Hello!

Look at the instructions for freshmen, book high-speed rail tickets online, move accounts, activate bank cards, and so on; Looking at your busy figure, I really feel that the baby has grown up and is going to fly. But you're still a child. When you go to Beijing to learn a foreign language in advance, you sit on the subway, holding your mother in one hand and your father in the other; Pretending to be calm, your father and I almost cried when we waved into the gate. I know my baby is still a little scared. But I bravely walked ahead. "Children are worried for thousands of miles." My baby, no matter how far you go, your parents will always be your strong backing. At the age of eighteen, you should learn to travel alone and handle things independently. I want you to fly. In order to make you fly higher, mother wants to say a few words.

1. Study hard and don't waste four years.

(1) University is not a place for you to rest and have fun, but an important port where you set sail in John Yang. Universities should spend most of their time studying. Don't fail, try to be excellent in every subject. Maybe in a place like Tsinghua where there are so many experts, you will find it difficult, but as long as you pay, you will get something back. There is often only a thin line between the strong and the weak. At this stage, attitude is often everything. Remember, there is no difference between good and bad majors, only good and bad ones.

(2) Talk with excellent seniors to see where others are excellent and how to make themselves excellent as soon as possible.

(3) Take the initiative to find a good tutor, take an active part in college students' innovation projects and spark plans, participate in teachers' projects, follow the tutor as a person, and study hard.

(4) Go to the lab to see what seniors and teachers are doing. Do more and talk less. Master the basic experimental skills of your major as soon as possible.

(5) Learn to make good use of the library. The rich resources of the library will benefit you a lot.

(6) Make a good study plan and life goals for each semester, and make early preparations for your future. For example, when to take TOEFL, GRE, and professional certificate exams. If you want to pass the exam, you'd better make a study plan before reviewing.

(7) Freshman passed CET-4 last semester and sophomore passed CET-6 next semester. Try to get high marks, which is good for your research.

(8) Pay attention to the news every day, so as to keep up with the times.

(9) Listen to the reports made by some campus celebrities. In this way, you will be as good as them in the future.

(10) In addition to learning English well, you should also choose a second foreign language related to your major, which will help you to study in the country where your major ranks first in the world quickly and easily.

2. Learn to arrange your own time so that you can live a full life every day.

(1) You must have your own life goals and plans. Learn to arrange time reasonably and handle the time of study, club activities and exercise. Work and rest time is accurate to the hour, such as running, swimming or playing football at 3,000 m from 5 to 6 pm (keep exercising every day 1- 1.5h). You should have a regular exercise program.

(2) There are several songs that I am good at. Violin should be practiced often.

(3) It is best to listen to all kinds of songs by yourself. For example, Teresa Teng has as many fans as Jay Chou.

(4) Reading several pages of famous books every day is good for your literary accomplishment.

(5) Be a simple person, practical and pragmatic. Don't indulge in fantasy. Don't rock the boat. Introspection every day, do well every day. Live in the present, don't waste your present life thinking about the past or looking forward to the future.

(6) Join a community or be a cadre. But the premise is that it can't affect learning. You should arrange the time of violin and football reasonably.

3. Learn to get along with others. Learn from people with good interpersonal relationships and be a popular person.

(1) Live on campus and get along well with classmates and roommates in the dormitory. Don't smoke in the dormitory. Don't talk about the difference between urban and rural areas in the dormitory, but know how to take care of others' feelings when communicating with others. Respect the rest time and living habits of other people in the dormitory. In club activities, we must consider those students whose families are not very good and know how to put ourselves in others' shoes. If a classmate "borrows" your things without your permission, whether you know who he is or not, don't slander him or make trouble without reason, because you live in the same campus and are still classmates after all.

(2) Respect teachers. Don't be too nervous with teachers and counselors. Giving others face is giving yourself face. The teacher may not be as good as you, but you still have to respect him. Whether you like this classmate or the teacher, try to say hello when you meet him.

(3) It is best not to tear down the things posted by others.

(4) When posting on the Internet, if others don't reply, don't force others to reply. Be kind.

(5) Don't underestimate anyone. There must be a teacher in a threesome. Everyone has his own advantages and is worth learning.

(6) Be gentle with people and things. Don't lose your temper at will, no one owes you. Restrain your temper and be silent occasionally, because impulse will do irreparable things. Whenever you do something, you should think twice before you act. Don't be a hedgehog. If you don't make enemies with others, you won't make enemies with others. No one will stay with anyone for a lifetime. Some things don't need to be remembered.

(7) Don't gamble between classmates. Remember to pay back the money you borrowed from your classmates, which is also a manifestation of maintaining a harmonious relationship between classmates.

(8) Don't lie, because you will be caught one day. It is impossible for people to honor all their promises, but as long as they promise, they should try their best to honor them and be honest. Believe in karma! Believe in reincarnation!

