This is a century-old question that has puzzled many candidates and parents for a long time: which is the priority of school, city and major when volunteering for the college entrance examination?
Let's talk briefly about this problem.
Usually, big cities such as Beijing and Shanghai are more attractive to candidates, while small cities are less attractive than big cities.
Generally speaking, big cities have the following advantages: convenient external transportation, good infrastructure, many scientific research institutions in colleges and universities, many leisure and entertainment places, many exchange opportunities and diverse information. In particular, big cities have large capacity and provide many employment opportunities.
Therefore, schools located in big cities are the most attractive to candidates, and of course the competition will be more intense.
Beijing, Shanghai, Nanjing, Wuhan, Guangzhou and other big cities have good geographical locations, and universities and scientific research institutions gather, which is worthy of candidates' visit.
However, not all the universities in the above cities are good, and even some universities are ordinary. Candidates should not give up a good university in order to go to a big city. After all, the college entrance examination is to test universities, not cities. A high-level school can change a person's future, but going to a low-level school in a big city does not necessarily mean a better future.
Some parents don't understand this truth. When they fill in the college entrance examination volunteers, they report to the city instead of the university. In fact, today's society is a competitive society. What is important is whether candidates can learn knowledge and make great progress in the future. The most important thing is whether they can get into a good university and major, not whether they can enter a big city.
For college students, the influence of campus environment is far greater than that of social environment.
Studying in a low-level university, no matter which city you are in, your education is not as good as that of a high-level university.
Therefore, universities with the same or basically the same level give priority to big cities, while schools with obvious differences in level give priority to high-level schools.
As far as the scope of choosing a city is concerned, as long as it is a municipality directly under the central government, a provincial capital city with many universities, and a city with many universities under separate state planning, most of them have good conditions for running schools, and it is not necessary to choose a megacity with a prosperous and good geographical location.
Even in the capital cities of economically underdeveloped areas, there are many good universities, such as Harbin Institute of Technology in Heilongjiang, Xi Jiaotong University and Northwestern Polytechnical University in Xi, Shaanxi, Sichuan University in Chengdu, Sichuan, Chongqing University in Chongqing and Lanzhou University in Lanzhou, Gansu.
The above six universities are excellent universities integrating research universities and world-class universities. Among them, Xi Jiaotong University, Northwestern Polytechnical University, Harbin Institute of Technology, Sichuan University and top universities in China.
For some students, being in a relatively small provincial capital city and a city with separate plans is less noisy and prosperous, and sometimes the learning atmosphere is better, which is more conducive to students' peace of mind. Education is an investment in the future. Smaller cities have low consumption levels, which can also save the cost of living and learning and reduce the cost of education investment.
However, for colleges and universities that are not directly under the central government, provincial capital cities or cities with separate plans, candidates should also carefully consider when applying for the exam.
From the perspective of future development, if you choose a school with poor geographical location, you should give priority to high-level schools, or the undergraduate majors in these cities are above B+.
The choice of a city is indeed a factor that should be considered in employment, but it is not the first factor to consider when choosing a school.
The college entrance examination is a national choice of schools, and graduation is a national choice of jobs. Since everyone dares to apply for the college entrance examination in foreign universities, and they are four years older after graduation, are they still afraid that they can't find a job in a city outside the school?
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Many children's ideas are to go out to college and stay away from home, as if they didn't feel like going to college at home. We had the same idea at that time. Now we have experienced too much pain and suffering when we grow up. I felt that our thoughts were really retarded at that time. Isn't it good to go to college in the province?
I think it is reasonable and wise for some parents not to let their children go out to college.
First, the transportation is convenient, the network is developed and the distance is difficult to solve.
Going out to college means a long distance, and many problems and emotional factors can't be solved by online video. Good feelings must be produced at close range, and no amount of phone calls and videos can replace them. I think everyone has a personal experience of this.
