On holidays, many friends often visit their parents with big bags and small bags, or give them red envelopes.
Giving gifts to parents and filial piety to children is a traditional virtue of the Chinese nation, which is really very good and worth promoting.
So, what is the best gift for parents in this life?
I think the best gift to my parents in this life is glory.
What is glory?
That is, when children grow up, they do corresponding things at different stages to make their parents feel happy and have light on their faces. They can make parents stand up straight, and wherever their parents go, others can praise their parents for raising a good son or daughter.
Specific performance in the following aspects:
I remember when I was a child at school, every time I took the final exam, I saw other people's children coming home with certificates, and my parents were envious. They will shake their heads and sigh when they see that my hands are empty.
When I was in the third grade of primary school, my head may have been enlightened. I got a certificate in winter vacation, the first certificate in my life.
My parents saw my award, looked around it, couldn't put it down, and then put it in the most conspicuous position on the wall at home seriously and carefully.
At that time, as long as there was one person in the family, parents would introduce this to others as my son's three-good student award.
Others are reluctant to give up their parents' enthusiastic introduction and will praise a few words. Your children are great, your children are really excellent, and your children will definitely enter the university in the future.
Hearing this, my parents are in high spirits. If there must be one word to describe it, it is euphoria.
Since I got the certificate for the first time, I will bring a certificate back every semester, and my parents will seriously put the certificate on the wall, and all the walls in my home are covered with certificates.
Mom and dad said that as long as you study hard, we will send you to college even if we bargain.
200 1 finally admitted to the university, my parents specially invited several tables of relatives and friends to celebrate.
In fact, around 2000, many of my friends went to work in Guangdong. I envy them for coming back every Spring Festival with big suitcases, big leather shoes on their feet and shiny clothes. I even want to work with them in the new year.
My parents seem to be able to read my mind. They said earnestly, don't envy others to work to make money, and don't envy others to wear good clothes. We just want you to get into a good university and get a good job.
I listened to my parents, okay? Let's go all out and get into college.
In 2005, I graduated from college, and I stayed at school as a substitute teacher.
When I first became a university teacher, my salary was not high, only 3700 a month.
My parents are very happy to know that I have become a teacher.
My parents said that our ancestors were farmers, and it was great to have a college student. It is even more glorious to have a teacher who teaches college students now.
I told my parents that I have been studying for more than 20 years and my monthly salary is not as high as that of my friends who work in Guangdong. I'm a little disappointed.
My parents said, don't compare salary with others, be more stable than work. You see, they work outside, often change jobs, have no sense of belonging, and the treatment is not as good as your teacher. You work up to ten months a year, but you get twelve months' salary and two weekends.
I listened to my parents' words again, persevered and became a good teacher. As long as my parents are happy, let them worry less.
With a stable job, parents are at ease. Everywhere they go, they like to say that my child is a university teacher.
Well, he's just a teacher. He is not as good as the last one, but he is better than the next one. He will never make a fortune, that's all.
After teaching for several years, I got married and my lover was also a teacher. My parents are satisfied.
My parents were so happy that everyone told them that their daughter-in-law was also a university teacher, which made Fiona Fang know that our son's daughter-in-law was a university teacher dozens of miles away.
I often remind my parents if I can keep a low profile. They are just university teachers, much better than our excellent teachers.
So, I took my parents to our university campus, especially the family building.
I pointed to the family building and told my parents that the teachers who live here are all doctoral professors, and there is still a big gap between me and them.
Parents said, then you continue to work hard and go to the next level. If someone else is a doctor, you will also take a Ph.D. exam. If someone else is a professor, you will also be a professor.
However, I didn't listen to my parents, and I was a little at a loss. I don't want to go up any more. It's a little difficult.
My parents don't expect me to be rich or expensive, as long as I have a stable job, good health, a harmonious family and no worries about food and clothing.
In fact, it is good for a wife to be virtuous and filial.
Parents retired, our children were born, and they became grandparents as they wished.
The old couple were very happy and offered to help us with the children. Every day, I take my children out to play and wander around, and I always like to chat with some uncles and aunts with my children.
When chatting, when others praised their grandchildren for being smart or handsome and lovely, they laughed their heads off.
In fact, which child is not smart or clever now, and which child is not handsome?
The children I see when I go out are very cute.
Parents like to hear others praise their grandchildren. I told them quietly that you should also praise other people's children and be polite.
My parents actually listened to this sentence. Since they helped us take care of our children, the community has become more lively, the neighborhood relationship has become more harmonious, and the whole community has also had more laughter. This is what people often say.
I especially admire Mr. Liu. After his successful career, he never forgot his roots, made great contributions to his hometown and changed the face of his hometown.
And I, I'm just a college teacher. I don't have a spacious house, a luxurious car or a large deposit. I dressed simply, walking in the crowd, submerged in the crowd. I am very humble, there is no turning back, ordinary and ordinary, that's all, no big deal.
If it's really better than contribution, I just taught a course, which was mediocre and nothing more, and I didn't make a very outstanding contribution.
However, in the eyes of parents, it will always be great.
Glory is the best gift for children to give their parents in this life, and it will never be out of date. what do you think?