People who like to complain are intentional and a special kind of heart. This kind of special heart includes the desire to watch the excitement and the horror of others being beaten, injured and damaged. Moreover, the more painful the defendant is, the happier he is. Satisfying his wishes to the greatest extent is his greatest happiness and pursuit-more hateful than gloating.
A person who likes to complain is deliberate, deliberate and has ulterior motives. Generally speaking, his five face changes are just like those in Sichuan opera, which is hard to prevent.
The first is to pretend to be friendly to you. This kind of person is really unique. He may or may not be extremely smart, but he is especially good at acting. Interacting with you in front of you, he is very friendly and speaks politely: his tone is gentle, his words are friendly and his attitude is cordial; Things are not heavy either: I'll give you this today and that tomorrow. But what is hateful is that it is this close contact that he knows you like the back of his hand, and all your shortcomings and weaknesses are mastered by him, and then he will wait for an opportunity to tell you that you are black.
The second is to frame you quietly. This kind of person is a ghost, and he speaks very skillfully. What he throws is often trapped. If you don't know his plot, it's easy to answer questions according to his ideas. As long as you answer truthfully, you will be taken in by him. What you said is conclusive evidence of his complaint. Then, in the dark, it is said that you said it everywhere, and what you said is sometimes well known; Sometimes just in private. And you were framed by him and you didn't know it.
The third is to spy on you. When I say furtive, I don't necessarily mean in the dark, but also in the light. Like a spy, on the surface, he said nothing, did nothing, and even had a close relationship with you. But in fact, he acted as a spy. He stares at your every move, quietly hides it in his heart and won't spread it around. But as long as he seizes the opportunity, maybe when you lose power, he will sue you and give you a sap, which will make you lose your strength.
The fourth is an excuse to associate with you. Originally, they had nothing in common, but he enthusiastically made friends with you, and came to greet you when something happened, which made you feel that "this man is good", but as the saying goes, "nothing goes to the Three Treasures Hall" and the bad guys "can't afford to get up early without benefits". As the saying goes, "if you go looking for trouble, you are either a traitor or a thief." Such people are either traitors or thieves. You are extremely gullible before you see through it. Because of politeness and common sense of people who raise their hands without laughing, his sweet-talking sword and sugar-coated cannonball have become his magic weapon to harm you.
The fifth is to climb "pro" with you indirectly. Such people are shameless. You have nothing to do with him. It doesn't matter. But he likes to brag about his relationship with you in front of others, and indirectly climb "pro" with you. That is, by getting to know your friends and relatives, you can get to know your core information indirectly. This kind of thing happens most easily at work. By spying on your close colleagues, digging out your deadly information without leaving a trace, and then waiting for an opportunity to make a big fuss, it will cause you great passivity.