1. A sweet mouth can talk

Girls who are sweet-mouthed, but can stick to their own principles are very popular. Not to ask you to kill others, but to know how to praise others, because most people are eager to be affirmed and recognized.

Girls who can talk are more likely to get everyone's help, and they can also make both sides happy and get along with others in a humorous way.

2. The heroine's mentality

The first step of the hostess is to refuse internal friction! Do it or not, be decisive, don't blindly think about what to do if you fail, and what to do if you can't do it well. You haven't done anything. You are the hostess. Forget it.

In the team, you can show yourself generously, don't be timid and consume yourself every day. We should love ourselves before we love others.

3. Ability to think independently

Don't complain or expect others when things happen. But think for yourself first, and if you can't handle it, ask others for help in time.

This does not mean that you have to resist everything alone, but that girls can make their own decisions independently and freely and be responsible for themselves.

4. Appropriate "selfishness"

Many girls with good popularity are selfish and will pay more attention to themselves and will not be wronged. Don't cater to others. Although such a girl may seem a bit "artificial", others are willing to pay for her.

On the premise of not hurting others, consider your own interests more. Many silly girls feel that it is nothing to be wronged, but they have been paying silently and selflessly, just thinking more about their own ideas and needs. Proper selfishness will make people know how to cherish it.

5. Have a sense of self-identity

Girls who have a sense of self-identity are most impressed. They can affirm their own advantages without denying their own shortcomings.

Such a girl has a strong heart and stable mood, can give herself enough sense of security, will not sell herself short, and will not easily deny her value because of other people's opinions.

Keep the mystery.

Don't share your privacy or bad experiences with people around you easily. Being sensitive to the external environment is a kind of self-protection for girls, and it can also keep their mystery.

It is more comfortable to have a sense of distance between friends. Girls who maintain a certain sense of mystery can often arouse the curiosity and exploration of others. Such girls will be more attractive and gain more sincere friendship.

Step 7 have a sense of responsibility

As a responsible girl, she can know better not to tell others what to do in public, and help others accordingly when necessary.

Be responsible for your own affairs to the end, do things from beginning to end, do not drag your feet, even if you make mistakes, you will not easily pass the buck. This kind of girl is really popular in the team.

Eight. Learn to lose your temper

You can be good-tempered, but learn to lose your temper. Once others touch your bottom line, they will be humble for a long time and easily wronged, which will make others think that you are good at bullying others.

Learn to deal with the emotions of both sides, and even express your thoughts directly by "losing your temper". If the other party apologizes and corrects it, don't blame the other party and don't turn over old scores again. The other party will know that this girl is a person who should be treated well.

Nine. Learn to shut up.

As the saying goes, "learn to speak in three years, but shut up all your life." . A really smart girl can control her emotions, and she won't gossip about others or say anything harmful. The so-called disaster comes from the mouth, and words can hurt people as well as themselves.

Get along with the people around you, you will know how to shut up at the right time, you will see the people around you, find your own direction, and seize the opportunity of promotion.

10. Be a listener

Girls should learn to listen to others, hide their thoughts in time, and be good at observing words and feelings. But by no means say nothing, but know how to do more "high-quality" communication.

When chatting, don't talk unnecessary nonsense, useless empty talk and don't talk big. Sometimes there are more mistakes. Get used to listening more and talking less, and be a listener.

XI。 Pay back the money in time

When others lend you money, you must pay it back on time, which will leave a good impression. Sometimes when you go shopping with others, or when the other person pays the bill for you, you must also give the money to the other person in time. In this way, others will think that you are a man of your word.

But don't be greedy for small money, such as the other party paying for you.

15.6, you can transfer it to others 16, but if you only transfer it to others 15, you may feel that you are unreliable and unwilling to associate with you.

Twelve. Speak methodically

Think before answering questions, organize your language well, don't be reasonable, and don't prevaricate. If your words are illogical, the other party may not understand the point you want to express, resulting in ineffective communication.

It is helpful to read more books and debates on logical thinking at ordinary times. Make things as simple and clear as possible.