Going out to college means a long way. Although the traffic is very developed now, it will take another day to get there. However, the traffic is not very smooth and the price is not low. Children encounter difficulties, which are difficult to solve without the help of their parents, and may leave permanent regrets. After all, children's experiences and experiences are very limited.
Second, going out to college requires high marks.
Many college entrance examination students want to go out to study in universities, and they have to choose universities in the province to see the enrollment situation of universities outside the province and the admission results over the years.
We know that colleges and universities in the province recruit more students, while those outside the province are less. It is difficult to ensure that you can be admitted to a university outside the province with poor grades, and it is even more difficult to ensure that you can go to the desired major.
I have to say that for most students, it is safer and more cost-effective to study in universities in the province. Of course, a few students have high scores, and there is no such good university choice in the province. Going to a good university outside the province is another matter.
Third, the familiar environment in the province is more conducive to finding a job and developing.
I have a deep-rooted personal relationship in the province, I am familiar with the social environment and know how to behave. Conducive to job hunting and development. Outside the province, it is a relatively strange place, and most of them go abroad to work hard. The difficulties and setbacks can be imagined.
Children are the heart of parents, and parents are always worried about their children. This is just like many parents don't want their daughters to get married far away. It's normal that you don't want your children to go to college outside the province.
In fact, it is also a wise choice for most students to apply for universities in the province. what do you think?
There are several factors that determine this phenomenon.
1. distance.
If your child goes to college in the city around you, like a child, parents can visit her in the city where the child is located, or the child can often go home to accompany his parents, so there is basically no sense of distance.
But if children go to college in far-away cities, they can only go home in winter and summer vacations. During this period, if parents want their children or children to be like their parents, they can only communicate by telephone or internet. , but this is definitely not a friendly meeting.
2. Work.
One thing parents are worried about is that if their children go to a university in a distant city, they may find jobs in the city or province where the university is located when they graduate. At this time, their work place is far from home, and their children may settle in their city in the future, so parents and children will be separated in two far places, which will cause a lot of trouble.
In the future, if children go to a distant city to settle down, after all, parents need children to take care of them when they are old, and separation between the two places is not an option; My parents have lived in the city where she lives for a long time. They are used to the pace of life in such a city. If they are asked to live in another place, they may not be able to accept it psychologically, or their living habits are not used to it.
3. Daughter's marriage.
If children go to work in a distant city, they may work and settle in that distant place in the future. Their future marriage may also settle in that city. The last thing parents want is for their daughters to get married far away. It will be very troublesome for parents to miss their children.
If the child is a kite, the parents are the kite-flying people, and the parents' care and thoughts are the strings that pull the kite. In the minds of most parents, there is an idea that the closer a child is to himself, the better. Children come all the way to worry that no matter how old they are, even if they have grown up, even if they are admitted to their favorite universities, they will always be their parents' hearts. If parents have a choice, more than 90% of parents will choose to go to universities in the province or leave the province to study at universities.
Parents don't want their children to go to universities outside the province for the following reasons: First, the enrollment index of universities in the province is much higher than that outside the province. For a simple example, the enrollment indicators of Tsinghua and Peking University, regardless of unified recruitment or independent enrollment (Peking University's Boya Plan and Tsinghua's Leading Plan), are biased towards students with Beijing hukou. Therefore, most parents let their children stay in the province, because the results of the college entrance examination are hard. Even if parents want their children to save exercise, if the score of the college entrance examination is not high, their children's dream of going out of the province will also fail.
Secondly, most parents' contact information is in the province. Where will the children go after graduation? Many parents almost have the consciousness of "returning the fallen leaves to their roots". When children go back to their hometown to find a job, their contacts are more solid and wider, and their employment conditions are better than those outside the province. Of course, if the children's grades are good enough and the colleges they are admitted to are high enough, there will be no problem in finding jobs after graduation. In this case, parents will still reluctantly let their children go out of the province to open up a new world of their own.
