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What should I do if I help my college roommate with kindness, but I am misunderstood?
I think if I helped my college roommate with kindness, but was misunderstood by the other party, I should find a suitable opportunity to explain it. You can choose to find a separate opportunity to explain when there is no one else in the dormitory, or you can choose to find the other person's good friend to help you explain, but after she explains it for you, you can finally discuss it with her to avoid embarrassing everyone because of face problems.

Actually, I just tried to make trouble with a good friend of mine. In fact, it was just a small misunderstanding. On the way home from school, we are often walked home by a group of people. At that time, I walked in front, my friends walked behind and others walked in the middle. I went back and shouted, come on, they will come with me soon. At that time, my last friend thought it was me, probably asking them to come with me. Without waiting for her, I got angry. And I think I just told everyone to walk faster, and there was no other meaning, so I got angry. All my other friends are on my side. In this way, our relationship began to split and neither of us compromised. Even though we walked past each other for a whole semester, we didn't talk to each other. We were like strangers in the same class.

At the beginning of the second semester, she put things on my desk with a beautiful packaging bag. It's a box I lent her earlier or something. I don't remember exactly. It's a trivial matter anyway. She also bought me a bag specially. We looked at each other, said everything and made up. In fact, we have long wanted to make up, but we are all embarrassed. Fortunately, she made this step for our friendship at that time. Now we have known 10 for many years and are each other's best friends.

So I think it's normal to get along together and have misunderstandings. When a misunderstanding occurs, it always needs one party to pull it down and solve it face to face. If you don't want to be misunderstood or lose this friendship, I think you should take the initiative to take this step.