1.*** Same salary. I believe everyone agrees that "if you love someone, you must be kind to her". But I think there is a premise here, that is, she must be good to you. Between lovers, if one of them is as worried as mom and dad all day, then such a relationship will not last long. A good relationship needs management and two people working together. Don't sit and watch the sea when the other person is too busy. Give each other a hand, say a few words of concern, and let them know that she has been rewarded for your efforts. Yes, so that she will have better motivation to be nice to you, and her feelings will be more reliable in this dedication of you and me.
2. Have your own space. Some people pay special attention to their own proportion in each other's lives when they are in love. If they don't meet their expectations, they will feel anxious. For example, they talk for two hours every night, and even if there is no topic, they will continue to talk. For example, we should go out to play together every weekend, and accompany me even if we are sick. This is actually your possessiveness. This is what many people have in business love. Frequently asked questions. I thought I loved each other deeply, but in fact I made them feel oppressed. Everyone is an independent individual and needs a private space to release their emotions. Otherwise, the problem will accumulate deeper and deeper, and finally you can't eat this alone. Bitter fruit. As the saying goes, "distance produces beauty." Even if two people who love each other stick together every day, they will inevitably get tired of each other.
3. Lack of tolerance and consideration for each other. When two people get along for a long time, it is inevitable that there will be contradictions and frictions. You can't understand me and I can't understand you, and then try to feel each other in your own way, hoping that the other person can change according to his own ideas, but the results are often very different. Everyone is an independent individual, no matter how well-matched two people are, when they are not in harmony, the person who loves you will tolerate your shortcomings and change yours for you.