Xin Qiji left an eternal famous sentence praising love in "Jade Case: Yuan": "Many people searched for him for thousands of times, and suddenly looked back, but that person was there, and the lights were dim." Romantic love is really fate. Without a little warmth, loving each other like Lu You and Tang Wan can only leave the regret that "the vows of eternal love are hard to trust" in Hairpin Phoenix. However, what is even more fascinating is the beautiful talk of "meeting thousands of miles away".

With the gradual opening-up of China's economy, the economic exchanges between neighboring countries and China have become increasingly close, and personnel exchanges have become more frequent. China people can go abroad for study, business trip and travel conveniently, and more and more foreigners come to work and settle in China. After coming to China, many foreign friends were deeply attracted by this land with a long history, and finally chose to settle here, and even combined with China people. There are more and more "foreign wives" and "foreign sons-in-law". In Sichuan, China, there was a foreign beauty who married a migrant worker who was two years older than herself.

▲ Transnational marriage

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Located in central Asia, Kazakhstan is the largest landlocked country in the world, bordering the northwest of China. Historically, Kazakhstan and China are inextricably linked. /kloc-In the first half of the 0/2nd century, the Western Liao people invaded this land, and/kloc-was ruled by Mongols in the 0/3rd century. /kloc-in the 0/8th century, the Kazakh khanate, which ruled Kazakhstan at that time, surrendered to the Qing Dynasty. After the founding of New China, the two countries announced the establishment of diplomatic relations from 65438 to 0992. Over the years, relations between the two countries have been good and bilateral trade volume has been increasing. After joining the Belt and Road Initiative, Kazakhstan has enjoyed the development dividend of China and its economy has taken off rapidly.

In this context, the Kazakh girl Mihana came to China to seek development opportunities. After seeing the giant panda advertisement at the Sichuan Cultural Tourism Exchange Promotion Conference, she became interested in this animal and even the country, and her family also supported her to come to China to seek opportunities.

▲ Mihanna photo

At this time, Lao Quan, a 40-year-old Henan migrant worker, also came to a newly-opened construction site in Sichuan as a carpenter. He is a good carpenter, but his income is unstable. This time, he came to this construction site with a construction period of several years through a friend's introduction, and he also held the idea of having a stable income a few years ago and then going home to build a small building to get married and have children.

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As the saying goes, what a coincidence. After coming to Sichuan, Mihana was introduced by fellow villagers' association and also worked as a kitchen helper on this newly-opened construction site. She studies Chinese seriously every day and tries to take care of herself in a foreign country. And such a beautiful woman from a foreign country has undoubtedly attracted most men on the construction site, and she has also become a talk after dinner. Lao Quan also emerged at this time, becoming a leader in carpentry on construction sites. Hard-working, helpful and never talking to girls, these characteristics make Lao Quan silently attract Meihua's attention. Once, when the kitchen needed help, Meihua found Lao Quan and they got to know each other.

▲ Mihana is a kitchen helper.

From then on, Lao Quan began to chat with Meihua intentionally or unintentionally, silently giving her all kinds of help. Mihana is in a strange environment and feels this kind of practical and reliable preciousness. So she abandoned the prejudice of age and decided to give her 2 1 year-old elder a chance. The news of their love affair caused an uproar on the construction site, and many workers teased them about their "lovelorn love", and both of them laughed it off.

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Meihua is 24 years old and Lao Quan is 45 years old. They are officially married. After marriage, Meihua rejected Lao Quan's proposal to rent a house. After coordination, the two shared a small single room at the construction site and began to save money together. Mihana soon became pregnant and gave birth to a healthy and beautiful bastard. From then on, she took her son to the kitchen every day to help cook, and stood at the door of their simple but warm little room with her son in her arms, waiting for Lao Quan to come home. Perhaps in the eyes of most people, living on the construction site after marriage seems too shabby, but for Mihana, who has been longing for a home, she feels very happy.

After living in China for many years, Mihana has been able to cook authentic Chinese food, and her Chinese level is getting higher and higher, which makes it easy for her to get along with her workmates. In one of the few parties on the construction site, Meihua always stood up and danced a folk dance, which won the house applause, while Lao Quan would hold her son in her arms and look at her gorgeous wife after marriage, and watch her return to her side after dancing. I have taken care of each other on the construction site for several years, transcending the restrictions of culture and age, cultivating my own tacit understanding and having my own happiness.

As the saying goes, happy marriages are always similar, and it is very important that two people in marriage should complement each other and understand each other. Although in the secular eyes, Meihua and Lao Quan are not a good match, they are both hardworking and willing to make progress, and they are all people who are willing to live a good life in a down-to-earth manner, rather than grandstanding for the sake of fame and fortune. So it is no wonder that two people can attract each other and finally come together.

▲ Meihua and Lao Quan

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There is a saying in the Book of Songs: "Hold your hand and grow old with your son", which is probably the most ordinary and happiest appearance of love in people's hearts. Love does not need to consider secular vision, and marriage does not need to be as vigorous as in film and television works. It is enough to have a like-minded person who is willing to go together. Just like Zhuo Wenjun said in "Ballad of a White Head", "We are willing to be United as one and never leave each other".

References:

Green Jade Cup: Lantern Festival

The Book of Songs

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