Have your own goals.

This goal can be long-term or short-term.

For example, how many books do you want to read a year, how many excellent movies do you want to watch, or you must get a scholarship this semester and so on.

With goals, there is motivation, and it is not easy to be influenced by others.

Grade point is the standard for most colleges and universities to measure students' test scores in various subjects, and it is also an important condition to decide whether you can get scholarships, minor, double degrees, change majors and study abroad.

Before defining your goals, make sure that your studies are passable. Failure is never something to show off.

With goals, there is motivation, and it is not easy to be influenced by others.

Learn self-discipline

Let me talk about my roommate A in Bian Xiao. When I was a freshman last semester, most of my classmates felt that college life was more comfortable because they had just left senior three, so they played as they please every day and took a break if they wanted, even if they said no, they didn't go to the morning class.

But small is different. As always, he got up at 6 o'clock in the morning, cleaned up his house (how many of us didn't fold the quilt after military training), and then began a day of study and life. Finally, at the end of the semester, when everyone was complaining about the low credits, Xiao Ah ranked first in the major with 97. 17 credits, far ahead of others.

Since then, Bian Xiao has realized that the power of self-discipline is so powerful.

Self-disciplined people are not necessarily excellent, but excellent people must be self-disciplined.

Don't blindly pursue gregarious, be kind to others.

It is foolish to blindly pursue gregarious.

We will gradually find that the better people are, the more likely they are to feel lonely.

Never be afraid of being unsociable. In fact, no one in this world can fully understand another person. Everyone has different experiences and different ways of thinking, which means that we cannot be understood by many people.

So you need to have your own firm belief, instead of blindly following others and seeking their approval and support.

But in any case, be friendly with the people around you. Because being alone is a character, and being kind to others is a kind of accomplishment.