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I am a college student. I have been secretly in love with a girl in my class, but I have been embarrassed to talk. What should I do?
Talking too much is boring.

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The trick of pursuing different types of girls

The first key to chasing girls is sincerity, and insincerity can only cause bitter results for yourself and others. Second, don't be too reluctant. The third is to be smart. Generally speaking, you can't just say "I love you" on Lulu's first date-girls will be shocked ... the means of chasing different types of girls are different:

1 silent and arrogant girl

2 romantic fantasy girl

3 a gentle and considerate girl

4 lively and lovely girl

5 sensitive girl

A girl older than herself

There are many girls like 1, and friends often meet them. At first glance, it seems quite tricky. In fact, these girls are indifferent in appearance and often fanatical in heart. They generally like wild children. If you are a gentle boy with poor looks and less possibility, you'd better choose another beautiful woman. If other people's comments on you are so cool! Then you hope big! If your first invitation is not rejected, then you must not miss the opportunity! They may be extremely careless about you at first. At this time, we must not be discouraged. You must persist and even be stubborn. It's a good idea to watch movies, dance, skate and go to her usual study room. Be sure to find more opportunities to express yourself, a lot (of course, I love you until the last time, hehe) ... For this type of girl, your true feelings are very attractive. This kind of girl usually takes a long time to pursue. If you are about to graduate or leave school now, it seems best not to start, so as not to waste ... hehe. But after catching up, she will generally be dead set, and you will be on cloud nine and feel that you are the happiest person in the world! Ha ha.

If you really like such a girl, let me remind you first-you are going to taste the ups and downs! It seems that this kind of girl pursues spirit more than material things. Actually, it's just the opposite. Romance needs money to build. If you don't have enough financial resources, I hope you'd better reconsider. Because she likes romantic things, flowers and chocolates, you'd better send more gifts to touch her heartstrings. If you want to catch up with this kind of girl, don't be stingy with your little money. Except the moon in the sky and ... (What? I don't remember. //Shy) As long as she wants it, you should try your best to get it. Ordinary roses and snacks are even more subtle ... In short, if you want to chase such a girl, you must cultivate the ability to read the girl's mind. Don't forget to bribe her roommate and classmates. They will tell you a lot of useful information. You should consider your own skirt. Don't be rustic all day. After catching up with a girl, you can safely show your true colors, because you are no longer rustic in her eyes. Haha) you should also go to romantic places to play with her, such as spring outing, dance and reading love stories ... she will gradually be inseparable from your care, haha! Although such a girl costs you a lot of money, it will also bring you a lot of wonderful fun. As long as you really like it, you can still live happily.

3. This kind of girl is very devoted. Once she becomes your GF, she will take good care of you, be gentle and amiable, and let you feel the warmth and reliability of love. If you can catch up with this kind of girl, you will become the most comfortable man in theory. First of all, you should take care of her more. You don't need anything, but you need a kind of heartfelt care. Of course, if you are a romantic, it is foolproof to send flowers and gifts on holidays. You can send some friendly things at first, and when you think you can express it, you can send roses! If you don't want to be so extravagant, you can reveal some in your daily chat. When the time is right, you can suddenly say something like "It's good to be with you". If she doesn't shy away, you can strike while the iron is hot and say what you have long wanted to say. The best time is at night: people's defense ability is weak at night. If she starts to avoid, don't force her, you can care silently until she is moved. BTW: If she does, she will stare at her when she doesn't know you. You can pretend to know her by chance through friends like her, and then deepen your impression through several encounters, and then you can start. Don't think that this kind of girl is honest and it will be safe to catch up with her. Actually, it depends on someone. Once some girls break up for more than a certain period of time, someone will pay attention to her again. You should be careful. It's best not to let her leave you in an emergency.

This kind of girl seems to like a lot of people, and she is often the first to have BF in the new environment. Not because they are easy to chase, but because they often take the initiative. If she likes you, it will be easy. Contact her more, show good feelings occasionally, and she will be close to your goal in sync with you. If she doesn't like you (to make matters worse, she likes another person), neither will she. You have to fight for it (of course, you are only average to her, so you don't have to). You can first exist in the form of friendship with her and try to cultivate her hobbies. In the meantime, your humor and open-mindedness are very important, so that she can still think of you on her way back. If the person she likes is not interested in her, you can take your time until she compares you with him. Sincerely let her be your girlfriend. If she and he like each other, if you think she deserves to be accused of stealing others' love, you can give them a final blow before they pour out their feelings to each other. At this time, opportunities are very important. You should observe carefully. When they have conflicts and misunderstandings, take advantage of them (it doesn't seem too ... haha) and arrive first. Victory is likely to belong to them in the end. (Generally, girls don't have other ideas after catching up, haha) This kind of girl may be liked by unsuspecting people after having BF. You should inform them in time: please! She belongs to me! The result should be optimistic.

The typical feature of this kind of girl is that her feelings are exposed. She can cry if she wants to, and laugh if she likes, which often makes people feel a little ridiculous. This kind of girl is also chased, which makes oldfriend feel strange, but I heard that love is often blind. Oldfriend will understand the meaning of this sentence better when he sees the emotional experience of his friends around him. Crazy girls are like wild horses. If you feel that you don't have enough ability to drive it, don't rush after it and choose another one. If you feel good about yourself, you can have a try. First of all, you should give her the impression that you are awesome (whether he is a T or an F, haha), so that she can worship you well. Before catching up, you'd better sum up your own strengths and design the time for the show so that she can look up to you unconsciously. With this good start, we can launch a full-scale attack. Just go out with her a few times more (you can choose a friend who is not as handsome as you but stronger than you, haha) and show your elegance more, and her heart will slowly move closer to you. Don't catch her at once, or it will come and go quickly. You should try to get her into a trap. Your task is to create as many opportunities as possible to contact and show your talents. Wait until her heart is completely suitable for you.

It is a common problem to like girls older than themselves, and it is a fine tradition for lovers to be older than girls and younger than boys. For a novice who has just entered the field of love, there is no need to panic in this situation. Go! But in the process of pursuing, we must pay attention to the following points:

Never act like a little boy. Even a truly mature woman wants to be spoiled rather than spoiled. When you encounter difficulties or problems, you must take the lead and don't ask her to protect you. Your subjective judgment is very important. Don't act like a parrot in front of the girl you like.

B: I am mentally older than you, which should be your mantra when she has an idea. Let her feel that this is really more realistic than her biological age.

C: I must never think that she is older than me. I must forget this when I chase her.