(9) break up with people who are malicious to themselves. Only when people break friends can they have the best friends. Never give a friend who has betrayed himself a second chance to betray. No matter who you are, you have your own limits. Especially trust.

(10) Be cautious, independent, learn to compromise and stick to your most basic principles.

(1 1) Be realistic and hypocritical once in a while, because if you don't do that, it will be difficult to mix.

(12) Know how to listen to other people's suggestions. Don't try to control others, don't ask others to understand you.

(13) Make more friends and make good friends. Please remember, the definition of a good friend is: you mix well and he is really happy for you; You have a bad life, and he is really worried about you. There must be friends from different levels and classes. At that time, you will truly realize the true meaning of "more friends make the road easier".

(14) Try not to gossip or even laugh at teachers and classmates, especially roommates. Don't make fun of your classmates' accents, clothes or defects. Don't dig at your classmates.

(15) The world is unfair, but God is fair to everyone. Don't always pour out your difficulties in front of others and expose your vulnerability. Please "be frustrated but not happy, be proud but not happy." Your emotions should take into account the feelings of others.

(16) Learn patience and persistence! Only those who have perseverance and accumulate wealth can become strong in life.

4. Find someone you really like and fall in love with your heart. Meeting a favorite TA in college and even becoming a like-minded partner is the greatest happiness of your life.

(1) Have a clear understanding of the weakness of human nature. Please stay away from those girls who worship money, are snobbish and don't know how to cherish you. But we should believe in sincere love and always have a simple yearning for love. But love is not everything to you. Don't beg for love once and you will succeed. Understand that time can dilute everything.

(2) You can pursue a person persistently, but if you really can't catch up, you'd better give up and don't gloat when you catch up with a better one.

(3) Don't say "I love you" easily.

(4) Say hello when you see someone you once met or someone you once pursued, regardless of whether there are others around her.

(5) If this relationship makes you unforgettable, it is best not to start another one immediately after breaking up, because it is a respect for love.

(6) Don't kiss others easily, because this is the greatest behavior of human beings.

(7) Treat your suitors with respect and courtesy. There is nothing wrong with loving someone. You can't interfere with others' right to love.

(8) Dating someone you like is your happiest thing. Don't date people easily because your ears are soft and you can't stand entanglement.

Don't jump to the conclusion that she is your favorite person.

(10) When two people are together, they should learn to leave each other a private space.

(1 1) Try not to talk about your previous emotional experience, which is a white lie.

(12) Before deciding on a long-distance relationship, you must think carefully about picking someone else's object, playing both sides, and trying to hook up with a friend's wife.

(13) When two people make out, they should consider others and occasions.

(14) Don't fight for a girl, respect her choice.

(15) If your girlfriend's ex-boyfriend suddenly calls her, don't interfere in their conversation. Give them time to talk freely.

(16) Even if you meet by chance in the street or at a class reunion after breaking up, don't contact again because of this. Once love is shattered, it is impossible to come back.

(17) Be sure to attend the freshman dance, which is the best place for you to find a girlfriend in engineering male.

Pay attention to safety and remember that your life is not yours alone.

(1) Be sure to have breakfast. Please don't be a donkey friend, and don't stay in a bad hotel to prevent safety problems.

(2) Life is the most fragile thing in this world, and good health is very important.

(3) Stay away from drugs and friends, drugs will ruin a person's life.

(4) Do not smoke, drink or stay up late. If you don't pay attention when you are young, you will pay the price when you are old.

(5) Before saving people, please do what you can under the premise of ensuring your own safety.

(6) Please don't swim in unprotected places such as rivers and reservoirs. Swim to the swimming pool in Tsinghua, where there is a first-class swimming pool in China and a world champion as a coach.

(7) Don't leave the campus easily at night, and don't go to bars, karaoke bars, dance halls and other places.

(8) Don't trust any acquaintances, classmates and friends who borrow money or ask for help from you on QQ or SMS. Don't trust the so-called public security departments, police stations and other public security laws.

(9) Don't believe that pies will fall from the sky. Don't go out with strangers easily, and don't be greedy for petty gain.

6. Always smile. Children who love to laugh are not too bad luck.

7. Always remember what Tao Xingzhi said, "Dripping your own sweat, eating your own food, doing your own thing, relying on people, relying on the sky, relying on your ancestors, is not a hero." Self-improvement should run through your life.

8. Thrift is a virtue. "A porridge and a meal are hard to come by; Half a silk and half a wisp, it is difficult to think about matter. " Of course, frugality does not mean being stingy, but when making decisions such as buying things and ordering food, we should consider whether it will cause waste.

Please call your parents once a week. If you have something on your mind, you can tell your mother that she is your 24-hour psychological counselor. The strong in life will adjust their mentality in time and maintain a positive and sunny mood. People affected by mood are often confused, and people affected by mood are often very happy.

Baby, I still have a lot to say, and I want to exhort you. A thousand words can be turned into one sentence: "Let your ideals fly, be down to earth, and create more glories."

Love your parents forever.