1, feelings may fade.

Most modern couples have great social pressure. They work hard during the day. At night, when there is a formal need to comfort each other, if we have to sleep in separate beds at night, there will be no confession, no mutual affection or even sex. Life is really getting more and more lonely, and feelings are getting weaker and weaker.

2. Extramarital affairs may occur.

Although two people sleep separately, it gives each other more space, but it also means giving each other more opportunities to cheat. When the night is long and boring, I always pick up my mobile phone to contact those who dare not contact or miss it very much in those years. Modern means of communication are becoming more and more advanced. You really don't know who he is chatting with at night without you.

3. It may get cold.

Men tend to be extroverted in the family, while women tend to be introverted. Once you have children, women's thoughts will become more and more family-oriented, and women will become more and more beautiful after a long period of watering. If they don't have sex for a long time, she may no longer need it, and when you want it, women may be cold.

4, lead to divorce

In general, separating beds means indifference, which may be a precursor to divorce. After a long time, we naturally no longer need each other, which eventually leads to divorce.

5, affect health

If women's long-term sexual life is not satisfied, it may lead to dysmenorrhea, vaginitis and long spots, and it will also make women enter menopause in advance. If you sleep in separate beds with your lover now, I remind you to adjust quickly, otherwise it is really not worth the candle!

I quite understand the problem you described. In fact, this is only one aspect of the relationship between husband and wife-there is a problem with sexual life. The key is how you should deal with such a problem and where to start. How to protect yourself? The Oak Marriage Quality Assessment of the University of Minnesota mentioned that marriage needs comprehensive consideration. Besides sex life, there are ten other aspects that need your comprehensive consideration and analysis-marriage expectation, personality compatibility, sharing and communication, conflict resolution, financial management, leisure activities, conflict resolution, role equality, religious belief and children's education. Can you use these eleven elements to judge the degree of fit between two people? What is your risk area? What needs to be improved? You can change the current predicament according to these advantages.