1, leave three points for what you say and do.
No matter how you treat your family, friends, colleagues or subordinates, you should leave room for others to speak, and you should not be too absolute, otherwise they will not be able to step down and have no way out.
2. Be a man and do things to save face for others.
As the saying goes, "a tree lives with a layer of skin, and a person lives with a face." So, if you hurt something, don't hurt others' faces. Many times, we will go around when we can turn a corner and try to save face for others. Everyone has self-esteem and respect for face. We should leave room for others and also for ourselves.
Don't take things too seriously.
If a person is serious, it will not only make others uncomfortable, but also lead to the end of asking for trouble. For example, if you meet an unreasonable rogue, you have to prove to him that you are right. Finally, if you are angry with others, others will hit you. Not only did you not get the result you wanted, but you were injured all over. Therefore, being too serious will not only get no benefits, but also bring unnecessary harm to yourself. It is better to be tolerant and generous than to do such a thankless thing.
4. Don't try to please everyone.
One day you will understand that you can't please everyone. No matter how well you do, there will always be people who don't like you and people who are unhappy. If you live clearly, you will also think: you don't need to please everyone. He doesn't like it, he just doesn't like it. Why should I wronged myself to make him like it?
You don't need to be perfect, and you can't do it.
Many people want to pursue perfection in doing things, to be kind to everyone when interacting with others, and to make everyone satisfied with him, but this is impossible. Everyone makes mistakes, things are not perfect, and people are not perfect. Be yourself, make important people satisfied, make people who care about you satisfied, and make most people satisfied.
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1, don't talk too full, keep a low profile, make yourself comfortable, and others are comfortable.
When you meet people who are not as good as yourself, don't talk about your success and pride easily, but know how to lower yourself.
The boss told you not to make many suggestions, but to solve the problem. If you can't solve the problem, you can solve it.
Nothing is eternal, the world is changing all the time, and so are the people around you. Accepting change is the beginning of maturity.
Don't think of yourself as a newcomer, and adapt to the role of the workplace as soon as possible. The workplace doesn't believe in tears, so don't cry easily. No matter how difficult it is, we should stick to it and constantly push up our ability limits.
6. The leader has his own reasons. Don't argue with the leader face to face for your so-called honesty or sincerity. If you have any opinions, talk to the leader privately. If you don't give the leader a step, it may not be far from class.
7. When someone bothers you, be more patient and keep calm. They may be more angry because they beat cotton with their fists. After things happen, they will feel guilty because of their own impulses.
8. When you enter a new company, don't be sharp-edged before you know the situation. Don't show the level of 100% from the beginning. When the quality of your work drops from 100% to 80%, others may think you are lazy. But when you rise from 60% to 80%, which exceeds other people's expectations, everyone will say that you have worked hard and there is a lot of room for improvement.
9. If someone asks you for money, be prepared in case you don't pay it back. Once you don't return it on time, don't borrow it easily next time. You think it's not good to collect debts, and the other party thinks it's not good, which not only hurts the harmony, but also embarrasses yourself.
10, don't always show your superiority in front of others, which will make people feel distant from you and isolate you. And your sense of superiority, in the eyes of people who are better than you, may just be the existence of stupid X.
1 1. It's good to ask for advice with an open mind. In fact, many old people are willing to help new people grow up. But what others taught you, please write it down carefully. Remember not to ask similar questions next time. This is a kind of respect for others' time and achievements. Other people's help helped you solve the problem. Don't forget the feedback and thanks. You remember the good of others, and others are more willing to help you.
12, the other party said, let me think, maybe I just refused, don't keep asking, so we are both embarrassed.