There is a saying: a horse of a thousand miles is not a donkey, and cultivated land is not as good as cattle. The point is, what do you need?
When choosing a model, the focus is on height, and when entering the company, the focus will be on ability and education. When choosing a wife or husband, love each other first, and then love this family. So love should be the focus of whether two people can stay together for a long time, and emotion should be the key.
Whether doctors or specialists, there should not be much difference in their cognition of life. The doctor is only more capable and stronger professionally. So education will not affect the lives of two people.
I remember hearing the story of a university professor. When he was young, he was assigned to a village in the countryside and fell in love with a girl in the village. That girl, gentle and kind, is also very beautiful, loves him very much, and is meticulous and obedient to him. Except that she can't read But he likes her simplicity and kindness. He married her.
Later, the man returned to the city to become a university professor. He brought his wife with him. My wife is not sociable and seldom goes to socialize. The professor understands and never forces her.
The professor's life circle is full of senior intellectuals. People who know them all say that they are too unsuitable and advise him to get a divorce quickly. Persuade him that you can't find anything on your terms. At first, he didn't care. Later, more people talked about it, and after a long time, he moved the idea of divorce. So one night, he started writing divorce papers, but his wife thought he was preparing lessons as usual. Bring tea for a while and snacks for a while. It's very hot, and she is still giving him a fan. He turned down his wife.
The next morning, the professor went to work after breakfast. His wife came to clean the study. She opened the window and a gust of wind blew in, scraping some pieces of paper on the table into the basin she had just brought in. Yesterday, when my wife saw that she was a professor, she stayed up all night writing, thinking it must be very important. My wife was so anxious that tears fell. Take it out quickly, then blow dry it with a hair dryer and iron it. Just like an imperial edict.
After the professor got off work, his wife told him what had happened. The professor has mixed feelings. Pick up the written divorce agreement, gently tear it up and say, this is just a handout I wrote, it's not important. If his wife was released again, she smiled happily.
When others mentioned the mismatch, the professor simply said, "Only the feet know whether the shoes are suitable!" "
I think "happiness" means "satisfaction". As the saying goes, easy is priceless, and lovers are rare!
So whether we can stay together for a long time is not whether our education can be in tune, but whether our hearts can be in tune.