Third, the awareness of raising children to prevent old age is deeply rooted. Many children who study in universities in other provinces often choose to work and get married in other provinces after graduation, leaving their lonely parents at home. There is an elderly woman in my hometown. She lost her husband in her early years and raised her only child with a handful of shit and urine. Later, her children went to college in Jiangxi. After graduating from college, her children looked for jobs in Jiangxi. Without the mother's knowledge, the child quietly entered a family in Jiangxi. This aunt has hardly seen her son for more than ten years.
Finally, two years ago, my aunt passed away, and she was left alone in my old house for three days. It was not until the fourth day that the neighbor borrowed a hoe from her mother's house and found that her door was unlocked and her body was found that she had been dead for a long time. Fortunately, it was very cold in the days when my aunt died. If the weather is like today, it is estimated that three days will be enough to turn aunt's body into rotten bean dregs before cremation ... "
The tragedy of "the tree wants to be quiet, but the wind does not stop, and the child wants to raise it, but not to wait for it" is not only that children don't want to see it, but also that parents don't want to meet such a fate.
If you agree with me, please like and pay attention. Welcome friends with different opinions to write down your thoughts in the comments section. Thank you! There are many factors involved, and everyone has different ideas. But the general reason is nothing more than grades, family factors and parents' ideas. Let's talk about why these factors lead some parents not to let their children go out to college.
Reasons for scores Many universities outside the province have high enrollment scores. Even the scores of two universities outside the province can be read in this province. Children's grades are not very high, so I don't have much confidence in filling schools outside the province. I might as well stay in the province and study. It is not that I don't want to go out, but that I really want to go out. Parents know the truth, but it's not that their children's grades are disappointing.
Family factors Some families have industries and connections in this province. Children stay in this province to go to school, and starting a business has advantages for future work. Some parents have even planned everything for their children after four years, and the road has been paved, just waiting for their children to graduate from college. If you go to study abroad, you still need to come back to work in the province after four years. In the end, we have to go back to the original point. It is better to stay at the original point.
Parents are very worried about their children, and every parent doesn't want their children to be too far away from them. Poor Chengfeng, the child is just a piece of meat falling from himself. How can he go so far? Therefore, I don't want my children to study outside the province, and I am worried that my children will not adapt, eat badly, sleep badly and wear warm clothes outside the province. Some children are also homesick or inseparable from their parents, who know their children's situation. Therefore, I don't want my children to go out to study. Leave the children with you. If you miss them, you can go to school and go home on weekends. Parents can rest assured.
Whatever the reason, parents are for our own good. Parents are far more and longer-term than we thought. Those children who are still studying in the province should stop nagging their parents and spend more time with their parents on weekends. Those children who go to study outside the province should spend their summer vacation at home with their parents and stop running around.
Guangzhou has the strongest parent-child concept!
This is related to the economic development of Guangdong. In the final analysis, I still have to come back to find a job! Some parents feel good about themselves and think they are superior to the environment! It is also one of the reasons!
Psychologically speaking, there are not many people who come to enroll students, and the requirements are different from those in the local area. This is a little psychological disapproval! We have also been to some school stalls in other provinces. Their ideal life has long been preset. Those who don't conform are not very enthusiastic.
Judging from the environment and climate, it is difficult for us to adapt to the cold in the north! Of course, this is a cognitive problem.
There are still some people who will know about the study abroad of the previous seniors. For reference! There are several main problems: first, the food is not acclimatized and the self-care ability is poor! Second, the integration ability is not so good! Some students studying in other places love to send out boring things and make irresponsible remarks! None of this is good. Our leader is from Fudan, and people have great feelings for Shanghai. It's a fact!
It really is. At that time, my son finished the college entrance examination and wanted to go out to study, but neither his son nor his father wanted him to go too far.
