Bidawulan has always impressed me as soft and weak,1.61m-not very tall and slim. Although she is 42 years old and married and has children, she still looks like a school girl in her twenties, a pure and lovely look.
But in fact, under her weak appearance, there is a strong and resolute heart. According to Bide Sulan's own memories, when I was a child, my parents had to constantly change jobs because my family was poor: noodle shops, car wash shops and clothing stores were all opened, but they were all unsuccessful. I have moved more than 30 times before and after, and I have lived in almost all the places that I can understand on the map of Taiwan, but every time I move, the house is rented. There are three brothers and sisters in the family, and Bede Sulan inherited her mother's beauty. Biddy EULAN SPA01's parents finally chose to divorce because of emotional discord, and she married her mother.
Bidai Syulan, 14 years old, began to explore in the entertainment circle in order to help her mother support her family. Many other children of this age may still be spoiled in her mother's arms. Later, Bide Sulan, who gradually became popular, still had to bear a heavy family burden. She had to support nine relatives, including her grandmother and nephew.
In order to support such a big family, Bidai Syulan had to work hard to make money. Bidai Syulan, who has only a junior high school education, also paid for his younger brother's attendance at Japanese universities. When her brother opened a shop, she also helped her brother to promote it with friends in the circle. Although his parents divorced, Bidisulan still assumed the obligation to support two old people. In 2009, Bede Sulan's father was dying of cirrhosis. Bidai Syulan spent millions of dollars to replace his father's liver and took care of him himself.
Swallow interviewed Bidai Xiulan, and two things particularly shocked me. She said that she was sick while filming and was lying in the hospital with a fever of 40 degrees. The crew brought a flower basket to see her, in fact, to sound out her breath and see when she can return to the crew. After all, it costs hundreds of thousands for the crew to stop filming for one day. She also knows what these people think. The water hung up that day, and the fever didn't completely go away, so she was discharged from the hospital and returned to the set.
Another time was in 2007, Bidai Syulan was photographed many times with unnatural facial expressions and even suspected of plastic surgery. Later, Bidaisulan admitted that he had changed into facial nerve disorder because of overwork, commonly known as facial paralysis. The cervical vertebra is also displaced, and the rehabilitation of facial muscles can only be stimulated by taking medicine and daily exercise. Therefore, the stars we outsiders usually see are glamorous, but who can know the bitter taste?
In 20 14, 39-year-old Bidai Syulan married Indonesian shipping tycoon Li Yunfeng. Maybe everyone thinks that she is a rich woman after marriage and should enjoy her life. Wrong, she suffered a lot to get pregnant with the baby. There has been bleeding since the early pregnancy. Bidai Syulan has to go in and out of the hospital frequently. For this child, she took more than 300 injections, swallowed 2 106 pills, and even almost cried her eyes out.
In order to protect the fetus, many times Bide Sulan can only lie in bed in an upside-down position, staying in bed for 142 days, and excretion can only be solved in bed. When using the urinal for the first time, Bidai Syulan cried and said that she felt pregnant and even lost her dignity. Fortunately, in the end, Bide Sulan successfully gave birth to a baby, which is still a lovely baby with big eyes.
However, the happiness of having your son didn't last long, and her family suffered great misfortune. According to the news, her husband's company had a funding gap of 1 1 billion last year due to the overall depression of the shipping industry, and the debt equivalent to 900 million RMB needs to be repaid in the next 12 months. And his company's net income in a quarter is only 654.38 billion yuan. Bi Dawulan once burst into tears when talking about this matter in an interview with the media, which shows the great pressure at that time. However, she did not give up her husband and family because of this. Instead, she immediately returned to work six months after giving birth-giving speeches, shooting magazines, publishing books, and doing her best to help her husband pay his debts.
Bidai Syulan, from the age of 14 to 42, has been trying to shoulder the burden of the family with her weak shoulders and become the dependence of the family. Even after marrying into a rich family, she is still trying to be a good wife and mother, hoping to become a "big tree" for her family to enjoy the cool and rest. ?
Regarding the definition of happiness, Bidai Sulan believes that "happiness is not equal to luxury". She thinks this is her values, just like her nickname "Steel V" (her English name is Vivian). She said that the concept of their family has always been "What are you afraid of? What does it matter? The big deal is that we have nothing! We came to this world with nothing since childhood! "
Finally, I want to say that personality determines fate. I hope every woman can be a woman who is soft on the outside and hard on the inside, just like Bide Xiulan. She will never give up easily and will always work hard towards her dreams. Because one day, your efforts will be rewarded!
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