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What are the reasons you didn't understand until you went to college?
For me, who is studying in college, this question is simply a feeling. Some high schools don't understand the truth, but universities do. Let me refer to my understanding of myself, as follows:

One person is also very good!

When I was not in college, I felt very lonely. No company is a shame, and no one likes it. On the way to eat, to go to the toilet, to hand in homework and to study, I always want to go together. Sometimes I even give up my time and hobbies in order to have a companion, but since I went to college, I have gradually got used to being alone. At first, I will try to cater to my roommates and classmates. Gradually, I found that it was not my real self, just like I like crayon Shinchan. Many students don't like crayon Shinchan. They like watching costume dramas, watching TV or watching movies together. I realize now that there is nothing wrong with one person. Comfortable living is the most important thing. Constantly accommodating each other for the sake of each other, accommodating each other for the sake of being gregarious with others, and deliberately catering to each other will really be very tired, so a person can live with personality and comfort!

It's great to know what you want and find your goal!

As mentioned above, I am afraid of loneliness, and I will indulge myself for each other. For a while, I didn't know what I really wanted. Later, when I got to know a person and felt that there was nothing in a person, I began to think about what I really needed, find my goals and hobbies, and work hard for them. It's really great. I really regret it. Now I understand this truth.

There is really no shame in going to the canteen school and doing part-time jobs outside.

I used to think you knew someone familiar, and you were working part-time. They spend a lot of food and living expenses and always envy them. But when you really fight for what you like, you will find that what you get through your own efforts is really great. Working part-time in the canteen can save food expenses and buy things you like. The fruits of labor are really good.

Keeping a distance between people will really reduce a lot of trouble.

In college life, we must be a principled person, don't speak ill of others, don't deliberately cater to one person, and don't deliberately help one person. Although you will become very happy in that way, sometimes others will misunderstand you, so keeping a sense of distance is also a good choice. Maybe this is the way for real roommates to get along.