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Why is college life always full of setbacks?
Although the university is still a campus life, as a transitional role, it is the connection point between campus and society. Therefore, the university is also a small society! More vulnerable to setbacks!

1, interpersonal frustration. In interpersonal communication and college life, the intensification of contradictions is more obvious! However, more and more college students leave the tense high school atmosphere because they have just entered the campus life of the university, and there will also be some problems that are more or less undiscovered because of their own personality characteristics or literacy in social interaction.

If they don't know and correct in time, they will be particularly likely to offend others socially, so they will not be welcomed by this group and there is no way to get close friends. They will be isolated and helpless, and after a long time, they will become more anxious, leaving only setbacks in interpersonal relationships.

2. Emotional frustration. Without the oppression of middle school, the relaxation of university campus and the loneliness away from home will make college students have more and more strong emotional needs for themselves!

Affection, because of the continuous improvement of self-thought, is more likely to have conflicts with family members; In love, a brief misunderstanding becomes an emotion of love. In the past, horses and chariots were so slow that they only loved one person all their lives. Now? Lightning love, lightning break up, so that some people who can not accept it will soon become unconfident and emotionally fragile!

3. Setbacks in major selection. In fact, for children who are just preparing to go to college, they are very confused! When you don't know anything, you have to choose your future path! It is really not easy to decide your future employment direction within one month after the college entrance examination! There are many children who don't like it at all when they choose their major. They just think the score may be appropriate, or the school automatically adjusts it!

I believe this situation is definitely not rare! After entering the university, they found that their maladjustment and rejection of this major made them feel passive in their study. They have been studying very well, but if they fail to pass the exam, their frustration in learning will be aggravated!

The university may encounter many setbacks, big and small, but I hope students can still keep a good attitude to face them! I believe that no matter what kind of setbacks, they will pass! Embrace the sunshine and the future!