One,

I received a message for help. I have never felt so sorry for a girl.

The girl's name is carambola, and the man is her first love. He looks average, his family is average, his job is average, and everything is average. In her words, she threw it in the crowd and couldn't find it. For such a man, she had five miscarriages.

The first time and the second time were at school. Men say they are too young to support themselves and how to raise children. She didn't want to, but he cheated on me.

Why not wear a condom? Men don't like wearing condoms.

The third time they just graduated from college, the man said, don't make trouble at this juncture! She went to the hospital in tears and aborted the child.

The fourth child is after working for two years. Yang Tao thinks she can have it, but the man says our career is developing and we can't be delayed by the children. Two months after the child was aborted, she realized that the man was on intimate terms with a senior and wanted to take him to the peak of his life through a rich and well-connected senior, but the senior was not blind and he was not fixed by the man, so the man could only come back to her and work hard honestly.

She is pregnant for the fifth time, urging a man to get married. She wanted nothing and was willing to get married naked, but the man found 100 thousand excuses not to get married. She said she was pregnant again, and the man said, why don't you take medicine again? ! It seems that it is all her fault. The man wants her to have a miscarriage or break up.

The doctor said that if she miscarried again this time, she might not get pregnant. The man hypocritically said, no children, no children. I don't mind. She asked, how can I persuade him to have this child?

Don't talk nonsense, such a man should have let him go a long time ago! Some women just can't tell which men can stay and which men can't get the money.

There is no such thing as "I destroyed the earth in my last life and suffered in my life". All the sins are caused by my weakness and inability to protect myself.

The man who is willing to let you have repeated abortions doesn't love you at all.

Second,

Never underestimate the price a woman pays for love. You are always naive to think that you have paid a lot. Give in again and again, and men will be moved, return to their families, and live a down-to-earth life. However, men's hearts are mostly stones. The more you give in, the more he despises you, and the more he wants to find a slut with personality.

I know a girl who miscarried three times for her boyfriend and got pregnant for the fourth time. Under the coercion and inducement, her boyfriend reluctantly pulled her marriage certificate. She planned the wedding with a big belly, and the man was dead, so she didn't participate in the whole process and didn't even buy a ring.

She's pregnant. The man says she's doing it. She's sleepy. The men said that her young lady was dead. What exactly is a pregnancy test stick? He's never been involved. When the baby was born, the mother-in-law took the man from the card table to the hospital. The doctor said it was difficult to give birth, and the man said, Oh, and then sat there playing games. My mother-in-law can't stand it. She grabbed the phone and hit the man in the face. The man was very wronged and said, I didn't give birth to her!

The second year after giving birth, they divorced, and the man forced her to leave home clean. She said that as long as you let me take care of the children, I don't want anything, which is exactly what the man wants. As a result, she became a single mother with no house, no car and no money, and broke her heart every day for her mother and daughter's livelihood.

Not all efforts will pay off. In the face of pregnancy, the more common situation is:

You miscarried for him, and he thought you had a history of miscarriage;

You give him an ectopic pregnancy, and he suspects that you have removed half of your fallopian tubes;

You risked your life to get pregnant and gave birth to him and said to be small;

The child you insisted on having was born by yourself.

The so-called dedication, just moved themselves and fulfilled others.

Not all women are suitable to be single mothers. Single mothers need more than a little courage, others' pointing fingers, the pressure of public opinion, the supercilious look of three aunts and six grandmothers, laws and regulations, economic pressure, time conflict, children's education and so on. And even face the pain of never remarrying again.

When Jackie Chan denied it, Wu Qili gave birth to a child of her own and brought the child to the forefront. It seems that maternal love is great, but when Wu Qili stood on the stage of "Sorrow Magic Academy" and needed help, you only saw the amazing pain behind her. This road is full of blood, tears and regrets, so how to care for the mental health of such a grown-up child?

Third,

Women become the biggest victims of intimate relationships. According to statistics, China's induced abortion rate ranks second in the world, with130,000 cases of induced abortion every year, and the repeated abortion rate is as high as 50%, of which 70% are 2 1-30 years old, more than 50% are unmarried, and there are millions of underage girls.

Behind all this big data is a huge love rat.

They covet temporary happiness without considering women's health. It's not them who hurt anyway.

They have no sense of responsibility. Once something happens, they will disappear, break up, refuse to accept the account, and leave the "accident" to women.

They even think you are a sexual partner and a fertility machine. If you don't want to fight, you will be pregnant. It doesn't seem to be bad.

Women always think that men can understand their pain, but the fact is that they can't. A man once told me that it is difficult for men to understand women's dysmenorrhea. They don't understand why some women roll on the ground in pain, because they have never been in such pain before. Without pain, we will not use empathy to understand the cruelty of women in the face of abortion, nor will we feel the pain and suffering that abortion brings to women's body and mind.

Abortion leads to uterine perforation, infertility, menstrual disorder, pelvic inflammatory disease, gynecological diseases and lifelong infertility. Every time it deepens a scar, every time it may bring irreparable consequences, and every time it will make you regret it for life.

The injury caused by a woman giving up self-protection and compromise for a man has become her fatal wound.

Slag prevention manual:

1, good eyes, bright heart

I have known you for two or three days, but I just want to sleep with you. A man who wants to have a long-term development with you can control his desires without rushing to have sex. If you want to sleep with him, please take safety measures.

2, don't wear a condom, whether it is life or death, you can't have it.

Is it uncomfortable to wear condoms? Is abortion comfortable? Let him try. You stopped, and he made you insist? Kick out of bed, say goodbye, break up, and call freedom duck. A man who doesn't care about your feelings in bed but only cares about his own pleasure is a selfish ghost.

3. "We will get married if we are pregnant"?

Don't listen to his nonsense The idea in most men's hearts is that falling prices will make them pregnant with you. Anyway, you had an abortion, not me. Anyway, I will sleep with you this time, whether you are pregnant or not. I'm already on my way to marry you, and I won't wait until I'm pregnant to get married in a hurry.

Don't stand in the same pit again.

A man who turns his face when he is pregnant, or a man who coaxes you into having an abortion when he is pregnant, once he is blind, he will quickly split up. If he meets it many times, he will be stupid. Reluctant to break up? Deserve to be trampled on.

5. What should I do if I am pregnant?

Fight or climb the operating table in tears; Either be born, learn from Wu Qili and be a strong single mother. Are you scared? Why did you go when you were lying in bed?

6. What should a man do when he gives birth to a child?

From the moment you decide to have children, you should be prepared for men's disapproval and support, and even for never getting married. You have to take care of children, you have to go to work tired and hard, and you may be poor, that's for sure. Women who can't live well should not go this way.

Fourth,

Remember, the man who forces you to have sex by cajoling and cheating and doesn't take safety measures just for a moment's happiness, to put it bluntly, is that you are an inflatable doll, a tool to solve your physiological needs, and all sweet words and promises are just for the purpose.

The man who loves you will respect your wishes and be willing to compromise for you to ensure your safety. Only a man who cares about your mood and cherishes your body is the one who can experience the ups and downs of life together.

Refuse to humiliate yourself, love life and stay away from love rat.