Throughout ancient and modern times, many people's situations have fluctuated with the torrent of fate, but some people have not given up on themselves because of this. The scales in their hearts have always been straight, so that they have never lost themselves. Dr. Qu Zi was demoted to the cloud capital for evil, and was displaced from place to place between mountains and rivers. However, his desire to save the world and help the people has never changed. In Ode to Oranges, he praised Oranges for their "steadiness", which is the best portrayal of himself as a great poet who does not go with the flow. "I am also kind. Although I died nine times, I still have no regrets. " The steelyard in his heart has never been knocked over. Fan Zhongyan, from a poor teenager to an official to a prime minister, has been in a completely different situation. However, in a high position, he still cares about the whole world. High officials and generous officials will not let him deteriorate, because he has a scale for the country and the people in his heart.
Today, the temptation of material desires is unprecedented, and the obsession with urban life makes many rural youths yearn for it, even unjustly. However, Xu Benyu, a college student in this prosperous city, walked alone into a crumbling primary school building in a poor village. The huge environmental gap made him unaccustomed, but it was precisely because of the code of conduct for contributing to society that he quickly recovered his psychological balance, taught with peace of mind for several years, created a myth, and brought hope to dozens of children in mountain villages who were eager for knowledge. ……
The balance of life
"A person's wisdom is inversely proportional to his appearance."
This seemingly joking remark revealed the special confidence of this short and even ugly man, which made the audience applaud him while laughing. It was in six years that he developed and acquired Yahoo China, 372 1 and other large websites of Alibaba President Jack Ma.
This seemingly legendary figure is uneven along the way. We don't know how many people look down on him because of his appearance, but he has never been careless and has never been bothered by it. He firmly believes that God is fair. How many reasons did he prepare for himself, like the sentence mentioned at the beginning, to find a spiritual balance and bring him more confidence and applause.
In the face of your own shortcomings, should you complain or find a balanced reason for yourself? I think the viewer should also understand. In the first college entrance examination, you scored 20 points in English. In the second college entrance examination, you were still 5 points behind the university. Would you regret it if it were you? Maybe you will say as indifferently as he does, "I have made progress." Because of this sentence, he has a balance in his heart, he has found the balance of life, and he has gained the balance of life. Maybe you won't believe it. He is the headmaster of New Oriental English School.
Career, life is like this, including our life, whether it is good or bad, we must maintain a kind of self-balance, just like Mr. Sabanqi, the richest man in Turkey, surrounded by flowers and applause, applause and praise, and in the pain of having two disabled and mentally retarded children, he has never been decadent for the latter. He built a disabled park for his children to take care of more disabled people. He also prepared a showroom full of his ugly cartoons for himself to give him balance and happiness.
I believe that the balance of life will always be fair, but we should also remember that the weight of fairness is in our own hands. No matter how great the honor or pain is, finding your own balance in life will make life full of art and more meaningful.