My son had a quarrel with us at that time. He thinks that when he grows up, he can make his own decisions. We used to be in charge for more than ten years. Now I can finally get rid of us. I just want to see the outside world.
But my son's father and I feel that there is only one child and we don't want him to be too far away. Because we are afraid that he will go to other provinces to study like my sister's children and stay in the local area after graduation.
My elder sister's house is now my brother-in-law's. My nephew stayed in Wuhan, and now he has asked my sister to take care of the children. My eldest sister-in-law is over 60 years old and has been busy with housework in the fields for many years. If a person doesn't want to get food, he will make do for a long time.
Because of this, I told my nephew several times to ask my sister to come back quickly. Dajiefu has been like this for a long time, and his health is unbearable. My nephew was embarrassed and said that if his mother didn't help him with the children, he would have to hire a nanny. That month will cost at least several thousand yuan.
But my brother-in-law is reluctant to part with the money. He said that my sister is raising children in Wuhan, which is equivalent to earning several thousand yuan a month. He just has to work hard. He is in good health and will be fine. But we think that if my nephew works in Chengdu, even if my sister takes care of the children, the whole family can drive home to see his father on weekends.
When my son was clamoring to go to other provinces to study, I told him about my eldest sister-in-law. I asked him if he also hoped that his father would become a left-behind old man like his great uncle in the future. My son said that even if he went to other provinces to study, he would return to Chengdu after graduation.
I told my son not to be so absolute. At that time, his cousin also said that he would return to Chengdu after graduation. But in the graduation season, Wuhan enterprises came to the school to recruit, and his cousin felt good, so he chose to stay in Wuhan, which developed well in all aspects.
My son is still hesitating. I said there are also good universities in Sichuan. Go to Sichuan to go to college first. If you really want to go outside, you can take an examination of graduate students from other provinces in the future. Listen, my son agreed. After graduating from Sichuan University, he was admitted to Beihang University as a graduate student and stayed in Beijing for three years.
We don't have to work, and the housing prices in Beijing scare him away. After graduating from graduate school, he returned to Chengdu. The stone in our hearts has finally landed, and Chengdu is only an hour or two's drive from home. Even if he is busy at work and has no time to go home, his father and I can drive or take a bus to see him.
Conclusion: It can be said that most parents want their children to be closer to themselves. I miss my children the same way, so it's convenient to see them. Children who go to other provinces to study may stay in other provinces. In this case, parents should take good care of their children.
In addition, when children stay in other provinces, parents are afraid that their children will not adapt to the local climate and worry that their children will not be used to the local diet. After all, children have lived in their hometown for 189 years and have long been used to the climate and food in their hometown.
Finally, parents don't want to be separated for a long time. If the child stays in other provinces, he certainly doesn't want his parents to take the child back to his hometown. This includes mothers taking care of their grandchildren. My mother left, and my father stayed at home alone for a long time, living a hungry life like my sister-in-law.
Guys, do you think I'm right?
"Children travel thousands of miles, but mothers worry". Some parents don't want their children to go out to college. The reason is nothing more than one word: love!
This kind of love of parents contains all kinds of complicated emotions that children can't understand.
Let me give you an example first: my friend's children insisted on going to other provinces to go to college in the college entrance examination, but their parents had no choice but to follow their children. On the day when children report to the university, they should take the bus first and then fly. Because of the long journey, father went to see the children off alone. When I get to college, I can only go home on vacation once every semester, that is, I have no chance to see my parents except for holidays in a year.
Although modern communication tools are very developed, you can send a message and a video when you miss your child, but those short minutes are always difficult to soothe parents' thoughts and worries about their children. Later, the child was admitted to graduate school and stayed in school after graduation. Since then, you have been separated from your parents by thousands of miles. If you were your parents, how would you feel?
It is different for children to go to school in the province. For children who want to go home, it only takes a few hours to get on the bus. For parents, if they miss their children, they can meet them on weekends and feel that they are around and will never go far. This is one of them.
