Ms. Song of Dalian never imagined that she had just taken her 4-year-old daughter out for a meal, but her daughter was kicked by a stranger for no reason.
When her daughter was kicked, Ms. Song was also angry and rushed to tear at the female college student who kicked her daughter.
During the whole process, the two sides threw tableware at each other, and Ms. Song also emotionally beat and scolded the waiters who came to pull the shelves.
The woman in a denim skirt is a young woman, and the woman in black is the mother of the child. )
Looking back at this incident, let's not talk about the absolute mistake of female college students kicking their children. We just think calmly from the perspective of parents. If we are the parties to the incident, how can we avoid it?
Choose a restaurant with a children's play area.
If I take my children out to eat by myself, or go out to eat with friends, I will try to choose a restaurant with a children's amusement park.
In my opinion, the girls, parents and college students in this incident should bear the corresponding responsibilities. They all targeted themselves, and they were all slaves to bad emotions. First, although girls are young, they should not make noise in public places, which will affect others' dining and disturb public order.
Secondly, female college students should not lose control of their emotions and take the initiative to hurt young children after being angered. Obviously, she can choose to communicate with the restaurant manager and the parents of the children, and try to rationally discourage the impolite behavior of the children, instead of threatening them by violent means.
Third, the girl's mother overreacted and was eager to protect the calf, but she couldn't fight, let alone attack the waiter who dissuaded her. Originally, as a mother, she should educate her children to keep order in public, not to disturb the scene, not to make mistakes first, and not to set a good example for their children. This is the dereliction of duty of parents. The out-of-control of public squares reflects the lack of social morality.
Regardless of social morality and basic quality, is society the fuse of events? The answer is: in a bad mood. A bad mood is like a fierce beast rushing out of a cage. In an instant, generate gives power, immediately occupies the whole brain, dominates all human behaviors, makes people lose their minds and is easy to do wrong. In the incident, it was the first time that female college students were carried away by angry bad emotions before kicking girls. And the girl's mother was also affected by this bad emotional contagion. She had no choice but to control it, so she expanded the incident to violence with violence.
At any time, a person should not be a slave to his bad mood, and all actions should not be subject to his bad mood, but should be controlled in turn. No matter how bad the situation is, you should try to control your environment and save yourself from the darkness.