In Guoguo's back table, Fanfan's family lives in a community with us, and sometimes the two children come out together, which also makes me have some contact with Fanfan's mother. We often take our children home together. At the parent-teacher meeting, I saw Fanfan's mother was a little unhappy. I met her on my way home and asked her why.
Christine's mother said, "Why is your fruit so good and mine so bad?"? You don't know. He got a C this time, and the teacher didn't have the courage to blame him at this parent-teacher meeting. Instead, she talked to me alone before the meeting. She said everyone was inattentive, had poor logical thinking ability and poor memory, but she just called Christine stupid. Guo, what do you think? "
What Fanfan's mother said shocked me. I knew that Fanfan's grades were not good, but I didn't expect them to be so bad. Fan Fan's mother continued helplessly: "This child is really destined to have a high IQ."
I quite agree with Ma's statement, because Guoguo was not a smart child when he was a child, and Guoguo is smart now only because of the cultivation of the day after tomorrow.
Many parents think that their children's IQ is innate, but it is not. 0 6 years old is the golden age of their baby's brain development. When the baby is 0.3 years old, the brain cells continue to grow, the brain cells continue to divide and proliferate, and the brain enters a long-term quality period. When the baby is 3 6 years old, the brain development will sprint at this stage. After the baby is 6 years old, the brain development will basically reach the adult level.
Many parents who spit out their children's low IQ have missed the golden age of their children's brain development. If we grasp the golden age of children's brain development, children's language expression ability, memory, concentration and logical thinking ability will be greatly improved. These children will go to school easily and get excellent grades in the future.
Normally, the development of human brain is less than 5%. If parents do these three things before their children are six years old and insist on them all the time, their children's intelligence will be greatly improved.
First, train children's concentration.
Mark Twain once said: People's thoughts are great. As long as they concentrate on a certain cause, they are bound to achieve amazing results.
Concentration is very important for children to get good grades. Some children play with erasers and pens while doing their homework. They don't listen carefully in class and are distracted everywhere. Such children's grades are often not very good. Children with good grades are mostly children with strong concentration. They concentrate on finishing the task in a short time but get twice the result with half the effort.
Parents must train their children's concentration if they want them to get good grades. Parents can help their children rebuild their concentration by playing games. Results As a child, I often took her to play some games of judgment, observation and comparison. More than two years have passed, and my children's concentration has been greatly improved.
Second, train children's memory.
Memory is the only guardian of knowledge.
Only memory can truly acquire knowledge, whether it is understanding memory or rote memorization, the result is remembering.
Memory is very important for children, and memory is also an important factor to widen the gap between children. My colleague's daughter is a child with a poor memory. She is practical, but she has a poor memory. The recitation task assigned by the teacher can be completed by other children in twenty minutes, and she has to recite it dozens of times.
I pay special attention to Guoguo's memory cultivation. I often take her to play some games with logical thinking, so that she can remember something by color, angle, shape and orientation, and then repeat it. Because of these persistence, Guoguo's memory has been well developed, and now she can recite things almost several times.
Third, cultivate children's logical thinking ability.
What is logical thinking ability?
Logical thinking ability is the ability to correctly analyze and think about a thing, and the ability to observe, compare, analyze, synthesize, abstract, summarize and judge things.
Logical thinking ability is the core of intelligence and the source of creativity. We can find that top student's logical thinking ability is particularly strong. 20 19 Huang Ziqing, the science champion of the college entrance examination, entered Tsinghua University with a high score of 724, and the reason why she is so excellent is because she began to cultivate her logical thinking ability at an early age.
Bao Wenchu, a super scholar admitted by Peking University and Tsinghua at the same time, said: "After three years of high school, the biggest feeling is that logical thinking is more important than brushing questions."
Logical thinking ability is the distance between learning to be a bully and learning to be a scum. Many children can't learn math and physics well because they have no logical thinking ability. Parents should help their children develop their logical thinking ability. Playing games is the best way to help children develop their logical thinking ability, so that children can constantly think and observe while playing games, thus improving their logical thinking ability. It is because I took her to play some small games such as sorting, observing and judging, comparing sizes and finding differences since I was a child, and I kept thinking, observing, reasoning and judging in the process of playing games, which improved her logical thinking ability.
If parents can adhere to these three points, their children's IQ can be improved and they can get a "high IQ" child.
Parents want their children to have high IQ, but they don't know that the cultivation of parents can promote their children's IQ. Parents must do a good job in cultivating their children and let them become people with high IQ.