I am a university teacher. I have come into contact with many college students in recent years. I found that some parents pay special attention to their children's situation at school. After a while, they will call the students and ask them about their performance in school. They will give them some requirements and tell them some truth. Some parents rarely ask about the students' situation, only care about whether the students eat well, dress warmly or not, and pay living expenses every month. They think that parents can completely give up and let their children develop themselves.

Some students are anxious because of the pressure from their parents, so they can't adjust their mentality well, so they live in anxiety every day.

Some students, because of lack of willpower and goals, are completely let go by their parents. They play games and play plays in addition to classes every day. When they graduate, they have no skills, so it is difficult to find an ideal job.

As an adult, college students are on their own, but they still need a "guide". This guidance, not only his teacher, but also his parents play a very important role. Therefore, for college students, parents still have to "manage".

The life experience accumulated by parents' half-life experience is the spiritual wealth that children can learn from in their future life;

Parents' reference opinions when their children face important choices can guide their children at the crossroads of life and help them better avoid risks and achieve their goals;

Even if you don't have enough ability to answer questions for your children, the concern from parents can make your children realize their significance to the family, realize that they still have a responsibility to the family on their shoulders, and feel the warmth from the family. This is also a driving force for his efforts.

Even if you don't have enough education and ability, you can still rely on the strength of others. Relatives at home and friends who have gone to college can communicate with your children more often, and they can also be guides for your children in a certain aspect or field.

And if you let your child do whatever he wants and don't ask about his college life at all, you will lose not only the opportunity to exchange ideas with your child, but also a hotbed for the growth of a child who lacks self-control and clear goals.

Therefore, parents should still "manage" college students, but they should be flexible, respect, guide and help them, instead of forcing, ordering and doing it for them.