Second, there is another advantage of going to college in the province, that is, it is more convenient for employment and life in the future. Parents' contact information is mostly in the province, so we can help each other if there is anything between us. Even classmates and friends, because they are close and often come and go, parents can use their contacts to help their children when they encounter difficulties. After marriage, having children will make it easier for parents to take care of them.
Many people always want to fly away from their parents when they are young. In fact, at a certain age, knowing that you are close to home is really a blessing. These, parents understand, children don't understand.
Third: Generally speaking, the number of colleges and universities in the province is much higher than that in other provinces. For example, Zheng Da University enrolled 75,565,438+0 students in Henan in 2065,438+09. Which university in China can recruit so many students in Henan? Therefore, parents think it is more likely to be admitted to colleges and universities in the province.
Of course, parents will never stop their children from studying in other provinces, but encourage them, hoping that their children will have greater development and better prospects in the future.
Therefore, whether parents let their children go to school outside the province or in the province, it is out of love! This love will never fade.
I have done a lot of volunteer counseling for children's college entrance examination before. There have also been many interviews with parents. One question that must be asked in the interview is: Do you want your children to go to college in or outside the province?
Basically, most parents choose to stay in the province, but children themselves like to run outside the province. There are basically several reasons why parents like to stay in the province:
First, the first month is favorable, and studying in the province is more conducive to employment in the province.
Many people choose where to work when they study basically. 50% of schools with a low proportion will stay in the local area; The proportion is very high, even 80% will stay there.
A parent told me that he hoped his child would work in the province in the future, because his family could help him when he was looking for a job, and they were beyond their reach outside the province. His family does some business, his brother and wife are civil servants, and his grandparents work in state-owned enterprises, so no matter which way the children take, they can help at home.
Second, parents feel that the schools in their province are better, with high admission probability and great selectivity.
Many parents in Shandong think that Qingdao University, Shandong University of Science and Technology, Qingdao University of Science and Technology, Shandong Normal University and so on. It is a very good school in our province, and it is highly recognized in the province.
If the score is the same, assuming it is above 20 19 560, you can choose an acceptable major in all the above schools. But if you go outside the province, you may not be able to go to the same school, so you can only choose a worse one.
If you want to choose a school in an area with the same grade and similar economy as Shandong, you need at least 570 points, or even 575-580 points.
Many schools in the province have many professional choices, and most schools generally have dozens of majors to choose from. Schools outside the province generally have only a dozen majors to choose from.
Third, parents feel that their children are still young and they are not at ease to go outside the province. They want to be with them, and their children are worried for thousands of miles.
Now many students are only children. Basically, they have done nothing at home but study.
Parents feel that they have gone outside the province. Although the transportation is very convenient now, they still feel that it is difficult to get there if something happens.
If it is in the province, it seems to be very close. If you want to find a child, it is very easy. You can always support your children.
First, emotional factors. As the saying goes, parents do not travel far. Every parent wants their children to be around, so they can go and see them if they want, and meet them from time to time, although communication is very convenient now and the network is very fast, so they can video chat. The traffic is also very developed. No matter where you are, money is still possible, but blood relationship can't be stopped by any space and distance. No matter how much video chat, it is better to meet once in a while. Children are close to themselves, and parents are practical, even if they don't contact each other for a year. Children are far away from themselves, and they still miss watching videos every day. The disappearance of a child will be very painful for parents.
Tell a true story about me. After graduating from college, my sister went to Guangzhou, where she bought a house and got married. My mother chats with her sister almost every day. The content of the call is the same every day. These are parents, and this is family.
Second, work factors. In addition to those schools that are particularly powerful, ordinary people still have to return to their hometowns in big cities like Beishangguangshen and Shenzhen after graduation. Since we are returning home, the employment of schools in this province will have a geographical advantage.
To sum up the above two points, parents don't want their children to go to college in other places.