If what kind of emotion is the longest in the world and time can't change the slightest, then only the emotion between relatives can do it. This emotion is so simple that saying "thank you" is an insult. Home is not only the most flexible place in the ranger's heart, but also the warmest beginning of a cold-blooded person, and it is also the reluctance and attachment of Jinfeng when she turns her head.
Family members are undoubtedly the most reliable people in the world, what's more, parents are the best for their children, and the feelings between brothers and sisters are even more unyielding. After all, brothers and sisters who have lived together since childhood are more full of feelings than outsiders.
We can easily see that as long as there are brothers and sisters at home, they will spare no effort to help them and try their best to leave everything to them, especially my brother. No matter how good he treats his sister as his brother, no one will find it strange, as if his brother was born with the right and obligation to take care of his sister, which is also inevitable.
No matter whether my sister marries or not, my brother's feelings for my sister will not change at all, and he is also a woman's biggest backer in her family. Once the brother-in-law's name is called out, it is not only a title, but also a kind of responsibility and responsibility, with inexhaustible confidence and courage of women.
Don't be surprised if you encounter something contrary in your life. After all, on the basis of population base, no one can guarantee that every brother can treat his sister wholeheartedly and give him unique care and love. If that's all, what's more, he will berate her for "losing money" in front of her sister.
Reader Mo Xie remembers that scene vividly. Although she tried to forget, she did not forget slowly, but mapped every detail clearly in her mind. Mo Xie can't forget her husband's disgusting expression. Whenever she thinks about it, her heart will start to panic, not because her husband's appearance is too scary, but because even her closest relatives treat her like this and how to treat her.
Mo Xie knew that her husband had a younger sister before she got married, and she was able to marry her husband partly because of her sister-in-law. Before getting married, Mo Xie was deeply in love with her clever and eccentric sister-in-law in senior three. Although her sister-in-law is busy with her studies, she will appear in front of Mo Xie from time to time, trying to tell her future sister-in-law how good her brother is.
Although they are trivial things, Xie always listens with relish, not because her sister-in-law has a good mouth, but because she decided to marry her husband before she met her sister-in-law, and her behavior of gilding the lily added more interest and memories to Xie when she was bored after marriage.
After marriage, the relationship between brother and sister was in a mess, and my sister-in-law kept showing off that her brother could marry her, thanks to her. At the end of Xie looked at her sister-in-law with coquetry eyes, and her every move was not exposed. She knew that the reason why her sister-in-law did this was to take credit for her brother, which was a good compliment from her brother, but that exaggeration was doomed to be lost.
Strangely, someone else's brother will love his sister without principle, and his own daughter is more intimate than his own. Xie's husband, on the other hand, not only showed no concern for his sister, who rarely had a holiday, but even didn't ask about his studies once. Xie just thinks that the two brothers and sisters are too familiar, and saying some polite words will make them feel strange, so they don't take it to heart.
Although her husband doesn't care much about her sister, Mo Xie is different. She really likes this sister-in-law. No matter what delicious food she bought or cooked, Mo Xie would never forget to leave a copy and walk to school to give it to her. After doing so, she not only quickly accumulated the favor of her sister-in-law, but also gained dozens of brothers and sisters.
Every time I get something delicious from my sister-in-law, I share it with my classmates. I will naturally praise my sister-in-law. As a result, if you wander around the street in your spare time, you will be shocked by the voice of "Sister-in-law is good". I didn't know until I got home that they were all my sister-in-law's classmates. I agreed that my sister-in-law's cooking was many times better than the canteen. Hearing such praise, my heart is as sweet as eating honey.
Senior three students are generally under great pressure. A few days before the exam, Mo Xie was busier. In addition to helping her sister-in-law review her lessons, she will also help her with some psychological counseling. The day before the exam, Mo Xie promised her sister-in-law: "As long as you finish the exam, I will change your mobile phone." I kissed my sister-in-law happily on the spot.
Watching her sister-in-law enter the examination room, Xie took the slightly worn-out mobile phone that her sister-in-law gave her and frowned at the end. She didn't know why her husband didn't change her sister's mobile phone, which made her afraid to take it out to play with her classmates, but she never thought about it. She just wanted to buy a mobile phone while slandering her husband's carelessness.
After the results came out, my sister-in-law lived up to expectations and got a good grade. At the end of Xie, she went on to give her own reference wishes and evaluation of the quality of major universities. But in this process, at the end of Xie, she slowly discovered that her sister-in-law was absent-minded and even vaguely rejected her. At the end of Xie also asked her if something happened, and her sister-in-law only said that she thought too much.
A summer vacation is coming to an end, and the little sister-in-law with the admission notice shows a smile on her face. However, at the thought of the tuition fees to be paid, her face returned to her usual indifference. Only then did Mo Xie realize that her sister-in-law was worried about the tuition fees to be paid by the university and her living expenses.
It shouldn't be like this. In addition to her parents, her sister-in-law has a brother, so she should not worry about tuition. Although Mo Xie knew that she had spent almost all her husband's money because of her marriage, she was still able to pay the tuition. She made up her mind to find her sister-in-law and said with a smile, "You can pay the tuition and living expenses when you go to college, without asking your family."
