① Cultivate the ability of time planning.
There is a popular saying recently that lies are in one's time. Planning ability begins in college, so we have more free time to spend. We must understand the meaning of this sentence. If we understand, how to allocate time, arrange the priorities of these things and how to improve ourselves in our spare time will have a positive impact on our future study, work and life.
② Cultivate the ability of self-regulation.
Before entering the university, our life was basically only about study, but after entering the university, our life became more colorful. Learning, internship, love, games and so on will make us face a more complicated result than before. Good self-regulation and pressure resistance are qualities that we must learn. There are always more roads than difficulties, and there are no obstacles in life. Even if you are unhappy now, it will not affect your future development.
③ Cultivate and redefine new goals.
If we haven't focused on one thing for too long, it's because we lack a goal to motivate ourselves. So we couldn't devote ourselves wholeheartedly and began to do nothing. In fact, it is refreshing to relax for a while when we are working hard for a long time, but some people have given up self-discipline, can't control themselves, and can't afford to fight anymore. Therefore, it is effective to set goals, continue to make progress and act as soon as possible.
(4) Expect something from yourself, which is also the beginning of thinking.
Let's not think about being the expectation of others, admit our imperfections, and be sensitive and fragile in our bones. Expect yourself, and slowly start to expect yourself. We don't need to be cheerful, outgoing, confident or popular like others. We need to believe that when we become good enough, or when we really like ourselves, the right person will come face to face and update ourselves more.
We should also get rid of dependence and cultivate our ability to think and solve problems independently. Thinking is also the most important part of life.
Cultivating yourself in this way is also the best state in college, and the state is a person's best feng shui.