at the dinner table. Living in a room with her husband, three children who are still in school and a diligent housekeeper, Mrs. Buji's life seems comfortable and boring, but it hides the calm before the storm.
Every chapter of this book mourns the lost years and Mrs. Buji's helplessness, which becomes more and more intense because the latter can't find her dreams. This work is worth reading for those who want to know the mother's heart.
4. "Sex"
(mating), by Norman Rush
Comments: The second person in this book calls the narrator a nutritionist with a slender waist. During her trip to Botswana, she met Professor Nelson Dannon, who had just been kicked out of the university, and established a utopia with only women in the depths of the desert.
Looking at the differences between men and women with a merciless lens, she regards the so-called "idyllic sex" as "pure man's hobby" and "as long as there is a little choice, no woman will agree". According to the author's preface, this book is a gift for his beloved wife, because "her heart, emotion and wisdom are so obviously soaked between the lines".
5. "girl"
(Girl), by Blake Nelson.
Comments: Angela Marr, the protagonist, lives in Oregon. On weekdays, she loves shopping, making love, singing and commenting on the tiny details of the "substitutes" in the supermarket. Although she talks like a running account, she has a clear understanding of the "level" around her, and this contradictory personality will naturally become the source of trouble.
Nelson gave Angela too much unreliable self-esteem in this book, which is a fable to some extent, indicating that under the current cultural environment, young girls' minds can only be filled with "parasitic hobbies".
See through the books of female psychology 2 psychological books that women must read.
1, "You deserve the best"
Author: Meiya
Publishing House: Hunan Literature and Art Publishing House
Release date: 20 14 1 1 month.
About dreams, about love and about herself, Meiya recorded those precious life experiences, and also wrote down her own pressure, anxiety, confusion and insecurity.
35 life experiences, 35 growing up with tears. In her article, we saw others and ourselves, and we are glad to finally understand a truth: loving ourselves is the beginning of a beautiful encounter with everything.
2. The power of positive emotions
By Barbara frederickson.
Translator: Wang Jun
Editor: Timothy So
Commentary: Yang Zhiping
Press: China Renmin University.
Release time: 2065438+0065438+February.
Are you prosperous or declining? It all depends on your heartfelt positive emotions. The more positive emotions the better, and the less negative emotions the better. To achieve a better life, the best ratio of positive emotions to negative emotions is 3: 1.
Through years of research, Barbara told us that we can reduce negative emotions in seven ways and improve positive emotions in 10.
3, "the courage to be hated"
Authors: Ichiro Nishi, Koga Shi Jian.
Translator: Qu Haixia
Press: Machinery Industry Press
Publication date: 2065438+March 2005
Do you often get tired of boring life? Are you always tired of complicated interpersonal relationships? How to get real happiness with your own hands in complicated daily chores and complicated interpersonal relationships? The answer to all this is in this book "the courage to be hated".
This book is not to attract the negative energy of being hated, but, if it is the most beautiful glory in my life, I will continue to go on even if it may be hated.
4. "Live the life you want"
Author: Mettler Ben Shasha
Translators: Ni Zijun, Liu Junjie.
Press: CITIC Publishing Group
Choose the life you want.
Release time: 2065 438+06 65438+ 10 month.
In modern life, everyone is busy with work, family and various trifles. We seldom have time to calm down and savor the happiness in life, but we often feel overwhelmed and stressed. ...
As an authoritative expert in the field of positive psychology, Taylor Ben-Shachard brought this masterpiece after the super best-selling book The Method of Happiness.
See through women's psychology books 3 women's necessary psychology books
1, on human growth
carl ranson rogers
Douban: 8, 8 points
Carl rogers is an outstanding humanistic psychologist. He pays attention to people's self-development and personality development, and emphasizes that people have the ability of self-adjustment to restore mental health.
I like reading the works of humanistic psychologists, such as Maslow's demand theory, which all attach great importance to people's self-development. In Rogers' view, people have a tendency to strive to achieve, which to some extent stems from the inconsistency between ideal self and realistic self, and this inconsistency is also the source of anxiety.
I like reading Rogers' books and his thoughts, not only because his thoughts are deeply rooted in people's hearts, but also because of his pleasant words, such as: "The process of life is the process of being yourself and becoming yourself."
"A good life is a process, not a state of being; It is a direction, not a destination. The direction that constitutes a better life is his whole physical and mental choice when he has psychological freedom to move in any direction. "
In this book, while reviewing his personal experience, Rogers also puts forward ways and means of personal growth. Maybe, you will read on like me and get a lot of inspiration. What inspires you is a good book.
2. Live the meaning of life
viktor emil frankl
Douban: 8, 6 points
Because I really love this book, I have written a special book review for this book before. If I can only recommend you one monograph on psychology, I would like to recommend this one, which is also a book that will make you suddenly enlightened.
Psychologist Victor frankl founded "Meaning Therapy", which is called the third Vienna psychotherapy school after Freud's psychoanalysis and Adler's individual psychology.
Why do you recommend this book? Because he is called the miracle of the 20th century, he tells you with his own life course what is the hope in a desperate situation and what is the meaning of life. His research object is his own suffering, and he has a deep thinking about suffering and a deep understanding of the meaning of life.
During World War II, as a Jew, he did not escape the Nazis. He was imprisoned in a concentration camp in troubled times, a place where there was no survival, and lost all his relatives. He miraculously survived. In this book, there are not so many boring theories, but a person who has experienced purgatory-like suffering, telling you everything that happened in the concentration camp and those who died prematurely because of his inner weakness. What he cares about is not why most people died, but why some people survived.
He always believed that people's internal strength could change their external destiny. Because, according to his meaning therapy, trying to find the meaning of life is the main motivation for people to live, which is different from Freud's "pursuit of happiness" and Adler's "pursuit of Excellence".
We are in such an era where everyone is in danger, and too many people, especially young people, need to go through a long period of pain before they can really mature. And what should we do in the face of pain?