"Are you serious?" "Well, really." The sister-in-law who got the accurate answer instantly recovered her lively appearance and hugged Mo Xie's neck and said, "Sister-in-law is really good to me." At the end of the year, Xie roughly calculated that tuition and living expenses add up to about 20 thousand yuan. Under normal circumstances, she has no right to control the money, but it is her sister-in-law's responsibility. Xie Mo, she thought her family would agree.
But the reality has dealt a heavy blow to Mo Xie. When her husband asked about it, Mo Xie didn't pay much attention until her husband said to her, "What will a girl do when she is old enough to get married? You don't expect her to do anything. Do you still pay her tuition? I don't agree with this matter. Our family doesn't have that much money, which is not enough for her to spend. "
Mo Xie was a little angry at this and said to her husband, "Why can't women go to college? You mean women are born useless, right? Don't forget that she is your own sister. I have never seen a brother like you. " Say that finish, before her husband's statement, Xie found her sister-in-law. In the final analysis, she should be ready to stabilize the situation. From what her husband said to her at the beginning, Xie knew that these words were addressed to her sister-in-law.
It's no trouble to find a sister-in-law She didn't run away from home like Mo Xie thought, but sat quietly in the living room, watching the arrival of Mo Xie, and showed a seemingly happy smile, but her red eyes had betrayed her unstable inner fluctuations.
"Don't worry, sister-in-law guarantees that your words still count, and the university must learn." As soon as Mo Xie had finished speaking, she heard her husband behind her say in disgust, "What promise? I don't care about her tuition. I like doing what I want to do. I'm not paying anyway. She has never earned a penny for her family since she was a child, but she still spends money and loses money. "
Xie didn't expect the words "losing money" to come out of her husband's mouth. When I didn't know what to say, I heard my sister-in-law say softly, "Sister-in-law, I won't study. I will go out to earn money in a few days. " "No, I don't agree." After Mo Xie refused her sister-in-law's request, she turned to her husband and said, "That twenty thousand dollars is also my share. Put aside my share, consider yours my loan, and I will pay you back later, ok? " Before her husband could speak, Mo Xie said, "It's a deal. If you don't agree, I'll take your sister outside to earn money and tell outsiders about it. "
Don't wash your dirty clothes in public. Mo Xie's in-laws who have been eavesdropping in the bedroom can no longer stay out of it. She quickly pushed the door out and said to Mo Xie, "You don't have to pay it back. All we have to do is pay her tuition. Now college students earn so much. Presumably, my daughter is no worse than them, and she can work and study in the next few years. This matter will be resolved without objection. "
When the family broke up, Mo Xie looked at the stunned sister-in-law on the sofa and said kindly, "Don't worry, my sister-in-law has a job. I can't promise anything, but you can still do it after four years. Don't worry about it. Ready to pack my bags and go to college. On the day of school, my nephew will accompany you. "
My sister-in-law, who has been sitting on the sofa, suddenly opened her eyes wide, and tears visible to the naked eye slowly flowed out of them. Once people's emotions break out, they can only be calmed down slowly. At the end of Xie, holding her sister-in-law, she patted and coaxed and looked at her sister-in-law lying in her arms twitching her back. At the end of Xie, I suddenly felt a sour feeling in my nose and my eyes were moist.
After my sister-in-law left, the family was calm again, but Xie knew that this calm was more like a pool of cold water. If you watch more, the chill in your heart will be deeper. She can't figure out why a family that loves each other can't even help each other in the most basic way. What's more, paying tuition for their daughters is the most important thing for parents.
Mo Xie not only saw the family's cold-blooded ruthlessness from this incident, but also saw the uncertainty of her future marriage. Her own daughter can do it. How can she be a married stranger? In later life, Mo Xie's sister-in-law became closer and closer to her sister-in-law, but she gradually became cold to her family. Whether it is a holiday or something to go home, my sister-in-law will not return if she can, and she will earn money if she can. Although she knows that her sister-in-law will help her and won't make her too tired, she doesn't want to trouble her sister-in-law. After all, she is old enough to support herself.
This incident caused too many reactions, not to mention that my sister-in-law gradually left her family when she matured. At the end of Xie, she also felt that this family really had nothing to miss. Sometimes, at the end of Xie, for no reason at all, she thinks that her present home is just a rental house full of scars and only for people to rest.
In the end, she could have stood on the United front with her family and let her consciously hide her true side, but she couldn't pass that stage in her heart. At the moment when demons are rampant, Xie believes that people should still be simple, simple and warm.
Many people think that relatives and their marriage are irrelevant, but relatives are more important than partners to some extent. The way a family treats each other will be directly mapped to marriage, so it is easier to treat their partners in the same way. Therefore, relatives and marriage are closely linked.
When you make a promise to your partner for the rest of your life, you need to see if you have fulfilled your responsibilities as a close relative. If you don't fulfill this responsibility, what you say to your lover is also empty talk. Before you love someone, you should learn how to love your family. Only when you don't owe or feel guilty about your family can you fulfill your responsibilities as a partner and make your marriage more responsible and responsible.