First of all, the library is * * * and students have the right to use it; Of course, not all colleges and universities can meet the student size, and the number of seats in the library is less than the number of students. But because of this, seat occupation should be controlled. When there is a shortage of seats, students should take the initiative to leave the seats around them for students in need.
Of course, it is ok to occupy a seat for a short time, but it is unreasonable to occupy a seat for a long time. Secondly, some people have a bad habit. Six people at a table or only three or two people sit in a long row of tables and chairs at a time, and then put the rest of the books on the seats. When people ask, they say there is someone, but there is no one. Why?
The reason is that these people's so-called consideration of their own habits without considering others is actually selfish. I often encounter this situation and have told the librarian many times. Later, the school library stipulated that the librarian could persuade me to vacate my seat for more than 30 minutes. How to deal with the occupied position during the trip?
With the popularization of modern means of transportation, there are more and more friends who take high-speed rail and train. We usually buy it online in advance when we take the train, and then we can sit in the right place according to the ticket when we get on the bus. This is a very simple thing, but sometimes we will encounter some unexpected situations, such as someone occupying his seat. If we meet an unreasonable person, we can't tell him how to let him go, which will affect our driving experience all day.
People with high emotional intelligence handle this, and the other party apologizes for you. We all know that train tickets have seats and no seats. Some people don't buy seat tickets or station tickets to save money, so there are no seats on the train. Of course, some people took someone else's seat because they read the wrong seat number. So when we meet someone who wants to sit down, we should first ask what kind of person the other person is, and then judge whether we can communicate according to the other person's reaction. Let's look at it according to the situation.
First of all, the person who occupies a seat in the first case has no seat. When you go to the toilet or walk around, he takes your seat. The reason may be that you are too tired to stand. When you come back, you should show him your ticket and tell him that this seat is yours. Normal people will give up their seats at this time. After all, this seat is not his. This situation is also the most common, as long as it is a reasonable meeting.
The second situation is that you meet an unreasonable person. He may not have a seat, or he may have a seat, but he thinks your position is good and wants to take your position. If you tell him that this seat is yours and show your ticket, the other person's attitude is very bad. He tells you that you want to take his seat, which seems to be a matter of course, so don't be angry or upset at this time, because once you are impulsive.
It's not worth fighting with an unreasonable person for a position. If you hurt yourself again, you will lose more than you gain. People with high emotional intelligence will do this at this time. When they find that the communication is invalid, they will inform the conductor at the first time and let them handle it, so that they will not contact each other, because there will be flight attendants, police officers and train conductors on the bus, and they can all help you safeguard your rights and interests well. As soon as you come out, the person who occupies the position will not dare to be arrogant, because illegally occupying someone else's position will be severely punished, and in serious cases, you will face fines and detention. In this case, the person who occupies the position will not be arrogant, and will immediately give up the position and take the initiative to apologize to you.
Finally, to sum up, when someone gives up his seat on the train, people with high emotional intelligence generally communicate with each other in a friendly way, but the other party is a hooligan. People with high emotional intelligence will avoid continuing contact with them to avoid quarreling. They will call the police and let the police punish them. People who face the position occupied by the police generally dare not be arrogant and will take the initiative to apologize to you and return the position to you.