On the one hand, from the perspective of knowledge changing fate, many female college students have defined their work and study goals from the day they enter the university campus, not just through so-called universities, especially some well-known institutions. For many boys, there is always a small part of the yearning for the beautiful fantasy of love, which may sometimes help you realize, but this is only a part. Most female college students are rational, and they think more, such as responsibility and self-motivation. These are hard indicators. So for some spoony men, it simply can't meet the requirements.
A very simple example, after graduation, work is the first thing to undertake. Many female universities learn to choose postgraduate entrance examination, even postgraduate entrance examination, because these will give them more opportunities to choose jobs. Over time, falling in love has become a luxury, and there is no more time to waste on meaningless things.
On the other hand, from the perspective of traditional culture, the traditional social status that men are superior to women has undergone fundamental changes. Women can be said to have become social operators. They have more job opportunities and a broader platform, which requires them to lay a good foundation in college. The indoctrination of family education and parents' expectations of their children make contemporary female college students know more about themselves and how to do it, but what I said here does not mean every female college student. Then there is two of a kind, where 90% of female college students prefer to be talented, charming, humorous and self-motivated. More importantly, they have a poetic and self-satisfied belly, which many boys can't reach unless you have a sworn enemy. Therefore, if we look at this problem rationally, we will get a reasonable explanation.